Your bachelor party should be about what you want, not your best man. If you don't want the rippers, then don't have them. Tell him what you want and he should take care of it, whether there are women involved or not.
The party I threw for my best bud was a round of golf followed by drinking and poker tourneys with the boys. No strippers and no hookers and it was a great time.
That being said, I'm in full support of coming to Canada for the strippers. The Brass Rail is an incredible club if you have enough $$$.
Money isn't the issue. My best man is taking care of everything (he's one of the lucky few who is loaded) and he was the one that suggested Atlantic City. He just wants to make sure that I won't regret not doing the traditional thing.