Code words help her get comfortable
With the right encouragement (and some deft manipulation), you really can get her into the habit of ripping your shirt open and pushing you onto the kitchen table. Use code words. Women are usually the better communicators, but not necessarily in the bedroom. "She might want to have sex but feel too shy to convey that to her partner," says Cynthia Lief Ruberg, a sex and relationship counselor in Columbus, Ohio. To find out if that's her, wait until she's in a playful mood, then ask her to help you come up with a secret code word or phrase for sex. "Creating your own language for sex helps intimacy and can get past her embarrassment," says Ruberg. Can't think of anything? Try "giddyap."
With the right encouragement (and some deft manipulation), you really can get her into the habit of ripping your shirt open and pushing you onto the kitchen table. Use code words. Women are usually the better communicators, but not necessarily in the bedroom. "She might want to have sex but feel too shy to convey that to her partner," says Cynthia Lief Ruberg, a sex and relationship counselor in Columbus, Ohio. To find out if that's her, wait until she's in a playful mood, then ask her to help you come up with a secret code word or phrase for sex. "Creating your own language for sex helps intimacy and can get past her embarrassment," says Ruberg. Can't think of anything? Try "giddyap."
