As a relative third party, all I can see is Repro, BC, and Akira acting pretty rational and Blooming Lotus, Syn, and Little Wing acting irrational.
I wish I knew Repro and Akira in person because I think we'd be great friends based on their personalities here. I think Akira made a huge mistake by pushing the girl, but I can forgive him for that. Someone once told me that it is a stupid man who cannot forgive, a naive man who will forgive and forget, and a smart man who forgives but does not forget for if we do not know our past we are doomed to repeat it.
Back on topic, the rules are fairly simple to follow, no nudes in your sigs or gallery. This is a private business and Prince has to appeal to advertisers. I've seen pictures disappear in regular posts, so I have no doubt that someone pulls them or censors them to some degree. I see people complaining about not being able to use this site at work and I just don't care, aren't you supposed to be doing something more important (sure I check it sometimes, but I know what to expect, and I've only been around for a month and a half). We all knew what this was about when we signed up here, there was no surprise, so please stop complaining.