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Alec Baldwin Message For His Daughter
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Not with hate.
But I agree with part of what he is saying.
I mean, when I grew up, my dad would teach me "hard" lessons.
He wouldn't be afraid to call me a dumbass when i screwed up and smack me across the head. But it taught me to think before I act.
And I believe it helped me a lot.
Hard love is one thing. Screaming into an answering machine at your 11 year old daughter because your pissed is another thing.
And like I stated earlier, girls take things differently than boys. Me with my 3 girls and my sister in law with her 3 boys, trust me its night and day.
And like I stated earlier, girls take things differently than boys. Me with my 3 girls and my sister in law with her 3 boys, trust me its night and day.
No, but I think you're blowing it way out of proportion. You're offended because you think I'm insulting your way of parenting. I'm sure he felt the same way as well only on a much larger scale. I'm not defending what he said, but seriously it's not like he hit her. Maybe it's what she needed to hear. Who knows?
I can agree with maybe she was acting like a brat. However, you DO NOT call your child names. And threaten her. Saying, "Your going to get it whenever I get out there".
Hell maybe she didnt answer the phone because thats they way he talks to her all the time.
Hell maybe she didnt answer the phone because thats they way he talks to her all the time.
I don't see why not. How many guys can say they haven't had a fight or come close to one with their Dad? My mom used to tell me all the time when I was little and in stores acting a fool that she was going to beat my ass when I got home. I don't think it was misplaced. Who are we to say how he should or should not be raising his children. Until he abuses her physically or mentally in some obscene way I see no reason for anyone to interfere. The second we allow other people to tell us how to raise the next generation we've fucked the one after that.
Your talking about getting in a fight with your father and your a male. We are talking about an 11 year old girl. When children are younger than have a much more difficult time with things. As they get older, then things are different.
Again you dont call your child names! You have to act like an adult! You dont act the part of the child as well. Just immaturity coming out.
Again you dont call your child names! You have to act like an adult! You dont act the part of the child as well. Just immaturity coming out.
Yeah, but you can't sit their and say "he's a bad father because he lost his temper". Yeah, damn that guy for being a human, and having human emotions. We can't always be the mature picture perfect people we make ourselves out to be. You can't say anything until you've walked a mile in his shoes.
Exactly what I have told you a 5 times now. You cant say shit until you have walked a mile in a parents shoes. You dont have no idea what it is to have kids. So all of my comments come from me having kids and how I believe parents should raise their kids. What do your comments come from? What you seen on tv? And if you cant act like a responsible role model then to hell with ya. If a guy yells at his daughter on the phone like he did there, its most definitly not the first time.
Pretty bad whenever your daughter gets your worst emotions to come out of you! Again, you have to be the adult. Sure my daughters have seen me pissed, but I dont scream at them and call them names, EVER!
Do I think he should have her taken away? Not yet. I think that he should get supervised visits and after some time on the shrink couch then maybe things could get back to normal. If thats what you call normal.
Pretty bad whenever your daughter gets your worst emotions to come out of you! Again, you have to be the adult. Sure my daughters have seen me pissed, but I dont scream at them and call them names, EVER!
Do I think he should have her taken away? Not yet. I think that he should get supervised visits and after some time on the shrink couch then maybe things could get back to normal. If thats what you call normal.
I get my ideas from how I was raised. I turned out fine. In fact better than fine. I'm much better mannered, spoken, and ten times more compassionate then most of the kids my age, and I grew up hearing worse things everyday then what he said to his daughter. I'm not defending what he said. Their's nothing to defend or debate about. It's none of our business.
Hah, I hear what you're saying. Don't get me wrong man. I understand what you're saying completely. It's not how you would have handled it. I can't offer the same insight because I don't have children. Just my opinion. Thanks for playing devils advocate with me.
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Ok ok, what the fuck is going on?
I am with Repro on most of his arguments, actually all of them. This is clearly a different situation from anyone's on here.
Before this phone call, I remember working LP at Kmart and reading countless Enquirers on this shitty marriage. It looked like he went through hell. He also looked like he had a temper. I would not disagree that hes prolly talked like this before and it is also not impossible to say that it was worse.
However...
Going through all that hell, all that shit women put us through, then you gotta worry about fucking photographers, interviews, public opinions, thats a lot of shit stacked on the usual seperation crisis of parents. This is common sense.
I thought his name callings was totally not needed, but I hardly heard any cuss words (if any). Plus, telling a daughter about getting "it" doesnt seem like anything but parental punishment. I think the call couldve been a LOT worse.
Was it abusive? I guess. I dont know, I am not her. It wasnt nice. It wasnt a model for good parenting.
I am with Repro on most of his arguments, actually all of them. This is clearly a different situation from anyone's on here.
Before this phone call, I remember working LP at Kmart and reading countless Enquirers on this shitty marriage. It looked like he went through hell. He also looked like he had a temper. I would not disagree that hes prolly talked like this before and it is also not impossible to say that it was worse.
However...
Going through all that hell, all that shit women put us through, then you gotta worry about fucking photographers, interviews, public opinions, thats a lot of shit stacked on the usual seperation crisis of parents. This is common sense.
I thought his name callings was totally not needed, but I hardly heard any cuss words (if any). Plus, telling a daughter about getting "it" doesnt seem like anything but parental punishment. I think the call couldve been a LOT worse.
Was it abusive? I guess. I dont know, I am not her. It wasnt nice. It wasnt a model for good parenting.
I don't how being a parent your value's can be absolute.
You know what just worry about raising your own kids and stop worrying about judging how someone else raises there kids, cause really it is non of your business. What you do may work for you, what someone else does works for them.
People need to stop thinking they know the solution to everyones problems, and just mind there own fucking business. If a parents wants to spank so be it, if a parent wants to yell at there kids so be it. Who am I to judge, I know nothing about the situation at hand.
Just worry about you and yours.
You know what just worry about raising your own kids and stop worrying about judging how someone else raises there kids, cause really it is non of your business. What you do may work for you, what someone else does works for them.
People need to stop thinking they know the solution to everyones problems, and just mind there own fucking business. If a parents wants to spank so be it, if a parent wants to yell at there kids so be it. Who am I to judge, I know nothing about the situation at hand.
Just worry about you and yours.
Iain buddy, I think you forgot where you are. This is IM. We talk about EVERYTHING!!! Besides your the mod, ban it.
I was just sharing my input. There is no absolute answer in parenting. Do I agree with what I heard from Alec NO! But who am I to judge. I have my own life and family to worry about.
There is no simple answer to how people parent. Unless we are in that situation how can we evaluate what is right or wrong?
There is no simple answer to how people parent. Unless we are in that situation how can we evaluate what is right or wrong?
I knew you didnt agree with it. And everytime I look at your avatar I see that cute little boy. And I couldnt imagine you calling him a pig! And screaming at him like that!
But imagine you were seperated from your wife, and she had custody of the kids. And does everything she can to teach them you are a douche bag. Remember Guys get the royal screw job in custody battles.
It may not be right, but we are human, and emotions come out.
It may not be right, but we are human, and emotions come out.
Just like the shootings at Va. Tech. They were getting all the info from those kids they could. You know they wanted to be left the fuck alone.
Well I guess nothing like the shooting, but the media is always in a frenzy.
Well I guess nothing like the shooting, but the media is always in a frenzy.
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What a cute little Bromance going on in here...
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Suck it
dont get me involved in your bromance sir....
hahah I actually just wanted to find a thread I could use the word bromance and try to make it sound like I made it up and steal it....and this was the perfect thread to do it in!
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ok you have talked me into it...if there is a glitch in your bromance then I will be your manpon to help you get through the tough times
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