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what is it like to be a dad?
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Beacuse being a cop and dealing with the scum of the earth everyday
turns most good people into assholes? -
Although, you live in BFE so being a kuntry cop might nawt be as bad.
I'd think about doing the DNR thing though...
They have all the same authority as a MI state trooper,
but the job is way different.
DNR - How to Become a Conservation Officer
I'd think about doing the DNR thing though...
They have all the same authority as a MI state trooper,
but the job is way different.
DNR - How to Become a Conservation Officer
Is this when she'll finally let you have sex with her?
Damn, you beat me to it.
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Say goodbye to that body. Unless she works out....and is DEDICATED.
Like KelJu, it sounds like a nightmare. And I know you dont want to hear this, but all of a sudden my life just got better.
I have major issues with this sort of shit, so perhaps my negativity belongs else where.
Say goodbye to that body. Unless she works out....and is DEDICATED.
Like KelJu, it sounds like a nightmare. And I know you dont want to hear this, but all of a sudden my life just got better.
I have major issues with this sort of shit, so perhaps my negativity belongs else where.
she likes to work out she was a D-1 cheerleader. i dont mind you saying that everyone has their point of view on things like this i dont mind yours at all.
look, I wish you both the best of luck but the fact of the matter is being a mom or dad at 18 is the worst thing that could happen to someone, you just threw your life down the drain (so to speak), you're supposed to graduate high school, go to college, start a career, then in your late twenties or early thirties start a family, it is HIGHLY doubtful that either one of you will go to college, and even if you start college, chances are you will never finish it. I am just being a realist here, just don't forget it's not too late to get an abortion. Until you actually have a baby you have no clue what you're about to take on, you're entire life will change 100%.
Speaking from experience, I hope you and your girl love each other and stay together, because missing 15 years of my children's lives is my biggest regret in life. I don't care what anyone says, if your not in their life 24/7 you're not a dad, you're just their father and the two are not the same. Best of luck.
don't listen to this garbage
IMO it's only garbage if both parents are committed to keeping a family together. Otherwise, 4 lives are fucked up for a long time, maybe forever. Some people just aren't fit for parenting, as a matter of fact, I would say most. Even alot of those that think they are dump so much of their emotional baggage on their kids, it takes most of their adult life to recognize and deal with it.
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Dont listen to THIS garbage.
she looks a bit older than you bud, if you dont mind me asking what age is she?
You're an idiot.
Rubes,
If seeing your posts has taught me anything about you, it's that you are in no way shape or form ready to have a child.
Do yourself, your girlfriend and this child a service and abort it.
Yummy mummy.
im a little better then most of you might think with kids. i was the father figure for my oldest nephew for almost a year while his dad sat in jail for being a dipshit.....
the moms also 18
college will happen somehow we'll figure it out. if it means im stuck not going for a few years then so be it ill let her finish.
the moms also 18
college will happen somehow we'll figure it out. if it means im stuck not going for a few years then so be it ill let her finish.
I know what I posted sounded a bit harsh, but it's reality...no teenager should be a parent, hell I don't think most people are ready to be parents until their around 30. Kids are supposed to go to college, get a career going, etc., then once they are mature enough themselves and have a solid foundation in life, financially and emotionally, then they are ready to raise kids, until then they are just kids themselves. Teens having kids just pisses me off, I think its irresponsible and unfair to both the teen parents and the baby they bring into this world.
Now, here is a true story that I don't often tell...I got my high school girlfriend pregnant, we were both 17 years old (yes we were being irresponsible). I told my mother who did NOT believe in abortion and my mom said she's getting an abortion and I am going to help you both do it! Why? Because she believed exactly what I said above...and I thank her for facilitating that abortion, having a baby at 17 would have been the worst mistake for both of us.
Either way, it's just my opinion and I don't think its "garbage", you can disagree if you wish.
I agree with prince. this is not a great situation to be.
Rubes.....don't go in the mentality of "college will happen somehow we'll figure it out. if it means im stuck not going for a few years then so be it ill let her finish."
Seriously, you have to MAKE it happen. If you are serious about having this kid at your age, don't fuck around with putting college off. You need to provide for this kid and that starts with getting and education and a job that pays you enough to support a family!
Rubes.....don't go in the mentality of "college will happen somehow we'll figure it out. if it means im stuck not going for a few years then so be it ill let her finish."
Seriously, you have to MAKE it happen. If you are serious about having this kid at your age, don't fuck around with putting college off. You need to provide for this kid and that starts with getting and education and a job that pays you enough to support a family!
i can get into college thru my job they will pay for college while im still working for them so mine is taken care of. hers will have to come thru grants and stuff like that i think
Can I ask why you're so set on having this child?
Are you one of those crazy people who doesn't believe in abortion?
Are you one of those crazy people who doesn't believe in abortion?
You might wanna think about the military. Pick a good job with them so that when your time is up you can still use your new skills in the civilian world. They well take care of you, your baby mama (if you marry her 
) and your baby. Good luck bro.
) and your baby. Good luck bro.
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So you believe in fate/karma/bullshit.
Thats my opinion of course (bullshit), but I find it as "unhealthy thinking." People say those lines to cope with bad news and though it helps, its just a bunch of words.
You arent going to die from this and its not the end of the world, but your hopes and dreams now seem impossible. Hell, my hopes and dreams are damn near impossible and I have NO kids and NO wife.
Life isnt easy. There are reasons us 'elders' are saying these things.
you are an idiot as well as a complete ass.
How would you do the child a service by killing it?
Not directed to you Rubes....just a general question from one of those crazy people.
Um, what's wrong with adoption, fellahs?
Um, what's wrong with adoption, fellahs?
Giving birth to a child only to give it away. I don't even feel the need to elaborate on why this is ludicrous...Not directed to you Rubes....just a general question from one of those crazy people.
Um, what's wrong with adoption, fellahs?
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