Originally posted by butterfly
Also, they are the only two people that will ever know the whole truth and nothing but.
not necessarily.......................
Kobe could be in the room thinking "hell she's watching a movie with me, we're alone, she wants it". She could be in the room thinking "oh my God, i'm hanging out with Kobe Bryant", not necessarily "i wanna fuck Kobe". My point is that all of us have been fooled into thinking that a girl likes us when she is just being friendly or whatever. We know they had sex, it could have been Kobe thinking it's consensual and she's just another groupie, while at the same time she's scared because he's being real aggressive, she doesn't want to have sex, she's resisting, yet he's famous and charming.
what i'm trying to say is that this isn't necessarily a case of one person lying about what happened. Read the article by Phil Taylor on
www.cnnsi.com about how athletes and their lack of exposure to women that aren't groupies view women as chicks that wanna fuck them or chicks that wanna fuck them but don't know it yet.
She could have been scared out of her mind but still had sex, while he may not have even noticed her fear or did and was still aggressive-viewing it as passivity or a challenge, hence you have two different views of what happened.
and most rape cases aren't reported immediately. As rape is a crime of power, not passion, it has a humiliating effect on the woman. My buddy supposedly fooled around with a chick after she had passed out and when she woke up, according to her, he was pulling out. She didn't report it for a couple weeks. All of a sudden a cop shows up and he's charged.
i absolutely loathe rapists and if he is guilty, i hope Kobe takes the full brunt of the law, if only as an example to the society.