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oh man, how did I miss this thread :rofl: Now I can't wait till I see you walking around the streets of campus

It sounds like you got some solid advice though. Don't jerk it so much, are you sure you're attracted to her, and are you sure you're attracted to chicks. I'm not doubting you or anything, just throwing the idea out there.

I have a similar story I guess. I once knew a chick who was smoking hot but I could never crank one out to her without trying way too hard than I should have (crank one out solo mind you, I'm in a relationship and have no plans to mess that up). It was all so strange cuz she was like perfect, and I'd get so mad at my dick for not cooperating. It's gotta be mental man.
 
This girl is really fucking hot..and she looked her hottest on our last night together.

I was continuing to think about it...I did end up fucking her..twice, so I am not in that bad of a boat. However, the blowjob necessity is still there. Then AGAIN, I didnt need it the FIRST of the two times..

I wanted to fuck her again in the morning, but she was asleep. I wanted to touch her and, well, kiss her, but I didnt feel like fondling her and I couldnt kiss her cuz of morning breath. I was half hard almost the entire time...I suppose her not being in the mood turned me off(?)
 
I've never had this problem myself, but I've heard that guys who work out a lot are more susceptible to this problem than guys who don't. Maybe you spend too much time pumping iron.
 
FitnessRubber said:
I've never had this problem myself, but I've heard that guys who work out a lot are more susceptible to this problem than guys who don't. Maybe you spend too much time pumping iron.
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I would love to hear your source on this? Did you hear this one hanging around the cracker barrel?
 
FitnessRubber said:
I've never had this problem myself, but I've heard that guys who work out a lot are more susceptible to this problem than guys who don't. Maybe you spend too much time pumping iron.
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actually after a good work out I feel like fucking anything that walks on two legs ( anything without a tail in the front that is). I tought working out actually boosts you self esteem and gives you better performance in bed.
 
HialeahChico305 said:
actually after a good work out I feel like fucking anything that walks on two legs ( anything without a tail in the front that is). I tought working out actually boosts you self esteem and gives you better performance in bed.
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There is science that backs up everything you were saying. I just felt like being a smart ass. Anyway, the comment the guy made is typically made by people who are jealous of others who have worked hard in the gym and look good.
 
yea either that or rigth after you wake up......her morning breath might turn ya off though so try to avoid toungue wrestling lol
 
Congratulations, you've conditioned yourself to have a limp dick. It worked for you one time and now, whether you consciously see it or not, you think you need it every time to get hard for this girl. Couple that with the stress this is causing and you've got quite a nasty little cycle goin there. I say stop lettin her blow you unless you're already hard and fuck her as often as you can. The more you're doin it without your BJ crutch the better it'll get.

That said I'll tell you why I believe this. I dated a girl in high school whom I had very little chance to bone in private so we had to sneak around her house and do so. I swear to you I got to the point where I didn't even wanna tough her unless someone else was around. Took me forever to develop any kind of desire for her when we were alone. Very weird what your mind can do.
 
AKIRA said:
I was already in her when I noticed her breath...then the next day I coudlnt get it up for the same reason...oh and I had the hang over of the century.
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dang, that's when you flip her and rear mount! Do we have to coach ya on all things????
:wits::roflmao:
 
It's your ego, the disillusionment of your sexual self is dominating your will to bring pleasure to anothers life. Don't force any demands on your monument or it will not function properly, let the primal animalistic urges bring the uprising.....also look into tantric instruction, one of my exes were into that and she taught me a lot about sexuality....
 
This has happened to me and im only 21.

It started being drunk every time I met a chick, and thought that was the problem, then after that happening a few times and talking to friends I convinced myself something was wrong.

I went to the doctors and she was pretty sure it was in my head but wanted to do blood tests. I hate needles and convinced her to give me a sample cialis just so I could get it up before I went away. It worked, I got it up. Then again when I was away no worries.

Now im back and seeing a girl that knows the right things to do I have had no problems. I think the key for me was to have the confidence it could happen.
 
"Now im back and seeing a girl that knows the right things to do I have had no problems. I think the key for me was to have the confidence it could happen."

I went to the docs before my holiday now i'm home again. The girl knows the right things to do to turn me on. Once I knew I could get it up, it didn't seem to be a problem.

Understand?
 
Ahhh. See, when I have a girlfriend...Ill eventually have sex with HER numerous times, so the anxiety is non-existent.

Kinda like being dragged out to the dance floor. For the first couple of minutes, youre stiff as a board, but after a while, you loosen up cuz you realize its not a big deal and nobody will make fun of you. (well, if youre within a crowd)
 
AKIRA said:
Ahhh. See, when I have a girlfriend...Ill eventually have sex with HER numerous times, so the anxiety is non-existent.

Kinda like being dragged out to the dance floor. For the first couple of minutes, youre stiff as a board, but after a while, you loosen up cuz you realize its not a big deal and nobody will make fun of you. (well, if youre within a crowd)
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actually...when was a bouncer in a night club...we'd see the guys who really couldn't dance...and make fun of them...
sorry...well, there's hope: You can join a planet fitness and at least won't be judged there...
:wacko::D
 
Maybe you are gay? Ever tried to see if you have that problem with a male?


j/k :lol:


I would go with eat some pussy...more foreplay. It sound to me unless you leave out a lot of details you do nothing to get her excited...its just about you getting hard or getting head? I personally get more turned on my pleasing the girl I'm with...and nothing helps you get more relaxed then eating her pussy and making her cum all before the sex starts. That takes ALL the pressure off the situation when you know you've finished the job before you ever got started. In her book you are the man, and you should be relaxed and ready to bone after that.

I've only had that issue when I am not really digging the girl I'm fucking, or I've already came and the interest isn't enough to make the effort for round two. I don't really have issues with round one unless I prolong it too much and lose the feeling. Then its like starting over from the beginning of round two.
 
The first night, I did eat her out! She doesnt seem to respond to it...(?) She said she never has. She said only she can get herself off. Not a very good pep talk before the big game, actually.

I figured some people would come to that dance analogy like lambs to a slaughter....never thought it would be a home skillet though.
 
Well maybe her lack of being responsive turns you off without you realizing it. You try things and fail and that isn't good. Some women don't cum easy or at all. Find you a girl that is wild in bed and knows her body. Sounds to me she either A. doesn't know how to relax and enjoy a man touching her body, or B. She has trained herself through masterbation to only cum when she does a certain thing. This is a crazy example...but lets just say for shits and giggles you rubbed your prostate while you jerked off all the time...and got used to that being how you cum....then a girl comes along and doesn't touch you in th way you like...you too would probably have trouble cumming. So anyways point is that she might have trained herself to cum alone..or could be self issues where she cannot relax enough to enjoy herself.
 
Wow I cant imagine having this problem!!!

I do empathize with u poor fellas...But have to say that Im very glad that when I need for my "shit" to get hard, I simply take it out of the bedside table and strap it on :lol:
 
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