i think i'm an ok mom but sex has been a tough area. i want to give honest information that will really help them but my son said the other day the second he had a girl say lets do it he will have his clothes off in two seconds unless she's ugly. he's 12, 13 in july. we had to have the safe sex talk so i explained too how you can get herpes from oral sex and about how you can cut a condom open and use that to have a barrier between the girls vagina and your tongue.... later he said he's never done oral sex to a girl but he already knows he loves it. it scares me the information is encouraging sex... i don't think nailing him in his room is that cool but i'm thinking about it.
last summer it was a girl pressuring him and him not wanting to so we were walking down the street with me explaining how he could make a horny little girl happy without actually having sex by using his hand and how to do that. you do your best and think all the time i hope this is the right thing i hope i'm not fucking up... it's friggin scary how sexualized young kids are the little girls here are like 30 year old women. i buy more video games n stuff and try to keep him home more in sneaky ways like that. burnign tons of movies and series he will like. he just watched 3 virginity preserving seasons of Kung Fu...