How to Stop Binging!

[M.J.H.]

This is basically a battle that I have been in for as far back as I can remember. Dieting for a little while, and then suddenly, binging like crazy. And I am not talking about a cheat meal. A slice of cake, etc. I am talking about an ENTIRE cake, or so much pizza I feel like I am going to absolutely throw it all up. And this lasts and lasts and lasts for hours. Eating and eating more and more every 15-20 minutes or so.

Now I have come to a few conclusions about my binging, since it has been happening regularly for years and years:

- I almost always, with a few rare exceptions, binge at night. Late afternoon/evening is always when I binge, I am not sure why. I dont remember once binging in the morning, etc.
- I almost always again, binge on my rest days. I am not sure why/how. But I tend to go nuts and pig out on days that I did not train.

What can I do to stop this?

 

[atherjen]

hmmm well there are a few things to ask yourself.. are you bored in the evenings? and find that food comforts you? do you enojy the foods on your regular diet? are you eating ENOUGH during the day?

heres a suggestion, next time you feel the craving of a binge coming on, come on here and talk about how you feel in your journal. I know it may sound corny but the support from others and just leeting your feelings out help. I know when I want to run to the store to buy a jar of peanut butter or something I either call a friend/family or come on here.

other suggestions, try brushing your teeth, food tastes bad after. drink TONS of water to fill up. chew some gum, have a bunch of sugar free jello, etc.

 

[M.J.H.]

I know Jen, those are some good suggestions I'll give a few of those a try. Its just so much harder than that. I mean if I could simply satisfy a craving with some sugar free jellow I would never binge at all. The cravings are not necessarily just for junkfood, but theyre cravings to pig out completely. I mean really gorge myself until I cant eat another bite.

I am considering maybe increasing my training frequency, since I rarely binge on training days.

 

[atherjen]

hmm well you have my support hun, Ill try to help the best that I can. I can only imagine how difficult it must be.
when you eat normally do you feel satisfied after your meals?

 

[M.J.H.]

I feel somewhat satisfied I think, its honestly very very hard to explain. It's just an awful habit that I have tried for years to break, with no success. I am really not sure what the problem is.

 

[LazyByNature]

I have a terrible sweet tooth and used to cheat very bad with anything that had sugar in it. Once I got serious and worked out a meal plan with 6 meals a day, the craving went away. I think that the trick is to never be hungry. On those occasions where I've eaten everything for the day and I get a craving, I just add another "good" meal like eggs or meat.

So far it has worked pretty good with regard to the sugar and candy and chocolate cravings. Right now I'm losing about 1.5 - 2 lbs per week and my bodyfat percentage is dropping too.

Good luck stopping the binge.

 

[M.J.H.]

Its friggin' nearly impossible for me to stop, its like one things just sets me off and then I am out of control for days and days and days.

 

[atherjen]

LBN, good points made there
and good to hear that you were able to overcome it!

one more thing to consider Mike, it so try VERY hard to go at least a week with no binge. this will help to clean the system out of excess sugars and junk. I find, and have been told from others as well, that when we give our bodies those bad things that they tend to crave them EVEN more. trying to berid the body of it for a while should really help.

 

[atherjen]

Mike, I hope you dont mind, but I did a bit of research for you in relation to this and your confusion of why you cant overcome it.
thought this info might be of interest(Im a concerned person by nature).....

"A great deal of research in recent years has indicated that there may be genetic factors that contribute to the onset of an Eating Disorder. This is not to say that emotional, behavioral and environmental reasons do not play significant roles, but that for some, there may be a genetic predisposition to the development of Anorexia, Bulimia or Compulsive Overeating.

Serotonin (ser-oh-TOH-nin) is a neurotransmitter, a group of chemical messengers, that carry out communication in the brain and body. The messengers travel from one neuron (or nerve cell) to others that act as receivers, where they attach to a specific area called a receptor site. This union, like a key fitting into a lock, triggers signals that either allow or prevent a message to be passed on to other cells. Since the discovery of serotonin in the 1950s, researches are finding evidence that one of its roles is to mediate emotions and judgement. (Serotonin and Judgement; Society for Neuroscience)

Serotonin is involved in many behaviors such as hunger, sleep, sexual response, impulse control, aggressive behavior and anger, depression, anxiety and perception. Abnormally low levels of serotonin might be found in someone who is suicidal, who is particularly agressive towards others, or a person who is extremely depressed. High levels of serotonin may be found in a person who is in a constant state of anxiety, has a tendency to be over-exacting in completely tasks, who suffers insomnia, or who has a tendency to feel overly stimulated by their surroundings (overwhelmed).

So how might this translate for someone with an Eating Disorder?
Low levels of serotonin, which could contribute to a person's sense of depression, are in theory, increased during episodes of binging, making the person actually feel better. As theorized, binging on sweets, starches or carbohydrates would increase serotonin and produce a sense of well-being.

In other words, those with low or high levels of serotonin may feel "driven" towards eating or not eating as they consciously or subconsciously realize it actually makes them feel better emotionally, because of a physical response in their brain.
It is very important to note that the act of restricting, and binging (with or without purging) can also lead to a disruption in serotonin levels, thus contributing to an already existing problem, or creating a completely new one to deal with. This can lead to depression and anxiety, which are known side effects of malnutrition and vitamin deficiencies, both for undereaters and overeaters.

What Do We Do With This Information?
Keeping the big picture in mind it may be useful to be aware of how serotonin levels effect each particular person when it comes to their course of treatment. Medications such as SSRIs (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors) can help to control levels of serotonin and assist patients in responding more positively to therapy and treatment... but there is no "magic pill." Each individual will ultimately respond best when they can find a therapist and treatment team that can address all issues. "

 

[IronSlingah]

Originally posted by MonStar
Its friggin' nearly impossible for me to stop, its like one things just sets me off and then I am out of control for days and days and days.

Sounds like me a few months back. What u need to do is plan out a diet that allows you to eat alot of food every few hours such as Twin Peaks Carb Cycling. The only reason i ever binge now is if im too lazy to cook food for my meal so i go and get a pizza but that hasnt happend since i started to cook everything the night before. Another thing is make sure youre eating enough fat. Ffor me fat keeps my hunger at bay untill my next meal. The fats i get are mostly EFA`s or from my protein sources.

 

[Nate]

brussel sprouts!

 

[tjwes]

Try to allow yourself one "cheat" day a week,this may help you stay on point for the rest of the time.On the "cheat" day eat whatever you want in moderate portions.Also think about your gopals and how binging will prevent you from reaching them every time you feel like slipping a bit.Good luck dude and stay focused.

 

[BigBallaGA]

KEEP EATING

fight fire with fire

 

[Smaug]

I understand where your coming from, I don't understand it either but always in the later afternoon and evening I do the same things, and it's not so much because of a sweet tooth or anything its just going at whatever can be found until you just can't eat another bite. Honestly, I think it's an emotional thing, something contributes to it and you go into just eating an eating, and it lasts for days, then you get back to eating healthy for a few days and boom your back to eating all out. I'm not sure, but jsut try keeping yourself busy with various things, if it gets really bad, grab an apple and a bottle of water and head out for a walk. I hope it helps, I know how it feels when you go all out binging then feel like crap because you did so, it's a bad feeling, no doubt about it.

 

[Skib]

i have the same problem but once i binge i feel like i've ruined my clean eating streak so i just say what the hell and binge even more!!!

 

[DeadBolt]

Well I use to binge like crazy. I mean I was young and fat and just loved to eat. My binges could feed an entire family though. I'm talking 2 ENTIRE pizzas. Whole cakes (small wedding ones). I mean anything and everything all day long, sometimes every 10-15 mins a day I was eating chips or something. Then I started workin out and got my meal plan down. I found that by me always eating healthy foods and keeping on my diet I would binge less.

I'm not gonna fool ya I use to still binge a year ago and just go crazy once or twice a week. This was after bodyvuilding for a year or so. What worked for me so far has been bulking. I eat every 2-3 hours and I clean house. I can eat alot for my size and by eating the good carbs lots of veggies and protein I would never crave bad stuff. One reason I never craved them was because as soon as I was done eating I was already looking 2-3 hours in advance at my next meal. Some days dreading it because I wasnt hungry, but I still ate it. By keeping my stomach full I never binge anymore. I now "cheat" every once in a while.

The weekends are my weakness though. I train mon-fri and come sat & sun I struggle. With me working and sleeping in late my meals get all outta whack. This causes poblems for me sometimes but if I plan my meals out and prepare em for the weekend I leave them in my car and bring em all over. Its winter so the food doesn't go bad now. Its ussually easy things like tuna and stuff I can just put together.

So...keep your mind set on your goals! Eat more and keep it clean by eating good foods. If you stay hungry you dont wanna binge. Get rid of all temptations and clear your house of them. I did this for a month staright and now lose the urge to eat most junk food. If you don't live alone explain to everyone else the problem and if they keep buying it, just throw it out. Got lots of ass whoopins for this by my big bro, but now I'm twice his size and I call the shots Everytime your about to binge look at yourself and make yourself stop. Throw it out and think why you are workin out. If your mind takes over and leads in the rite direction your body and stomach will follow. Believe me it works, you just need lots of will power and the urge to do better. Without motivation you will never get anywhere. So get goin on kickin ur stomachs ass and TRAIN! It all starts in the mind remember that!

 

[sara]

I've been binging for the last 2 weeks. I will be starting a new journal in the competetion journals that might help me stop binging!

 

[Jill]

Hey MonStar-I recently purchased Dr Phils getting real about weight book. Very good. There are also many books at the library, that deal with binge eating disorders. Its all in the mind... Binge eating is classified as an eating disorder. If focusing on controlling my binges too-Dr Phill is the way to read IMO.

 

[Dale Mabry]

I do 2 things:

I eat fiber with my last meal, which generally helps fill me up

I have a pic of a hot chick on my fridge. Whenever I go into that fridge, I am staring her in the face. She says to me, "Put down the food fatty." and I generally comply.

 

[Mudge]

#1 Stay out of your local grocer except mandatory once weekly etc shopping

#2 I prefer to buy at bulk food stores anyway, less junk too

Essentially keep the temptation out of sight, I allow a once weekly cheat when on a stricter diet, but not a binge. My cheat is usually pizza, if I binge though it really messes up the week. I have been a binger for longer than I knew what the word meant, if something is in front of me, or if something exists in my place, I will finish it. This goes back to halloween candy days, I would just eat and eat and eat.

 

[M.J.H.]

Thanks for all the GREAT suggestions guys, appreciate it so much!

Hey MonStar-I recently purchased Dr Phils getting real about weight book. Very good. There are also many books at the library, that deal with binge eating disorders. Its all in the mind... Binge eating is classified as an eating disorder. If focusing on controlling my binges too-Dr Phill is the way to read IMO.

I will look into Dr. Phil's book, definitely, without a doubt. I have read one of his other books, was a nice easy read. Definitely worth my time.

When it comes to binging I think its just a bad habit. I stopped binging for 4-5 months without too much of a problem by simply breaking the habit. I just have to break my habit again, no big deal. The easiest way for me to do that is to actually open my regular diet up. Still eat clean, but not SUPER strict, I have to let myself live a little.

 

[atherjen]

Originally posted by MonStar
Thanks for all the GREAT suggestions guys, appreciate it so much!


I will look into Dr. Phil's book, definitely, without a doubt. I have read one of his other books, was a nice easy read. Definitely worth my time.

When it comes to binging I think its just a bad habit. I stopped binging for 4-5 months without too much of a problem by simply breaking the habit. I just have to break my habit again, no big deal. The easiest way for me to do that is to actually open my regular diet up. Still eat clean, but not SUPER strict, I have to let myself live a little.

thats the attitude hun!
you have all our support!

 

[Jill]

The book is called The Ultimate Weight Loss Solution. Living a little is right Monstar-I find eating clean all the time helps me most-cause once I start eating crap its kida hard to stop. The biggest thing for me is keeping the tempting binge foods out of the house. Thanks AJ, and good luck with all Monstar!

 

[Candy]

I know this might sound strange but this is what I did -- I told friends and family that I could not have sugar or any processed foods, aka. junk because of a medical condition.

They believed me so I really can't now. Its all a big lie. But I have not had junk in about a year now because of it. Its hard to binge on oatmeal ya know? heh heh. Peanut butter now, thats another story!

 

[Nate]

Originally posted by Candy
Its hard to binge on oatmeal ya know?

I respectully disagree.

 

[Candy]

thats okay. It just fills my stomach up to uncomfortable levels after just one cup made w/ water. I can only eat 1/2 cup.

 

[atherjen]

HAHA I disagree too! I can eat a boatload of oatmeal in one sitting.
and the pb.. ohhh my, jar and all.. POOF it disappears!

glad it worked out for you Candy!

 

[Candy]

yeah I guess if you like living a lie. Only I would do something stoopid like tell everyone you know that you cant eat sugar or you may get deathly ill. I was like : "I cant eat sugar, I can like, get seriously, like, sick. " Now on my birthday i cant even eat a freaking piece of cake. Ha ha.

The peanut butter tends to get a little outta control. I can make the best PB cookies with nothing but one egg, natty pb and splenda. I cant have peanut butter in the house.

 

[atherjen]

no cake for you!

mmmm Im glad I dont have an oven... those cookies sound yummu too!

 

[M.J.H.]

LOL, okay I am on my 3rd day now of no binging. I think that if I can make it a week I should be fine for a few months.