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After a LONG night of drinking and some other bad choices at my girls bday party, I decided to text one of her friends a Cawk pic and some graphic shit as a joke right before I passed out. Problem is, it didn't look or sound like a joke, and my girl saw the texts.

Now, seeing as I should probably stop doing anything that would make any of those actions look like a good or funny idea, what the fuck else can I do?

I've been with my girl forever, and don't want to lose her cause I was fucked up an did some dumb shit.

I DID NOT touch her friend.

The messages I sent sure as shit made it look like I want to.

I kinda feel like I totally screwed the pooch and ruined her bday. Any suggestions on how to get my sorry ass out of the doghouse are greatly appreciated.

To top it all off, all her friends were commenting all night about how muh better I look since they last saw me (my bday in November) how I lost fat, gained muscle, got a decent haircut and a tan...
 
Use what you know about her to do something special for her. I mean it, think of something special. This does not mean that you needs to spend a ton of money, just think of some personal desire of her and fulfill it. This shows that you love her and really understand her. It's the only way to start making it right.
 
Groveling, lots of groveling. Or, dump her for her girl friend that has your dick pic.

Just sayin'
 
Can you text me a cawk pic? Honestly if my cock was as big as yours i would probably show everyone too. Be proud.
 
Put on your cape because you're now Captain Fucked.
 
could be the doghouse brother
 
Foot/back massages, flowers and jewelry always work for me, but then I've never texted cock pix to anyone even my GF...
 
Just gotta own up to it like a man and apologize. Do what ever you gotta do to make it right with your girl. Don't 'play it off' as nothing. Don't manipulate. Just man up, look her in the eye, own your actions, listen to what your girl says... I mean really listen. It was a dumb drunk mistake but if you do this right you guys will be stronger afterwards.

just my 2 cents...
 
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This ^^^

And be ready to have it thrown in your face every time you have an argument. I have been married to a wonderful woman for 25 years and I still hear about shit I did when we were dating.
 
dogsoldier said:
This ^^^

And be ready to have it thrown in your face every time you have an argument. I have been married to a wonderful woman for 25 years and I still hear about shit I did when we were dating.
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Women are the master of anger. They also never forget. That's why I sometimes call them "elephants of hate."
 
Just think, if your girl sent your boy pics of her spread cheeks and frothy snatch, nothing she could say would suffice. I dunno bro, youre kinda screwed. Maybe Take her on vacation soon. and whatever you do, try not to defend what you did at all. Dont argue with her. And make a vow to her that you wont drink anymore. That might give her hope that this wont happen again.

P.s. Is her friend hot?
 
Cgrant said:
After a LONG night of drinking and some other bad choices at my girls bday party, I decided to text one of her friends a Cawk pic and some graphic shit as a joke right before I passed out. Problem is, it didn't look or sound like a joke, and my girl saw the texts.

Now, seeing as I should probably stop doing anything that would make any of those actions look like a good or funny idea, what the fuck else can I do?

I've been with my girl forever, and don't want to lose her cause I was fucked up an did some dumb shit.

I DID NOT touch her friend.

The messages I sent sure as shit made it look like I want to.

I kinda feel like I totally screwed the pooch and ruined her bday. Any suggestions on how to get my sorry ass out of the doghouse are greatly appreciated.

To top it all off, all her friends were commenting all night about how muh better I look since they last saw me (my bday in November) how I lost fat, gained muscle, got a decent haircut and a tan...
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ive seen you brag so many times about your substance abuse and drinking...you are still in terrible shape(probly drinking cals id bet) and are making terrible decisions when inebriated....maybe its time to grow up...what you did is exactly why kos cant drink....or anything
 
KILLEROFSAINTS said:
ive seen you brag so many times about your substance abuse and drinking...you are still in terrible shape(probly drinking cals id bet) and are making terrible decisions when inebriated....maybe its time to grow up...what you did is exactly why kos cant drink....or anything
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Yep
 
and so the answer is clear...time to change your lifestyle...tell her you wouldnt have made the same decisions straight....tell her from now on youll always be straight you wont have an excuse...beg
 
Anyway you could say you thought you sent the pics to her(ur g/f)?....I mean, u WERE fucked up.....ormaybe you don't even remember doing that and when you looked at ur phone in the am you were like "oh fuck"......or try playing it off as "although the night was a blur u do remember taking and sending those pics but thought it was to ur g/f?.....and was like "oh fuck" when u saw who u sent it to.....good luck dude, I know it fuckin blows..........
 
KILLEROFSAINTS said:
and so the answer is clear...time to change your lifestyle...tell her you wouldnt have made the same decisions straight....tell her from now on youll always be straight you wont have an excuse...beg
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My drinking is at maybe 2 days a month. Other substances once a month if that. Until this event, the only thins that were negatively effected were my wallet and my diet.

That being said, much groveling is in my future. Already bought chocolate, flowers and all that.

She blamed it on my elevated test, and 5 minutes later took that back, cause she's the one that reaps the benefits.
 
gman10 said:
Anyway you could say you thought you sent the pics to her(ur g/f)?....I mean, u WERE fucked up.....ormaybe you don't even remember doing that and when you looked at ur phone in the am you were like "oh fuck"......or try playing it off as "although the night was a blur u do remember taking and sending those pics but thought it was to ur g/f?.....and was like "oh fuck" when u saw who u sent it to.....good luck dude, I know it fuckin blows..........
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Yeah. If I hadn't copped to it already that probably wouldn't have worked. Broads are dumb, but I've been with this one for 10 years. She's not that dumb.
 
Okay man...you are obviously totally in control....how does the number of days change how stupid you clearly acted...whatever ...do what you want....denial is classic
 
Listen to KOS. I gave up drinking over 20 years ago (yes, I am older). No I was wasn't an alcoholic, nor was I a weekend binge drinker. It was just like you, once or twice a month, just having a good time. When drunk an evil side of me comes out and I did not like that person.
 
I only drink for a buzz, getting wasted until I can't make good judgement calls doesn't appeal to me anymore. Getting stand up fall down drunk was a blast in my early 20's, but after a point you just end up feeling like a shitbag, and miss out on more fun...
 
SFW said:
Just think, if your girl sent your boy pics of her spread cheeks and frothy snatch, nothing she could say would suffice. I dunno bro, youre kinda screwed. Maybe Take her on vacation soon. and whatever you do, try not to defend what you did at all. Dont argue with her. And make a vow to her that you wont drink anymore. That might give her hope that this wont happen again.

P.s. Is her friend hot?
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This!!
 
Dude that sounds fucked up. Would you ever trust her if she did that to you? The problem here isn't the act itself, but, if you want to be with her, it's the trust issue. I'm not here to judge but I had to come to the realization that I just can't drink like that anymore. I can't stop at a reasonable point so I don't put myself in those situations. And once you have done that for a while, you look at all of the drunk people around and feel a lot better about yourself and it helps solidify the decision you made.

I hope it works out for you.


Now, what did her friend say? And was she flirting with you?
 
I just sent myself a cawk pic, how do i talk my way out of this one?
 
This is never a good thing and I think that you should start by apologizing for what you did then I would take her out to eat at her favorite place and treat her to a movie. I think you should bring her home and give her the business. Make up sex goes a long way when it comes to saying sorry for sure. I think you should start here and then buy some flowers too. You messed up bad but you still have a chance.
 
I think your facing a uphill battle. Truth and sincerity is your only way out of this.
 
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