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Whats the best way to approach women in the gym

squigader said:
Make eye contact a few times. Make sure you've seen each other at the gym for a few sessions. Spark up a conversation with "hey, I've seen you around here a few times/a lot". Go from there :) Throw in some humor or a compliment like "Excuse me for saying, but you really don't need to be running on that treadmill"
It's all about just going and saying something! Unless they've got the angry face on, most girls don't mind a short chat in the gym.
Also, make sure you're on a cut and you have a little bit of a pump going :D
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Squigader is on the mark.
You can move in on women more quickly so long as you are non threatening.
Hi I'm ( ) is a great opening line with any innocent followup.
Chances are if she has been around for awhile she has been watching you, if she is interested in you.
Most guys are so very oblivious to the women around them that are checking them out.
The best thing is to be aware of women that are looking at you when they think your not looking. Be aware of women that are near you / following you without appearing to do so.
Don't get a rep as a player. Most women aren't into NSA one night stands with a guy that goes to their favorite gym.
 
I agree with this ^^^


Confidence and humor are what get me interested in a guy. I also love the types that don't talk to every female in the gym. I'm talkin the guy that is there to train and train hard. He is the one I will be looking at.
 
Just hang around the water cooler licking your eyebrows
 
TJTJ said:
I've always felt it to be kind of slime ball-ish to hit on women at the gym. I also see the gym as a place of zen and don't want to be bothered. I think some women might think the same way. I don't believe they want to feel uncomfortable and hit on every time they go to workout. I know there are women out there who's sole purpose is to be ogled and macked to when they go to the gym. I'm not concerned about those sluts.

My question is what is the best approach to break the ice and not come off like some creep? Im respectful of women and don't like invading their space.

Thoughts?
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First question what state u from! All girls luv getting hit on! Sum straight up some in the most sublest way . goin through it right now


way!
 
Mothergoose said:
First question what state u from! All girls luv getting hit on! Sum straight up some in the most sublest way . goin through it right now


way!
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I wouldn't go that far. There are some days that I would just like to get my workout done. Watch for that leave-me-the-hell-alone vibe.
 
I personally would never hit on a chick at the gym, let her approach you. Same as waitresses, and bartenders.

Women at the gym are there to get fit, and women that are waitresses or bartenders are earning a living. They get hit on constantly and you might stand out better if you just play it cool. Eventually they are going to come to you if they are interested. Now if you see them outside of the gym/restaurant/bar then by all means.

Look at it like this, last week I was shopping at a store, and Barry Sanders was 10 feet away from me with a little kid buying some shoes. While my mind was going crazy and wanted to talk to him, I held off. The dude was buying shoes for some kid, I'm sure the last thing he wanted was some asshole starting a conversation while he is shopping. It would have automatically put me douche bag territory.
 
I just walk uo to her and smile and say hey .... Soo .... Do you go gym ?

They smile i smike then the hole gym smiles works every time ;)
 
‎"Men are not subtle men are obvious. Women know what men want. Men know what men want. What do we want? We want women! It's the only thing we know for sure: we want women! How do we get women? Oh, we don't know that. After that first step, we have no idea. This is why you see men honking their car horns, yelling from construction sites; these are the best ideas we've had so far." - Jerry Seinfeld
 
Definitely have to catch the vibe of her workout to make sure she is not on a zoned in day.
I have several hot female friends that work out and I ask them to hook me up if I haven't been able to break the ice.
Having a girl as a wing man when your out makes is easy, girls like guys that other girls like.
 
okay so maybe this is the last place i should be but the question is a good one ibelieve nikkii response makes perfect sense when im in the gym im focused, intensity is pretty in sane so the last thing i want is to be interupted i think the woman in the sport are beautiful and i wouldnt mind meeting acouple of the girls at my gym but up to this point ive respected the fact that apersons time in the gym is for training but the subtle gestures mentioned here are actualy ice breakers thanks
 
castlehill said:
Definitely have to catch the vibe of her workout to make sure she is not on a zoned in day.
I have several hot female friends that work out and I ask them to hook me up if I haven't been able to break the ice.
Having a girl as a wing man when your out makes is easy, girls like guys that other girls like.
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Lmao! Hell yeah it never fails, I have some hot friends with benefits also that are awesome wing man cuz they dont cock block cuz they know im a nice guy and im going to get with other girls with or without their help, so they just go with the flow, besides im always available for them whenever they need some lovin, its a pretty sweet friendship! Nice guys always get ahead undetected like silent ninjas!
 
I would think it would come off as creepy. I'm just happy about looking at some fit bodies working out. Before going home to the lady.
 
TJTJ said:
Are we playing internet tough guy? Trying to stand up for her? Dude relax. I wasnt judging shit. Im sure she didnt take it the way youre taking it, up the ass. And youre calling me a queerbag?!

What she described sounded like something a kid would do. Im willing to approach them. Not hand notes around and hope the teacher doesnt catch me. I appreciate her chiming in, though.

Read the OP. Im not 'afraid" to talk to women, dickhole. Im asking what women think is a gentlemanly way to approach a woman at the gym. Because there are plenty of slime balls who visit the gym and Im sure creep them out.

And GD whats with all the dudes hanging around the Female forum, anyways?
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Hey TiT, relax. He's fucking with you. Here's a dollar, go buy a sense of humor.
Don't be creepy, just smile, get in her way and say excuse me. If she talks, followup. A good giveaway is, if she has headphones on, dont bother. She's all business and just wants to get her workout in.
It's a slow process, but if the chick is worth it, continue saying hi every so often, and see if she's receptive. If not, be careful, and move on to the next chick and see if that works. Dont do it in one week, because you'll be creeping.
 
just approach them and show your abs and say " you mad?" they love assholes
if theyre like the other girls then they goto gym to get stuffed. if not then obviously this bitch is wack
 
HATE getting hit on at the gym. I think if a female is there, no makeup, sweaty hair and iPod in then LEAVE HER ALONE. If she's there with full make up, hair down and perfect and prancing around then go for it!
 
Schez said:
HATE getting hit on at the gym. I think if a female is there, no makeup, sweaty hair and iPod in then LEAVE HER ALONE. If she's there with full make up, hair down and perfect and prancing around then go for it!
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I kinda agree with this, IMO I wouldn't really try to 'pick up' one at the gym. Maybe try and walk out at the same time n talk to her outside, then you'll you'll know if she's try'n to blow you off, instead of try'n to get to her next set. If you do see that she's kinda interested, DONT ask if you want to go out, that gives her a chance to say no, lol! Ask her for her number, so you can call her, sometime.
But, you'll know during the convo, if you should ask that or just say I'll see ya around. Good luck, brah.! And remember, all girls are the same.
 
MDR said:
Nothing wrong with being casually friendly and seeing if she's interested over time. I think women are often pretty good at letting us know if they are interested. After you build a bit of a friendship, ask her out for a drink or some coffee and go from there. Even if she says no, she probably won't be uncomfortable with being asked.
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I like that. Just say hi, smile, exchange a few brief words... let her reciprocate the interest, though. If she's interested, she'll think of some reason to start a conversation with you... maybe ask for some training tips, or something. Then you're cleared to ask her out for a post-workout smoothie!

We meet people where we meet them... nothing wrong with being interested in a woman at the gym. It's good; you already have something in common!
 
Schez said:
HATE getting hit on at the gym. I think if a female is there, no makeup, sweaty hair and iPod in then LEAVE HER ALONE. If she's there with full make up, hair down and perfect and prancing around then go for it!
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No, no you got it all wrong. I go to the gym with makeup and I always wear my hair down and it's not so some fuckstick can hit on me. The powder that I put on my face absorbs the perspiration and I find I break out less and how the hell am I supposed to lie on a bench with a pony tail in the back of my head? That's just uncomfortable.
 
hoyle21 said:
I personally would never hit on a chick at the gym, let her approach you. Same as waitresses, and bartenders.

Women at the gym are there to get fit, and women that are waitresses or bartenders are earning a living. They get hit on constantly and you might stand out better if you just play it cool.
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I kind of disagree with that advice. Just because I'm at the gym doesn't mean I'm not looking for a guy. I'd be just as single at the gym as I would be anywhere else. But I do turn the 'flirt' way down, because the male:female ratios are so skewed there. I don't want to lead anyone on with too much friendliness, so I play it extra cool. The best 'flirt' you might ever expect from me at the gym would be a nod and maybe a little smile as I'm working out. On the flip side, I also EXPECT a certain amount of attention from the guys there. I'm something to look at, that's how it is, and we all know it. A guy would need to display some extra interest to get me to reciprocate (if I'm interested back). Just go for it. You'll never know unless you try, at least with girls like me.

Also, I'm one of those intense looking girls, who's there on a mission (I am), headphones in, sweating buckets. It's who I am. I probably look totally unapproachable. And, when I'm doing my workout, I don't exactly want to get into a long conversation no matter how cute you are, but I'd never be irritated by someone who interrupted me briefly with a question and a smile, or who had a quick word while I re-fill my water or wipe down a machine... just don't hold me up more than a couple seconds. If I'm interested, you'll notice that those opportunities for a quick word are going to start coming up a lot. :)
 
While you are in the locker room, lick the back of your amex black card and stick it to your forehead. Then go workout as usual, and the women will approach you.
 
juggernaut said:
Done properly, who says??
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Let me clarify that. If a girl is smiling at you and obv is checking you out then making a move at the gym is totally fine.


BUT if you are like some of these creeper dudes at my gym who eye rape every girl with a nice ass then it's not cool.

Even when I was single I went to the gym to lift and look good for the club where meeting girls is the norm.
 
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