If she doesn't get off, should he?

[chosen1]

WTH? If HE doesnt get off? I have had sex 1 time in my life that I didnt get off and it was the worst. Never called her again etc. MOST guys are this way. Its not such a struggle for us to reach the finish line. Maybe you're just not into him at all and should pass on the whole thing!

 

[scot smith]

yes

 

[tommygunz]

Holy Shit! Chicks get off too?!?

 

[Kathybird]

I don't see it as a big deal to let the hubby do his thing if I'm not in the mood... I think it's more of a hurtful physical issue if guys DON'T get off than it is for women. ... right?

... but he BETTER pony up when I want it. There have only been a few times in 20 years I've said no, and they were all times I was sick or in pain.

 

[Muscle_Girl]

I think it's more of a hurtful physical issue if guys DON'T get off than it is for women. ... right?

That was my point to begin with, I guess I just couldn't explain it that way. Is that really how it is? Pain? Or have we been made to believe its such a big deal cause guys just get anxious or irritable? I am not a guy, so I really don't know how it all goes. An honest inquiry.

 

[malfeasance]

That was my point to begin with, I guess I just couldn't explain it that way. Is that really how it is? Pain? Or have we been made to believe its such a big deal cause guys just get anxious or irritable? I am not a guy, so I really don't know how it all goes. An honest inquiry.

Yes, pain. Physical pressure. Ever heard of the term blue balls? There is actual physical pain from too much excitement without release.

 

[LittleV]

A lot of women dont seem to get off during sex. I think if that happens, she should be the one to speak out and tell him what she wants and how to do it. Maybe use a vibe?