Wimps at the bar

[ponyboy]

I went out dancing with my girlfriend for the first time in several months this weekend. What struck me as funny was the way that all the guys hanging out there were behaving. It was a goth/alternative bar, but at the start of the night there were some pretty hot women there - some dressed obviously looking for attention.

Then later on in the night this couple came in, came onto the floor, the women put her coat beside a speaker. The guy picks it up but just stands there (on the dance floor still in his coat). Girl walks over, starts obviously telling him off, grabs the coat and puts it back. Guy goes into an obvious pout. Girl walks away, comes back ten minutes later after grinding with another guy in front of him - they start a fight - mostly her yelling at him. By now my g/f and I are watching the floor show. She pulls her shirt off and throws it on the floor in front of him and starts dancing in only her bra (and not attractive enough to do this BTW). He picks up her shirt and says nothing. Stands there. Two songs go by. She comes back, grabs her shirt, puts it on, takes him by the hand and they leave the bar.

I told my girlfriend if she ever did something like that to me her ass would be on the curb so fast she would need a spoiler. Are some guys nowadays just huge losers? I saw several examples of extreme pussification all night long - guys buying girls drinks and getting blown off, five guys trying to hit on one girl who obviously had no interest except being an attention whore. And one of my biggest pet peeves is guys dancing who just stand there. Either learn to dance or get the hell off of the floor.

My girlfriend got hit on - by another girl. I thought that was pretty cool.

I guess there is no point to this thread except to make sure all you guys out there don't end up like this loser I saw Saturday night.

 

[ihateschoolmt]

Why were you in a goth bar?

 

[I Are Baboon]

Are some guys nowadays just huge losers?

I wouldn't expect the BAR SCENE to draw the best of the male species.

 

[naturaltan]

Why were you in a goth bar?

why not ... I'm sorta thinking why we don't have one here, and if we do, why don't we know about it.

 

[naturaltan]

I guess there is no point to this thread except to make sure all you guys out there don't end up like this loser I saw Saturday night.

to each their own, but what should he have done? Can't say we've ever had a disagreement like that, but I'm sure I'd do the same thing - let her do her thing, rant, rave and then leave once she was done.

Now, onto more important things, your gf got hit on by another lady ... how did she respond?

 

[sgtneo]

Why were you in a goth bar?

they play the best music in my opinion, but then i dont have any near me, and if i had a girl like that id throw her fucking coat on floor and get with another girl in front of her, but then that sorta thing could just turn her partner on, some people like that

 

[Flex]

I saw several examples of extreme pussification all night long - guys buying girls drinks and getting blown off, five guys trying to hit on one girl who obviously had no interest except being an attention whore.

But I'm SO sick of hearing girls complain that "weirdo" guys come up to them and hit on them, like it doesn't feed their ego.

That's why i don't give chicks any attention when i'm out. If they wanna hit on me, fine. But as Biggie said, "I don't chase 'em, I replace 'em"

 

[Witmaster]

I pulled this off a Goth site. It wasn't this couple was it? If so it could explain a lot.

 

[Flex]

Why were you in a goth bar?

It's called crack. And i love it.

 

[david]

No fight is a good result says a bouncer in a night club!

 

[naturaltan]

But I'm SO sick of hearing girls complain that "weirdo" guys come up to them and hit on them, like it doesn't feed their ego.

whoa, I'm not a weirdo?

 

[Flex]

whoa, I'm not a weirdo?

hahaha, that wasn't what i was sayin', bro!

what im sayin' is, like every chick i talk to at the bar, they all tell me how "weird" guys come up and hit on them, like they expect the man of their dreams to come over (great looking, great personality) to romantically sweep them off their feet at the shithole bar that people are getting hammered at.
They pretend like they don't like it, when we all know it just feeds their ego.

Tis why i don't give 'em the satisfaction of feeding their ego(s) even more.

 

[Yunier]

Disclaimer: First off, excuse my vocabulary and if its offensive DONT read it! Some women might find this offensive so read at your own risk. Lastly, I only speak in regards to the women in the bar/club scenes.


I hear my boy pony!
And Flex got it just right!

I mean women who go out to clubs/bars just want to go and half fun. More then 3/4 of the guys go horny (Don't ask me where I got that from lol) . Women know this and know these horny guys are more then willing to buy drinks just as attempt to get laid. So women in the bar/club scene know how to play the game and manipulate horny guys. And those women can sit here and say no no I don't want attention...Surrrre. Pure B.S. P*ssy is given too much value and starts from grammer school and develops in H.S.

 

[Witmaster]

hahaha, that wasn't what i was sayin', bro!

what im sayin' is, like every chick i talk to at the bar, they all tell me how "weird" guys come up and hit on them, like they expect the man of their dreams to come over (great looking, great personality) to romantically sweep them off their feet at the shithole bar that people are getting hammered at.
They pretend like they don't like it, when we all know it just feeds their ego.

Tis why i don't give 'em the satisfaction of feeding their ego(s) even more.

You don't introduce yourself by saying, "Hi, I once broke a guys arms and legs and buried him alive." do you?

 

[Vieope]

First of all, guys that dance are gay. GAY, I say.

 

[naturaltan]

hahaha, that wasn't what i was sayin', bro!

what im sayin' is, like every chick i talk to at the bar, they all tell me how "weird" guys come up and hit on them, like they expect the man of their dreams to come over (great looking, great personality) to romantically sweep them off their feet at the shithole bar that people are getting hammered at.

I know ... just thought I'd throw that in the ole conversation.

They pretend like they don't like it, when we all know it just feeds their ego.

Tis why i don't give 'em the satisfaction of feeding their ego(s) even more.

me neither, now I send the wife to chat it up with the hotties ...

 

[Witmaster]

First of all, guys that dance are gay. GAY, I say.

Now THIS coming from a Brazillian man absolutely amazes me.

 

[sgtneo]

Disclaimer: First off, excuse my vocabulary and if its offensive DONT read it! Some women might find this offensive so read at your own risk. Lastly, I only speak in regards to the women in the bar/club scenes.


I hear my boy pony!
And Flex got it just right!

I mean women who go out to clubs/bars just want to go and half fun. More then 3/4 of the guys go horny (Don't ask me where I got that from lol) . Women know this and know these horny guys are more then willing to buy drinks just as attempt to get laid. So women in the bar/club scene know how to play the game and manipulate horny guys. And those women can sit here and say no no I don't want attention...Surrrre. Pure B.S. P*ssy is given too much value and starts from grammer school and develops in H.S.

hear where your coming from man, women try to get as much as they can out of men at clubs and bars with out giving any thing back, if we all decided to show no interrest and didnt play along to their little games it could be turned around and we would be getting the drinks. way to expensive to keep offering to buy women drinks at bars and clubs, know all i take is enough money for me to get drunk and have a god night out, women wants my attention then fine dance with me or talk to me

 

[sgtneo]

Now THIS coming from a Brazillian man absolutely amazes me.

i allways thought vieope was a woman lol now im confused

 

[Vieope]

i allways thought vieope was a woman lol now im confused

This was already answered to you here.
http://www.ironmagazineforums.com/showthread.php?p=903599#post903599

 

[sgtneo]

ahh yeah i remember lol, you just seem to post like a women thats all lol

i do have shit memory sometimes though

 

[MrsSquat]

I have way too much respect for my man than to do something like that! The dude's a pussy and should of left her there stranded.

 

[Vieope]

ahh yeah i remember lol, you just seem to post like a women thats all lol

i do have shit memory sometimes though

I don´t. :bounce:

Btw men that bounce are cool, men that dance are still gay.

 

[sgtneo]

lol, i dont really know what i dance like cause to start dancing i have to be drunk, to go full out with girl dancing, ive only done when shit faced and was told that i am a really good dirty dancer lol

but then was too drunk to remember how i danced and what i did lol

 

[naturaltan]

... men that dance are still gay.[/i]

... guess that makes me gay ... so be it.

 

[min0 lee]

I pulled this off a Goth site. It wasn't this couple was it? If so it could explain a lot.

That's funny Wit.

But as Biggie said, "I don't chase 'em, I replace 'em"

Niceeeeeeeee, Flex.

First of all, guys that dance are gay. GAY, I say.

I agree with the Bunny.

i allways thought vieope was a woman lol now im confused

you were right the first time.

 

[Little Wing]

sounds like the couple may have had a mistress - slave thing going on. you never know.

 

[QuestionGuy]

lol, when i go out somewhere where people dance with my girlfriend, there is usually all our friends there, and of course they get all shitfaced drunk and go dancing and have fun, then i come and of course i dont drink (except for like2-3 times a year) then she complains how all the other people dance and i hae a hard time, duh they are all drunk and im not, but usually i still dance its just not as much fun...........ccccc women

 

[myCATpowerlifts]

I can't stand goths!

They act like they are so different and making a statement or some shit
When they are really a bunch of freaks and dorks that got made fun of their whole life!

Take that bitches! Society ownz your asses!

 

[Flex]

if we all decided to show no interrest and didnt play along to their little games it could be turned around and we would be getting the drinks.

I like how this guy thinks!

"Buy me a drink, bitch....
Then maybe i'll let you go home with me and ride me"