OK-so recently my girl and I are talking and I ask her to tell me what would be a "turn-on" for her. Well she says a "leather collar" would be hot. When I asked her what she meant, she said it would be hot for her to wear a leather collar with a leather leash attached. OK-don't laugh at me...So what the hell do I do with the leash and collar on her. (I don't mean have sex). What I mean is...how can I use this in a sex play scenario? I don't think she wants to be lead around like a dog. Anyone have any experience with this?