doms you are an intelligent human being for fucks sake don't tell me you honestly think gay is a choice? try this on for size - why don't you CHOOSE to be gay for one day. tell me if it made you like men.
Other people choose to like broccoli, so why don't I? Why not long distance running? Self-flagellation? Pink shirts?
Why not? Because I don't like those things. I've
chosen to not like those things.
you cannot change sexual preference at will.
Many fat and/or abused women say otherwise.
i couldn't feel about a woman like i do a man for all the gold in the world.
And because you can't find it into yourself to make such a choice, others can't?
If someone wants to be gay, fine. I don't care one way or another. Truth is, I like hanging around gay men (not women, though), because I generally find them to be fun people.
In the end (no pun intended), there are two realities about homosexuality:
1) It's a choice. Just like choosing green for your car. It suits your tastes.
2) It's not a choice. It's a genetic aberration. It's also a genetic dead end. In nature, animals that don't procreate, have their genetics removed from the gene pool. It's basic Darwinism. If that's so, then homosexuality is of the same order as type 1 diabetes and mental retardation.
My choice is to believe option 1.