Originally posted by John H.
Cow. My reasons for not posting a photograph of myself I have stated. I made that statement by way of an explanation for those that are discussing as an adult.
The second paragraph was in answer to a comment / question posed to me as to why I was not posting a photo of myself. I can post a photo of someone who is an honest representative of me since I have been asked to post a photo and I explained why it was not a photo of me. Whether you care or not is not material. I was offering this as a way of those that wanted to know truthfully to have some idea.
As to me asking your age, given the reply you have made I felt it necessary to ask - you sound as if you are younger and not necessarily willing to have a discussion as an adult. You say you wanted to understand why I would not post a photo of myself - I answered that question as an adult. I know what I am talking about and my reasons. If it was just me and no one else would be affected I would post my photos - I know what I have done to accomplish my goals. Those that know me personally know as well. The photos I posted were actually chosen by a couple of Men who know me and they said to me that I certainly looked very much like these men - thus I borrowed these photos based on their unbiased opinions. I have asked others showing them the photos and they have also agreed. I did not even know about these photos myself, they were brought to my attention by others who know me. Also, I am not a person that goes around bragging necessarily or feel I am so "special".
The reason I spoke about the variations that do exist in Sexuality - Heterosexuality, BiSexuality and Homosexuality is because they are all a very natural part of life and living whether you, I or anyone else agree or not. Read this book which gives scientific information about the naturalness: BIOLOGICAL EXUBERANCE, by Bruce Bagemihl (St. Martin´s Press).
I am completely in touch with the way things ARE. I can most definitely defend myself but I am not willing that my family and friends have to experience the b. s. that exists in this world. Some of those that have commented here on this thread for example are proof of their immaturity and total lack of any understanding about life and living.
John H.