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Need some serious advice.....please help!

Flex

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First and foremost, hello to all my old friends.

I need some serious advice, guys and gals.


My girlfriend, who I was completely head over heels in love with, broke up with me a few weeks ago, and I am just SO freakin heartbroken.
It just so happens that she did it the week I was to start clomid for PCT (so test levels are way down, and estrogen is way up), so i literally feel like i'm depressed.

We dated for 4 months, but since we literally saw eachother and slept together 6 or 7 times/week, it wasn't a typical "only" 4 month relationship.

Things were absolutely great the first 3 and a half months, then she told me that she still had feelings for an ex-bf from a year ago that she never got over, and that she saw us as too different (she's a social butterfly and likes to go out drinking/dancing/clubbing.....whereas I'm out of that phase).

It's just so hard for me to accept that she could be so into me, and me into her, and then all of a sudden that's it.

The worst thing is, is that we started hanging out literally one week after I bought my new house, so every single thing in the house reminds me of her.
Not to mention, of ALL the girls i've ever slept with and/or fooled around with, she was the first one that I've ever truely been in love with.

Does anyone have ANY suggestions or advice?

I'm willing to listen to ANYthing guys and gals, I think i'm depressed and like on the verge of a nervous breakdown.
(I'm going to see a therapist in a few weeks.......but until then, what do i do???)
 
Suck it up! This is just one girl, and you should be lucky that it happened now rather than later. It wasn't meant to be. Continue your PCT to the letter, and stay in the gym. Don't do like I have done so many times and mope around in self pity. Just pick your nuts off the floor and go back to the routine of being single again. Being single kicks ass, and you will remember that soon enough.

Good luck!
 
Put it into perspective, man. This is how most relationships are, yet billions of people go on living every day.

You know what they say: There are more fish in the sea. Next time, just make sure to gut her if she leaves. ;)
 
Funnel your energy into the gym. Exercise is proven to combat depression. Get out in the sun as much as possible. That will also help.

And like Slick Rick would tell you, next time you hook up, treat her like a prostitute.
 
When I get out of a relationship (I have been through 2 very serious 3 years relationships and still talk to and see both girls) I would go out, buy some new kicks and clothes, get a nice cut, and work my ass off in the gym. It works wonders for making them jealous and for picking up a new chick. Get over it and head to a club and find a nice new girl.
 
Don't ruin your life over one woman dude. If shes not attracted to you anymore theres nothing you can do, best thing to do is get back out there and date new woman. More than one.
 
Flex said:
First and foremost, hello to all my old friends.

I need some serious advice, guys and gals.


My girlfriend, who I was completely head over heels in love with, broke up with me a few weeks ago, and I am just SO freakin heartbroken.
It just so happens that she did it the week I was to start clomid for PCT (so test levels are way down, and estrogen is way up), so i literally feel like i'm depressed.

We dated for 4 months, but since we literally saw eachother and slept together 6 or 7 times/week, it wasn't a typical "only" 4 month relationship.

Things were absolutely great the first 3 and a half months, then she told me that she still had feelings for an ex-bf from a year ago that she never got over, and that she saw us as too different (she's a social butterfly and likes to go out drinking/dancing/clubbing.....whereas I'm out of that phase).

It's just so hard for me to accept that she could be so into me, and me into her, and then all of a sudden that's it.

The worst thing is, is that we started hanging out literally one week after I bought my new house, so every single thing in the house reminds me of her.
Not to mention, of ALL the girls i've ever slept with and/or fooled around with, she was the first one that I've ever truely been in love with.

Does anyone have ANY suggestions or advice?

I'm willing to listen to ANYthing guys and gals, I think i'm depressed and like on the verge of a nervous breakdown.
(I'm going to see a therapist in a few weeks.......but until then, what do i do???)
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I feel you bro. :(
 
Keep your head up, Flex. Focus on your career goals and lose the distractions. There will be other women out there. I just went through this exact thing myself. It's tough, man.. but don't let your other things slide downhill by wasting too much time crying over this girl. Hopefully you didn't let her hurt your relationships with your friends and/or family like I did with my girl.
 
ABCs said:
When I get out of a relationship (I have been through 2 very serious 3 years relationships and still talk to and see both girls) I would go out, buy some new kicks and clothes, get a nice cut, and work my ass off in the gym. It works wonders for making them jealous and for picking up a new chick. Get over it and head to a club and find a nice new girl.
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fUnc17 said:
Don't ruin your life over one woman dude. If shes not attracted to you anymore theres nothing you can do, best thing to do is get back out there and date new woman. More than one.
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Excellent posts, although I would like to add my perspective to them.. I feel you are probably like me Flex.. kind of a nice guy or was willing to change for this girl because you thought she was the one. Maybe let her walk over you a little bit, maybe not. But the point is, you aren't the type that wants a clubrat. Maybe you're worried you won't find another girl as hot as her who isn't a clubrat, but you'd be wrong. There are plenty out there. Don't lose your relationships with your friends and family because both are good networks for meeting new ladies. Again, stay positive!
 
DOMS said:
He's a 4-post piece of shit that needs to take a fucking hike.
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what do you expect? It was foremanrules.

An alcoholic who's wife leaves him is always bitter. What a loser.
 
Foreman doesn't like me anymore. :(
 
Patyhat said:
You and I both know it was for giving your ID to other people and also saying I stole the work of Patrick and some other people. I called you on it and you could not come up with one example. :roflmao:
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Sure I did. I told you that I work in the IT field and I often post from my clients, then I laughed at you and booted me. :shrug:
 
Patyhat said:
Sure you used 4 or 5 IP's in just a few hours.....think you should do your work and not post on BB sites when you are at work.

You are telling lies here as you did on AA, seems I made the right call.
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Quite often my job is stop and go. I have time to post. My job is pretty flexible in both hours and workout.

But nice job there Sherlock. :thumb:
 
Patyhat said:
He was not my friend, it is as simple as that. Dont need to know a person who is not truthfull.
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How am I not truthfull?
 
back on topic.... i'm sorry Flex, i know that's a tough one. if it's not something you can work out all you can do is do your best to accept it and move toward getting over it. i try to see disappointments as life moving me toward something better. :(
 
ForemanIsBanned said:
Sorry, they keep banning me because they fear the truth.

Big......please you know what you did, but who cares

Cfs-3, you backed down quick, I lost all respedt when you diid
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I didn't do anything, I tried to get people to get along and it didn't work.
 
Everyone who isn't on topic, please shut the fuck up.
 
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