Why do girls like assholes and standoff'ish guys better than funnay and outgoing boy?

[troubador]

In my experience. Women have no clue what they want. Even less. They never want the same thing from year to year or month to month.

Most women are followers. They seek out men with perceived value. If a lot of women like Steve Buschemi. Then a woman will find him attractive. If she is dating a guy that she hates, and one of her girlfriends is checking him out. She will stay with the guy because he has value.

Value to women is the ultimate Axe Body Spray

This is true but any reason anybody is attracted to anybody is that they perceive some value about them in whole or part.

 

[GoodManners]

. Dick is worth dick where as pussy is the most valuable commodity on the planet.

You give them that value, that worth, by thinking that way. Be secure in who you are - value yourself first. Then - as VikingWarlord says - make it something that you don't just give away. people should earn it.

That alone makes you appealing to the opposite sex.

Be a blend of the alpha and the beta male when needed.

 

[jkelley69]

I just got dumped after 8 years and i will say there is such a thing as being to nice.I treated her like a fucking queen for years and when ever she didnt get her way she would pout and i sometimes felt like she would leave me if she didnt get her way so she always got her way there is much more to this story if you want to see i have a thread in open chat (i need help) so like 6 or7 months ago she was going to leave me she thought i was being mean and treating her bad cus she gaine a bunch of weight after she had our son.i would try to help her by giveing advice cus she wanted to loose some weight I wanted her to loose some but only cus some of her family has weight issues and many health problems because of it but she never dedicated herself to it and took any advice or critacisme as being mean.The only thing ive ever asked from her was to be responsibile with money and help out more I never gave a shit about her weight gain as far as looks go she was still the most beutiful thing in the world to me for three days i begged her to try it again that we could work it out.After that i was so fucking scared of loosing her i let her do what ever she wanted spend what ever i did complain about it but was just a pushover it wasnt so bad for about 3 months all i wanted was for her to show me in any way she still loved me and cared for me and it just didnt happen i lost 25 pounds the rest of the summer cus i was so depressed and in the en she left.She also tried saying i would use her for sex cus she would always want to buy shit when we couldnt afford it or do stuff where i wouldnt get to spend time with her so i would say well what do i get wich is what she use to do to me all the time,say well if you buy me this i will do this alot of times she never held up her end of the bargin and i would be bummed but she always thought i was mad.I told her many times sex isnt just sex to me it is an emotion it makes me feel loved and cared about all worries go away at least for the time being and the more sex we had the better i felt about things always cared more about pleasing her than me pleasing her pleased me.In the end i got screwed 3 weeks after she left me she was seeing a guy she talked about for months while we were still together.F**K ME.Its going on a month and a half im still misrable.I am 33 i dont want to start over i wish she would say WTF im i doing and come back but im sure she wont at least the kids still love me.You know how the saying goes wish in one hand and shit in the other and see wich one gets full first.

 

[jkelley69]

Sorry i kind of went off there but one thing i forgot to say was i got treated a whole lot better when she thought i wasnt into her anymore and when she thought i was being mean wich was never the case i loved her for her and now im lost.

 

[GoodManners]

jkelley (or anyone else who has ever dealt with what JK is describing, male or female) - have a look at this blog and see if it has some insight

Married Man Sex Life

At the very least it is interesting

 

[KILLEROFSAINTS]

bad boys rule .. Always!!


a club i've enjoyed being apart of since i was 14.

eddie....prove you have ever touched a woman

 

[Killermonkey]

Because woman respect a man who stand tall and has balls!

Just sayin

 

[sofargone561]

i slap bitches who dont fix me hot meals

 

[Killermonkey]

Being a little funny boy only takes you so far in life- so far in life as in your last year in college. After that, you should be grown up by now and have learned to act like a man.

 

[sofargone561]

not to mention you said funnay.... thats not funny bro so apparently your not funny or a badass. damn life sucks for you

 

[Killermonkey]

He pretty much answered his own question in the title of this thread. Any mature woman will tell you that they want boys, they want men.

If their men are giving them attention then will turn to boys for quick fuck and nothin more. A man is not man for not regulating every aspect of his life.

Trying to satisfy a relationship down the road, being funny is not going to solve your problems. Being a man that is in charge, can take care of himself, takes no shit from anyone, and deals with shit with a coll head, are all desire able traits that women look for.

Think about this, would expect a funny boy to defend his girlfriend or wife from a bigger and stronger enemy. A man would take on anyone based on principle and vows.

For all you meatheads (myself included), being funny does not work for us. Nobody wants to laugh at a guys jokes where they know he can kick anyone who is being the joke's ass!

 

[sofargone561]

He pretty much answered his own question in the title of this thread. Any mature woman will tell you that they want boys, they want men.

If their men are giving them attention then will turn to boys for quick fuck and nothin more. A man is not man for not regulating every aspect of his life.

Trying to satisfy a relationship down the road, being funny is not going to solve your problems. Being a man that is in charge, can take care of himself, takes no shit from anyone, and deals with shit with a coll head, are all desire able traits that women look for.

Think about this, would expect a funny boy to defend his girlfriend or wife from a bigger and stronger enemy. A man would take on anyone based on principle and vows.

For all you meatheads (myself included), being funny does not work for us. Nobody wants to laugh at a guys jokes where they know he can kick anyone who is being the joke's ass!

being a jacked assholes tends to make people laugh at shit you say anyway so its a win win

 

[HialeahChico305]

i slap bitches who dont fix me hot meals

this is translation for "im 18 and single"

 

[sofargone561]

this is translation for "im 18 and single"

close but no cigar and no. id rather be 18 and single then a chico. do they have free wifi in front of homedepot? shouldnt u be trying to get work and not on your stolen laptop hating us youngins. atleast i get hot meals

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