Honest question:

[stfuandliftbtch]

This is a questions for the males, sorry girls, I don't think your hormones are high enough to get to feel this. But if you've experienced this from a guy, please chime in. =)

Do you get angry and bothered when your girlfriend/wife won't put out for the day? I have a super high libido, and my girlfriend says she doesn't feel well so she doesn't want to do anything. This happens quite often. We fuck on average 1-2 times a day, but maybe once every maybe 7-10 days, she won't feel like. I try to keep my cool but i get really pissy. It wouldn't be so bad if she would at least offer a fucking bj or hj, but no, nothing. We ended up getting in an argument 5 minutes. I told her i get sexually frustrated when she doesn't put out. She says i am a dick, and went to sleep(the usual thing she does when she is mad.

So am i just being a fucking douche bag or is this usual?

 

[colochine]

She's asleep?

 

[OTG85]

It's the test bro I went threw similar situation few years ago.I just found someone else who likes it almost everyday.

 

[dieseljimmy]

I could write a small bock about this... I have been doing what you have described for the last 5 years...First off no not marry this woman your sex drives do not match. You will be miserable...
Im reasonable generally speaking on most issues. I understand she is not always going to feel in the mood... But I don't feel like she understands that I would like to twice a day... If she did the compromise would not be once a week or once every too weeks. A reasonable 2 to 3 times a week would keep me relatively happy.
Being pissy doesn't help... But it's understAble. You know that feeling when your about to quit a job or team to have to some talk with someone you just don't want to have. That's feeling, thatApprehension, that anxiety... I feel like that even bringing it up in conversation... I know she is going to have an excuse... So most of the time I dont Say anything. That constant craving for touch That is disregarded as unimportant will create this resentment that further deepens the hole of this problem...
i get the im tired excuse all the fucking time... You know what I did to try and fix it. I took over everything around the house, cooking, cleaning, maintance...etc. she literally comes home from work and watches the E channel until I'm done. Cooking her food. Then back to the sofa for prime time comedies while I clean up the dinner and house... Guess what she is still to FUCKING tired. Now I'm more pissy because I do everything to free up her time and I'm still not considered.
land a kid into the mix...the excuse has changed but stayed the same. Now shes exhausted all the time. I still do everything and most of the child care... The sofa has not seen much less use...
but guess what now all I want her for Sex and I'm sexually obsessed...and I feel like screaming in her face-"it your fault bitch" she complains that we are not as lovey as we used to be... I have been reject daily for five year...sorry I do t feel like hugging you with my boner And it is not aas related when im off I feel the same way...when I'm on, my limited patience may be even less.
I am certain that if I did not have a kid, I would have left her... And honestly it's almost not the lack of sex... It's the lack of communication and concern about the one thing I require from her...
Anyways I'm stopping now. Probably come back later....

 

[gettinwood]

I could write a small bock about this... I have been doing what you have described for the last 5 years...First off no not marry this woman your sex drives do not match. You will be miserable...
Im reasonable generally speaking on most issues. I understand she is not always going to feel in the mood... But I don't feel like she understands that I would like to twice a day... If she did the compromise would not be once a week or once every too weeks. A reasonable 2 to 3 times a week would keep me relatively happy.
Being pissy doesn't help... But it's understAble. You know that feeling when your about to quit a job or team to have to some talk with someone you just don't want to have. That's feeling, thatApprehension, that anxiety... I feel like that even bringing it up in conversation... I know she is going to have an excuse... So most of the time I dont Say anything. That constant craving for touch That is disregarded as unimportant will create this resentment that further deepens the hole of this problem...
i get the im tired excuse all the fucking time... You know what I did to try and fix it. I took over everything around the house, cooking, cleaning, maintance...etc. she literally comes home from work and watches the E channel until I'm done. Cooking her food. Then back to the sofa for prime time comedies while I clean up the dinner and house... Guess what she is still to FUCKING tired. Now I'm more pissy because I do everything to free up her time and I'm still not considered.
land a kid into the mix...the excuse has changed but stayed the same. Now shes exhausted all the time. I still do everything and most of the child care... The sofa has not seen much less use...
but guess what now all I want her for Sex and I'm sexually obsessed...and I feel like screaming in her face-"it your fault bitch" she complains that we are not as lovey as we used to be... I have been reject daily for five year...sorry I do t feel like hugging you with my boner And it is not aas related when im off I feel the same way...when I'm on, my limited patience may be even less.
I am certain that if I did not have a kid, I would have left her... And honestly it's almost not the lack of sex... It's the lack of communication and concern about the one thing I require from her...
Anyways I'm stopping now. Probably come back later....

To the OP 7 times a week and your mad come on man. DJ i went through this for 4 years and finally said to hell with it and found someone that had the same drive as me and couldn't be happier now. There's nothing worse than being sexually frustrated all the time and it never seems to get better because you just get more frustrated the longer it goes and it's a horrible strain on a relationship. I've felt your pain, but not anymore with the present lady I'm with... hell I was woke up with a BJ this morning. I might have to marry this girl.lol

 

[myCATpowerlifts]

This is a questions for the males, sorry girls, I don't think your hormones are high enough to get to feel this. But if you've experienced this from a guy, please chime in. =)

Do you get angry and bothered when your girlfriend/wife won't put out for the day? I have a super high libido, and my girlfriend says she doesn't feel well so she doesn't want to do anything. This happens quite often. We fuck on average 1-2 times a day, but maybe once every maybe 7-10 days, she won't feel like. I try to keep my cool but i get really pissy. It wouldn't be so bad if she would at least offer a fucking bj or hj, but no, nothing. We ended up getting in an argument 5 minutes. I told her i get sexually frustrated when she doesn't put out. She says i am a dick, and went to sleep(the usual thing she does when she is mad.

So am i just being a fucking douche bag or is this usual?

My Ex wouldn't put out for me on my god damn birthday this last time around.
We no longer see each other.

 

[largepkg]

Let me get this straight. You have sexual contact 1-2 times each day for 7 days on average and approximately one time each week your attempts are shot down for whatever reason? This is upsetting you?

I could sympathize if this were happening each week and you weren't getting it on the regular. Getting laid everyday, and sometimes multiple times each day allows for some discretion, no?

 

[dieseljimmy]

To the OP 7 times a week and your mad come on man. DJ i went through this for 4 years and finally said to hell with it and found someone that had the same drive as me and couldn't be happier now. There's nothing worse than being sexually frustrated all the time and it never seems to get better because you just get more frustrated the longer it goes and it's a horrible strain on a relationship. I've felt your pain, but not anymore with the present lady I'm with... hell I was woke up with a BJ this morning. I might have to marry this girl.lol

My hero I'm working on three weeks from last bj

 

[Curt James]

Do you get angry and bothered when your girlfriend/wife won't put out for the day?

That's only natural. Who wouldn't be at least bothered.

on average 1-2 times a day, but maybe once every maybe 7-10 days, she won't feel like.

lol Say what?

I'm questioning this thread now.

So am i just being a fucking douche bag or is this usual?

Both. You're being a douche and complaining will only poison your girlfriend's feelings towards you. Be supportive and thankful. Or, as a possibly healthier alternative, seek out that "perfect match".

And, again, both. It's also probably pretty usual for men to get ticked when they get rejected for whatever reason.

First off do not marry this woman your sex drives do not match. You will be miserable...

This.

To the OP 7 times a week and your mad come on man.

And did he say two times per day? lol

 

[Curt James]

Let me get this straight. You have sexual contact 1-2 times each day for 7 days on average and approximately one time each week your attempts are shot down for whatever reason? This is upsetting you?

The more I think about it, well, the more I want to ban him just for that fact.

 

[bigbenj]

The OP is going to be fucked if he ever gets married.

 

[Swiper]

This is a questions for the males, sorry girls, I don't think your hormones are high enough to get to feel this. But if you've experienced this from a guy, please chime in. =)

Do you get angry and bothered when your girlfriend/wife won't put out for the day? I have a super high libido, and my girlfriend says she doesn't feel well so she doesn't want to do anything. This happens quite often. We fuck on average 1-2 times a day, but maybe once every maybe 7-10 days, she won't feel like. I try to keep my cool but i get really pissy. It wouldn't be so bad if she would at least offer a fucking bj or hj, but no, nothing. We ended up getting in an argument 5 minutes. I told her i get sexually frustrated when she doesn't put out. She says i am a dick, and went to sleep(the usual thing she does when she is mad.

So am i just being a fucking douche bag or is this usual?

Try being more romantic.

 

[stfuandliftbtch]

Thanks for the replies...i will keep all of it in mind next time this happens.

I would be more pissed if this was my usual sex drive, but depending on what im taking, i could want to have sex twice a day to almost maybe twice a month! Then its kind of nice, because it is never on my mind, and she it the one always wanting it.

 

[Crono1000]

I honestly can't tell if this is a hidden bragging thread or if he's just inexperienced and shallow.

I do agree that getting turned down when you're in a relationship strikes a very primal, jeuvinile cord. I know I get kind of pissy and have actually caught myself man-pouting. But I'm also an adult and I respect my woman, so I give her a fucking break. If it's always a problem, then maybe the relationship is not for you. Otherwise, accept that sometimes she doesn't feel like trying to picture me while you sweat hump her from behind.

 

[maniclion]

I've been with my lady for 13 years, for the first 5 it was almost everyday morning and night. Slowly it tapered off to now 2-3 times a week except for the week when shes on the rag. The way I see it we more than made up for all the down time the first 5 years. Now that its less often it seems all that much more special... Get over it and toss off some knuckle babies....

 

[Curt James]

i KEED! i KEED!

Thanks for the replies...i will keep all of it in mind next time this happens.

I would be more pissed if this was my usual sex drive, but depending on what im taking, i could want to have sex twice a day to almost maybe twice a month! Then its kind of nice, because it is never on my mind, and she is the one always wanting it.

So she's punishing you by having sex with you seven days a week and sometimes twice each day?

I still think I'll ban you!

 

[bigbenj]

I've been with my lady for 13 years, for the first 5 it was almost everyday morning and night. Slowly it tapered off to now 2-3 times a week except for the week when shes on the rag. The way I see it we more than made up for all the down time the first 5 years. Now that its less often it seems all that much more special... Get over it and toss off some knuckle babies....

Same here, brother.

 

[gettinwood]

Same here, brother.

I'm guessing you both got married after being with your ladies for 5 years. That first 5 years was just them putting in the work for their MRS!

 

[LAM]

This is a questions for the males, sorry girls, I don't think your hormones are high enough to get to feel this. But if you've experienced this from a guy, please chime in. =)

Do you get angry and bothered when your girlfriend/wife won't put out for the day? I have a super high libido, and my girlfriend says she doesn't feel well so she doesn't want to do anything. This happens quite often. We fuck on average 1-2 times a day, but maybe once every maybe 7-10 days, she won't feel like. I try to keep my cool but i get really pissy. It wouldn't be so bad if she would at least offer a fucking bj or hj, but no, nothing. We ended up getting in an argument 5 minutes. I told her i get sexually frustrated when she doesn't put out. She says i am a dick, and went to sleep(the usual thing she does when she is mad.

So am i just being a fucking douche bag or is this usual?

that's what gf #2 is for