Impossible...

[susiQ]

I just realized after looking some of these topics over and after visiting w8's website and seeing her, how hard she trains and all of the other girls in the fitness comp. pictures, that I am......a Lesbian.....KIDDING (you already knew that!) No really, I will NEVER be a fitness model or anything along those lines and it hurts to know that...it really does. I want it so bad, but I guess not bad enough b/c I don't train anymore or eat right or anything. Plus I don't tan so...I am just screwed huh? For some reason this all hit a sore spot and it really upsets me. I want so much to look like all those other girls but I haven't even tried. You know why? Because I know no matter how hard I work at it...I will never achieve it. I know that my body will never look like that... Well, life goes on right? Besides, I don't have time for it...I have too much going on right now...

 

[Rdb2]

Why can't you do it? You can do anything if you work hard enough at it.

 

[seyone]

i know that as hard as i train I will never look lilke jay cutler but that doesn'tmean I should stop training and get down on myself.

 

[w8lifter]

susiQ...you will never know what you can accomplish until you try. It does take hard work and dedication and priorities but if you want it, you can do it.....it has to come from within though. You can't do it for him or anybody else, you have to do it for you!

Not having time is an excuse. Everyone on this site is busy....w/ school, work, family, kids, etc. You have an entire support system on this site at your disposal...along w/ as much information as you could ever need to become successful. We are all here to help you, but we can't do it for you...you have to set your goals and reach for them. If you do not feel good about yourself right now, then do something about it. Use this forum as your support system if you do not have one at home....post your questions, vent your frustrations...it really helps to talk w/ others that are going through the same thing...we're all working toward similar goals here, so we all know what it feels like to have to make good decisions about our diet and training when we really want to just eat the damn cookie, lol.

If you need help w/ your diet or training, shoot me a pm

 

[Arnold]

As far as looking like like a top fitness model, well maybe, maybe not. Either way that is a very long term goal to set. You should set small short term goals that are achievable.

If some kid just starts working out, and they look at a a pro bodybuilder, that could be very discouraging. To use that as a goal would be silly! Instead, they could look at someone at their gym that's been lifting for a couple/few years and use them as their short term goal.

In other words don't set yourself up for failure by setting unachievable goals. Compete against yourself, no on else.

There are two main ingredients: Desire and Discipline. If you have those two, you can accomplish almost anything!

 

[Dero]

Hmmmm,another ingredient in this recipe of Prince is
MOTIVATION...
Without it,we are all sitting on our buff and getting
BIG,FAT,OUT OF SHAPE and it gets worst...
Susi,stick around and stick witit!!!
You know WE are behind you a 1000000%...and you know why we are there!!!

 

[Arnold]

Originally posted by Dero
Hmmmm,another ingredient in this recipe of Prince is
MOTIVATION...

Yes, but I think that desire and motivation go hand in hand, right?

If you posess the desire, you should therefore be motivated.

 

[Dero]

Yes,you are right SIRhow's dat for respect?)(
BUTT,you gotta stick witit!!!!!!!

 

[Ginni]

Girl.. You can do this.. I know you can.. I have 2 children, am a single mom with a full time job, plus I have returned to college taking night classes.. I fell off the wagon several times, but the thing is you always pick yourself up and do it again.. No one in this world is perfect NO ONE.. I at one time wanted to be one of those fitness models, but I am happy being me.. Sure they look great, but most people don't look like that, plus their accomplishments have taken years to do.. And it is possible for you to accomplish those goals of yours too.. Prince is right take it slow. Set small goals at first.. We are all here to support you in anyway that we can.. And if you need anything at all there is always someone here that will help you out.. Heck I'll even give ya my number if ya just want to call and talk to someone about it..

 

[mmafiter]

One of my favourite maxims comes to mind here; "If you fall down 6 times, get up 7"

You can achieve amazing things, if you put your mind to it.

 

[Dero]

Originally posted by mmafiter
One of my favourite maxims comes to mind here; "If you fall down 6 times, get up 7"

You can achieve amazing things, if you put your mind to it.

What step are you at,NOW???

 

[susiQ]

Originally posted by Prince
There are two main ingredients: Desire and Discipline. If you have those two, you can accomplish almost anything!

Well I am damned then because I desire to eat my cookies and I have no discipline... Ha ha!!

I just have to get with it, it has already been a year since I had the lil one and I still feel sooooo wrecked and worn out. I have a chemical imbalance (ha!) that's why I am on meds. I don't know I just feel dazed all the time and it feels like every day is a damn dream. I worked from about 10:30am til like 2 in the morning yesterday and the whole thing is a blur. I know we all are very busy and have a lot going on right now. I am trying to get into it...I can do it...I think I can. I think I can. I think, oh I don't know.

 

[Arnold]

Originally posted by susiQ
I don't know I just feel dazed all the time and it feels like every day is a damn dream. I worked from about 10:30am til like 2 in the morning yesterday and the whole thing is a blur.

That's sounds kind of fun!

 

[susiQ]

Originally posted by Prince


That's sounds kind of fun!

But it isn't!!!!!!
It's not like taking some wonderful drug! (which you better not be taking drugs anyways...giggle) It's like after I had Amber I was SO out of it. I thanked God that the nurse took her for a couple of hours so me and honey could get some rest. I had an epidural (DRUG) and it took forever for it to wear off... Then when I got my implants...OMG! They put me out and when I woke up, I was shaking uncontrollably... It was the worst ride home. I was moaning and groaning and in and out of sleep. Then I had sleeping pills and pain killers. That is how I feel. I am soooooo out of it. I have no clue what is going on. Great, I am permenantly dazed and confused.

 

[Dero]

Can I try My Jedy mind control on her?



susiQ,
yeah you!!!

You wanna doit!!!
You can doit!!!!!
You know you can doit!!!!!

No,susi,over here,look at me!!!
remember, you will doit!!!


Ok,lets see if it worked,Hey susiQ !!!
You wanna???

 

[Ginni]

Originally posted by susiQ


I can do it...I think I can. I think I can. I think, oh I don't know.

Ok now the first part is good, but should leave off the ending there...

Yes you can..

 

[Dero]

Yeah... You wanna!!!

 

[gopro]

I say give up...what the heck...if you wanted it bad enough you would do everything it takes to get there, but you don't. So, stop wasting your time thinking about it and leave it off your worries list. Be happy with who you are, and don't think about what you can't be.