People don't understand !!!!

[KarlW]

Arrrggg my wife baked a cake last night and was offended when I declined to have any (probably not the best decision). She says "one slice won't hurt you". I know that is true in the overall scheme of things, but the thing is that these cheat oportunities arise all day long and sooner or later you have to just say a big 'NO' to them all. At least for a while. But, maybe I chose the wrong one to say 'no' too.

 

[Warren[BigW]]

I woulda had a slice or 2 or 3

 

[BigDyl]

I would have had a slice of that ass.

 

[crazy_enough]

LOLO, thats so funny!!! My wife made this on Sunday...All of it...Its been extremely hard to say no!

 

[Velvet]

OMG Crazy, I could eat that chocolate cake all in one sitting, yummy!!!!! Bet she's a good cook

 

[Mudge]

I dont mind a weekly cheat. Some people will diet strictly for months on end, I dont compete so I dont see the need to be like that.

 

[Paynne]

I have cheats like everyone else but Karl is right. If you said yes to every cheat you'd be blubbery like everyone else. When ppl say "but you don't need to lose any weight" I just say something like "and it's going to stay thay way". Your wife will get used to it.

 

[crazy_enough]

OMG Crazy, I could eat that chocolate cake all in one sitting, yummy!!!!! Bet she's a good cook

ya, thats the problem, she's a great cook!!! I prepare meals, but she loves to make desserts and drive me crazy with them. She has very little comprehension of the bulking and cutting phases of my training, but she was enough of a smart ass to tell me I should be able to fiest on her desserts as Ive got a week left of bulking to do! funny!

 

[CancerNV]

Cake is for pussies.

 

[Rocco32]

You did the right thing Karl. Lisa used to get upset with me as well but now she understands the WHY of it. Maybe you need to sit her down and just communicate the importance of unscheduled cheats to her.

 

[shutupntra1n]

Yeah that stinks that she doesn't understand. My family understands 100% but other people sometimes don't but I'm used to it. You find you're own way of dealing with it in time. I just don't care what people think of my diet or lifestyle anymore. I just look at them like they are wierd.

 

[Kracin]

doesnt matter what kind of cheat it is, a cheat is a cheat and if your S/O doesnt understand that you dont want something that is going to ruin an ongoing goal for yourself. then they need to be talked to lol, not a harsh way or anything, but just let them know that if they dont want to eat 200g of protein a day like you do, then you don't need to eat a piece of cake every once in a while like they do. simple as that, its all preference and people should accept everyone else's opinions and preferences in life!

 

[Stu]

Arrrggg my wife baked a cake last night and was offended when I declined to have any (probably not the best decision).

that sounds like reasonable grounds for divorce if you ask me - you should go see your lawyer

 

[BritChick]

Arrrggg my wife baked a cake last night and was offended when I declined to have any (probably not the best decision). She says "one slice won't hurt you". I know that is true in the overall scheme of things, but the thing is that these cheat oportunities arise all day long and sooner or later you have to just say a big 'NO' to them all. At least for a while. But, maybe I chose the wrong one to say 'no' too.

Wow, does she not realize how blessed she is, she doesn't have to bake anymore... I'd be all over that!

 

[Dale Mabry]

I got an easy solution to get her to understand. Say this to her...


"I understand that you like being a fat ass, but I don't want to let my body slide to the point to where I am as sexually unappealing as you."

That should do the trick.

 

[BritChick]

I got an easy solution to get her to understand. Say this to her...


"I understand that you like being a fat ass, but I don't want to let my body slide to the point to where I am as sexually unappealing as you."

That should do the trick.

Ouch... then you won't have to worry about cake or sex ever again!

 

[shutupntra1n]

I got an easy solution to get her to understand. Say this to her...


"I understand that you like being a fat ass, but I don't want to let my body slide to the point to where I am as sexually unappealing as you."

That should do the trick.

Well I was thinking that but didn't want to say it I'm glad BBing came first before any relationships so I know what to look for

 

[crazy_enough]

I got an easy solution to get her to understand. Say this to her...


"I understand that you like being a fat ass, but I don't want to let my body slide to the point to where I am as sexually unappealing as you."

That should do the trick.

LOL, that is the quickest way to loose a shitload of weight...hers!

 

[Dale Mabry]

Hey, I'm just saying, that should clear up any misconceptions.

SUNT, you have the order wrong...

Beer
Good Food
Me not being a fatass
A hot chick
A meaningful relationship with that hot chick and Playstation 2 are tied.

 

[Dale Mabry]

LOL, that is the quickest way to loose a shitload of weight...hers!

you calling his wife fat?

 

[shutupntra1n]

Hey, I'm just saying, that should clear up any misconceptions.

SUNT, you have the order wrong...

Beer
Good Food
Me not being a fatass
A hot chick
A meaningful relationship with that hot chick and Playstation 2 are tied.

Food
Gym
Food
Sex
Food
Sleep
Food

 

[Dale Mabry]

Food
Gym
Food
Sex
Food
Sleep
Food

Sex is actually at the top of my list, beer helps me get it. So long as the woman isa drunk I have some sort of appeal whether it be personality-wise or her beer goggles. I don't really care either way, so long as thesex is gotten.

 

[Vieope]

Hmmm..cake..

 

[reg56]

Being 17, and having friends that know absolutely nothing on the subject of dieting and training properly, I get so much shit. I get things like "go eat your tuna" or "here have some pizza, oh wait u can't.." I find it hilarious because I know that none of them would have the discipline that myself, or anyone else on this board has to diet the way we do. It feels good to be apart of that 1%.

 

[Kracin]

Being 17, and having friends that know absolutely nothing on the subject of dieting and training properly, I get so much shit. I get things like "go eat your tuna" or "here have some pizza, oh wait u can't.." I find it hilarious because I know that none of them would have the discipline that myself, or anyone else on this board has to diet the way we do. It feels good to be apart of that 1%.

yer god damn straight, the rest of the world is ignorant to how it feels to eat right all the time and have nothing but great health.

i was catching shit at work (nash finch, grocery distributer, im an order picker if anyone knows what that means... means i gotta constantly move and pick large heavy cases of things off shelves and put them on pallets to be sent to stores in bulk) because i was eating a salad with mustard and pepper as dressing so it had no calories.... tastes good, along with green beans, salmon, and oats..... lol everyone lookin at me weird, one guy says "damn man. thats some healthy shit!, but mustard??? come on man it just SAYS salad dressing!". at least my friend stuck up for me and says "look at all of you, your all eating pizza, and candy and shit for lunch, then look whats hes got and hes picking twice as fast as everyone else all day long!". so it shows to some people, but everyone else can keep their nasty food!

 

[crazy_enough]

yer god damn straight, the rest of the world is ignorant to how it feels to eat right all the time and have nothing but great health.

i was catching shit at work (nash finch, grocery distributer, im an order picker if anyone knows what that means... means i gotta constantly move and pick large heavy cases of things off shelves and put them on pallets to be sent to stores in bulk) because i was eating a salad with mustard and pepper as dressing so it had no calories.... tastes good, along with green beans, salmon, and oats..... lol everyone lookin at me weird, one guy says "damn man. thats some healthy shit!, but mustard??? come on man it just SAYS salad dressing!". at least my friend stuck up for me and says "look at all of you, your all eating pizza, and candy and shit for lunch, then look whats hes got and hes picking twice as fast as everyone else all day long!". so it shows to some people, but everyone else can keep their nasty food!

U both said it right!! Very few people understand whats involved with this lifestyle. Even fewer are capable of such dedication, hard work and persistency(sp?). I ve plastered my basement with a quote form Arnold in deadbolt's sig. that says: Obsessed is just a word the lazy use to describe the dedicated...This says it all for me. My spouse doesnt get it, my friends and family dont get it, and some even think that I have some sort of obsessive compulsive behaviour issues...I laugh as they chomp & chew on crap 7 days/week, having not the slightest clue what they are doing to their bodies!

 

[Kracin]

yeah, i truly wish that fast food and unhealthy things like that were outlawed. america would kick ass then

 

[MTN WARRIOR]

I get the same comments from being a vegetarian, although I may have been straying lately, shhh. They all say," hey want a buffalo wing, oh thats right, YOU'RE a vegetarian, sorry." Then they say that they are going to enjoy life, not be a picky eater. I just say "well, I will just enjoy mine longer".

 

[crazy_enough]

LOL, much easier to ban steroids than McD's!

 

[crazy_enough]

I get the same comments from being a vegetarian, although I may have been straying lately, shhh. They all say," hey want a buffalo wing, oh thats right, YOU'RE a vegetarian, sorry." Then they say that they are going to enjoy life, not be a picky eater. I just say "well, I will just enjoy mine longer".

How does a big muscled chunk of man like yourself manage to be a vegan??lol
I had no clue!