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How BIG a role does 'Sex" play in a relationship!
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I think I am finally learning how to be a post whore! lmao
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How Big of a role does ex play in a relationship?
When we (men) are single and on the hunt a few of the lines we use to have sex, "It's okay baby I just want to cuddle" or "Not until you're ready, it's not that important to me" or "If you think we should wait, then I do to" ...... Lies Lies Lies, sex is of course a big part of the begginning of a relationship, see we chased and hopefully caught a women in order to have sex with her.
From there on it's a matter of a continous string of lies to have sex as often as we can(I.E "I really want to see sweet november with you"=Bend over, or "You really look great"=Bend over, or "Those pants don't make you look fat"=Bend over, or "Oooh an opera I'm so excited"=Bend over, ) so most men will tell you no it's not that big a deal, what you should be hearing is "Bend Over!!!!"
I speak mainly for myself and a few close friends outside the intranet
When we (men) are single and on the hunt a few of the lines we use to have sex, "It's okay baby I just want to cuddle" or "Not until you're ready, it's not that important to me" or "If you think we should wait, then I do to" ...... Lies Lies Lies, sex is of course a big part of the begginning of a relationship, see we chased and hopefully caught a women in order to have sex with her.
From there on it's a matter of a continous string of lies to have sex as often as we can(I.E "I really want to see sweet november with you"=Bend over, or "You really look great"=Bend over, or "Those pants don't make you look fat"=Bend over, or "Oooh an opera I'm so excited"=Bend over, ) so most men will tell you no it's not that big a deal, what you should be hearing is "Bend Over!!!!"
I speak mainly for myself and a few close friends outside the intranet
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Two person involved in a relationship have to learn to be friends to each other,first!!!
If they cannot be friends and the relationship is souly based on sex,it (the relationship )will only last as long as the sexual action is good.
A relationship has to be based on :
-FRIENDSHIP
-Trust
-Compation
-Understanding
-Love
-BUTT NOT JUST SEX!!!
If it's just sex you want,get yourself a male/female hooker.
Xcuse the blatantness butt,that's the way it has to be...
In My Humble Opinion...
If they cannot be friends and the relationship is souly based on sex,it (the relationship )will only last as long as the sexual action is good.
A relationship has to be based on :
-FRIENDSHIP
-Trust
-Compation
-Understanding
-Love
-BUTT NOT JUST SEX!!!
If it's just sex you want,get yourself a male/female hooker.
Xcuse the blatantness butt,that's the way it has to be...
In My Humble Opinion...
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Originally posted by Dero
Two person involved in a relationship have to learn to be friends to each other,first!!!
If they cannot be friends and the relationship is souly based on sex,it (the relationship )will only last as long as the sexual action is good.
A relationship has to be based on :
-FRIENDSHIP
-Trust
-Compation
-Understanding
-Love
-BUTT NOT JUST SEX!!!
If it's just sex you want,get yourself a male/female hooker.
Xcuse the blatantness butt,that's the way it has to be...
In My Humble Opinion...
I refer to my post above dero's ...... he must not be getting any!!!
urso8up
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Sex is not very important in a realationship I say the communitcation and openness is more important because with out that you have nothing
I chose Other because I think the real question we need to be asking ourselves is what kind of a role do relationships have in sex, not vice versa.
i am a very sexual person but sex isn't everything if i had to choose between love and sex i'd choose love. luckily i don't. i would not stay with a man who took his pleasure and neglected mine but i would stay with a man who loved me and i loved who could not have sex. it's complicated like people are.
Robert DiMaggio said:
you are a lucky man if the women you have known made you believe this. i have seen too many women throw away marriages for flings to believe it.
Little Wing said:
I have seen too many couples throw away lives without flings
Jeeper said:
Uh huh, and for everyone that says it's not that important and if it were missing it wouldn't be an issue they probably haven't experienced it missing in a relationship.
Everyone has a different interpretation of a bad sex life.
It's not everything in a relationship but it is a BIG part of a it.
With all life's stresses and bs, when that side of the relationship starts to fail it can have an impact on the way you view all the other 'little' grievances you have.
It's all connected, it's important to a relationship for the intimacy, for the physical and emotional connection and yes to quell those primal sexual urges -hell we're still animals after all!
It's a complicated issue - if you are lacking in that department in your relationship then you start doing a lot of evaluating as to the reasons why, loss of desire, loss of libido, medical problems, sexual problems, then you start to analyze the whole 'what to do' about it issues, is it fixable, does the other person want to fix it, how much effort are they willing to put in, if it's not important to them why not, what will you do if it doesn't change... for all of you that say it's not important - if it meant you would have to remain celibate for the rest of your life could you or would you be prepared to???
Then comes the lofty decision of whether to leave an otherwise good relationship or cheat, often neither option is a good option.
Physical urges can be pretty compounding and most of us weren't destined for a life of celibacy.
Oh and for those of you that think women only need it to feel loved and for the intimacy and not for the act of sex that's a TOTAL load of bunk imo.!
Good grief have women really had you that hoodwinked?!
Resurrecting an old thread. Every relationship has a multitude of facets, but regardless of statistics or "x per week"... etc (in any facet), It all comes down to the goal/purpose of a relationship and the way that the motivation effects the truth value of aforementioned act/interaction.
BTW, looking back on old threads and posts is hugely entertaining and enlightening on what remains true and that which evolves, for better or worse
BTW, looking back on old threads and posts is hugely entertaining and enlightening on what remains true and that which evolves, for better or worse
Dude you're the resurrection! This is from 2002! 
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without sex you are just friends
No doubt, LOL... Time flies, new handles arise and yet topics of threads seem to remain consistent... That being said, Yes. I'm an ancient Fart.Dude you're the resurrection! This is from 2002!
Sex is critical in any healthy serious relationship.
And unhealthy ones alike!
castlehill
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Maybe it's my drive but if I was in a relationship without sex I would find it somewhere else. Baring medical reasons, why would there not be sex? To me it is not simply about the act of sex but the passion and intimacy, that is what I think about as my escape from stress. I want to be with her! With that said, there has to be a lot more than sex though! If she is not my best friend it won't last, but if she is extremely hot and rocks in bed I will try for a while lol.
