Separate Toilet And Locker Room For Gay People

[Chubby]

It looks like it fits under the discription of sexual harassment. I think I have to make a report to my union and HR about it, so that they have a copy of my complaint. In the future if things gets out of control and violent, then atleast I won't get into trouble since I already filed a complaint about it. This is really begining to bother me. Sometimes it makes me want to crush that person's head sledge hammer. I think their is difference between 'looking' and 'staring.'


Sexual harassment is unwanted and unwelcome behavior, or attention, of a sexual
nature that interferes with your life and your ability to function at work, home, or school.
Sexual advances, forced sexual activity, statements about sexual orientation or
sexuality, requests for sexual favors, and other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual
nature all constitute sexual harassment. The behavior may be direct or implied.
Sexual harassment can affect an individual's work or school performance, and can
create an intimidating, hostile, or offensive environment.

Sexual harassment can occur in a number of ways, such as:


The victim as well as the harasser can be either male, or female. The harasser does not have to be of the opposite sex. The harasser can be anyone: the victim's supervisor, a client, a co-worker, a

 

[HialeahChico305]

There are some homos who share same locker room with straight people at my work. Recently, it is beginning to bother me. They seem to stare at me when I am using bathroom or changing uniforms. It is begening to make me feel very unconfortable, so I have been thinking about making a complain to HR about this. Do you guys think it is discrimination to kick homo out of straight peoples' locker room?
Please debate.

I actually agree with the troll for once. Gays should have their own locker room, I have no problems with gays but hate when they stare in the locker room. That been said it would be hard to get those still in the closet to the gay locker room so this wont work. Just shower at home chUbby.

 

[Little Wing]

some people might look more because they'd like to look like you ie have your abs that have sex with you.

who knows why a person is looking get over it, ignore it. gays could sue every hetero that gives them an unwelcome lascivious look as they go about their day too. if it's just a look who friggin cares? grow up and get on with your day.

 

[ironman4]

I totally agree.
I have had homo guys perv on me and even made comments.
I felt like a pretty woman in a prison. Altho I tend to check fit girls out!

 

[ZECH]

That makes sense too. The employer should provide either separate locker room to straight employees or gay employees. But the current locker room is way too big for gay employees, I think.

You must have small breasts!

 

[maniclion]

Oh, I'm sorry, I thought it was only fair to stare after I noticed you undressing me with your eyes. One good flirt deserves another.

Seriously though, maybe you should see a psychologist. Maybe they could help you deal with your homophobia. Also, in the United States, we account for about 10% of the population (we're basically at the same level as the Jewish people).

I hate when Jewish people stare at me....

 

[Hench]

I walk into the gym today only to see the aforementioned person doing kickbacks or some stupid shit like that. I thought to myself here we go again, but put it aside and got on with my workout. Anyway after about 45mins I noticed that he wasnt there, and I thought it must have been my lucky day. So I finish the last 4-5 sets of my workout, get some water and head to the changing rooms.

Walk through the door and who is standing there butt-ass-fucking-naked. My blood starts to boil a bit because now I know 100% that he is doing it on purpose, he should have left the gym 20mins ago but yet he is still here.

Worst of all, my locker is about 2 down from his. So I shake it off and start walking toward my shit, then when I am just about to pass him he SLAPS BOTH FUCKING ASS CHEEKS! Im sorry but what the fuck? At this point my training partner is wetting himself laughing as he know exactly whats going on. So the guy then fucks off and goes into the showers, I grab my stuff from the locker and turn around to leave. As I turn toward the door I see him standing in the shower facing me, rubbing his dick while watching me leave.

Im a pretty tolerant guy, and havent been overly bothered before now, but this shit is becoming a joke. Any adive?

 

[Little Wing]

I walk into the gym today only to see the aforementioned person doing kickbacks or some stupid shit like that. I thought to myself here we go again, but put it aside and got on with my workout. Anyway after about 45mins I noticed that he wasnt there, and I thought it must have been my lucky day. So I finish the last 4-5 sets of my workout, get some water and head to the changing rooms.

Walk through the door and who is standing there butt-ass-fucking-naked. My blood starts to boil a bit because now I know 100% that he is doing it on purpose, he should have left the gym 20mins ago but yet he is still here.

Worst of all, my locker is about 2 down from his. So I shake it off and start walking toward my shit, then when I am just about to pass him he SLAPS BOTH FUCKING ASS CHEEKS! Im sorry but what the fuck? At this point my training partner is wetting himself laughing as he know exactly whats going on. So the guy then fucks off and goes into the showers, I grab my stuff from the locker and turn around to leave. As I turn toward the door I see him standing in the shower facing me, rubbing his dick while watching me leave.

Im a pretty tolerant guy, and havent been overly bothered before now, but this shit is becoming a joke. Any adive?

i was doing kickbacks at my gym when this hunky straight guy walks in and checks me out. i didn't think much of it and got on with my workout.

i went to the shower room and waited till some straight guys that stare at me in the shower were gone before i stripped down to take mine.

then the hunk that checked me out walks by and looks at me again. by this time i think i know whats going on and slapped both my ass cheeks to let him either know i was onto him or embarrass him out of staring.

i must have been right he was interested because as he headed for the door he glanced back and checked out my dick.



i'm a pretty tolerant guy but c'mon get out of the closet and stop sneaking glances at me.

 

[Hench]

i was doing kickbacks at my gym when this hunky straight guy walks in and checks me out. i didn't think much of it and got on with my workout.

i went to the shower room and waited till some straight guys that stare at me in the shower were gone before i stripped down to take mine.

then the hunk that checked me out walks by and looks at me again. by this time i think i know whats going on and slapped both my ass cheeks to let him either know i was onto him or embarrass him out of staring.

i must have been right he was interested because as he headed for the door he glanced back and checked out my dick.



i'm a pretty tolerant guy but c'mon get out of the closet and stop sneaking glances at me.

I see what your trying to do, but it doesnt fit here. My explination maybe doesnt portray things in their true nature, this is not a case of someone having the wrong end of the stick.

EDIT: you read my previous post in here right? you know this has been going on for a while?

 

[NeilPearson]

I dont have a problem with it, hell I work hard to look this way so I dont mind of someone has a sneeky glance.

However there is this one guy at my gym, whenever we are there at the same time he will be sure to finish his workout before me, go into the changing rooms, get naked and cover himself with a towel. He'll then wait until I come in and then take his towel off so I can see his dick. This is quite strange and does make me feel slightly uncomfortable, maybe because he does it every fucking time he sees me.

Just whip yours out too next time and give him a show

 

[Little Wing]

I see what your trying to do, but it doesnt fit here. My explination maybe doesnt portray things in their true nature, this is not a case of someone having the wrong end of the stick.

EDIT: you read my previous post in here right? you know this has been going on for a while?

i was just teasing you. unwanted sexual attention can suck in any form. you could try saying something like "a little desperate for attention aren't you?"

 

[lola1182]

restrooms for "women", "men", then "gays".. hmm.. can't say i agree with that. it's a bit discriminating.

 

[min0 lee]

restrooms for "women", "men", then "gays".. hmm.. can't say i agree with that. it's a bit discriminating.

It is.

 

[crazy_enough]

Oh puh-lease!

Just treat it as you would if some fat, toothless bald chick were hitting on you: Offer a ''no thanx'' smile and go on with your day!

 

[westb51]

Just treat it as you would if some fat, toothless bald chick were hitting on you:

he doesn't want to have sex with them

 

[westb51]

They seem to stare at me when I am using bathroom

You should shut the door when you take a shit.

 

[maniclion]

moondog got sick of gay men looking at him so he moved out to the country, problem was the country folk didn't want to rent to a rowdy city boy so he had to settle for an old outhouse in the backwoods on the county line. A few days later chobby came knocking at his door as he had been through the same situation. Moondog decided to rent out his basement to chobby......

 

[Hench]

he doesn't want to have sex with them

Watch it westb, or ill tell Chobby your the one who been looking at him in the showers...

 

[KentDog]

You should shut the door when you take a shit.

I LOL'd at this one. Good stuff!

 

[tallcall]

Watch it westb, or ill tell Chobby your the one who been looking at him in the showers...

I already told him I was the one staring at him in the showers...and lets be honest, there wasn't that much to see...

 

[Chubby]

if it's just a look who friggin cares?

I know the difference between just looking and staring.

grow up and get on with your day.

I hope you wouldn't give same kind of advice to your kids.

Every problem starts as a small problem. If we don't take care of it before it gets bigger or if we take it as a normal, it might give them a 'Green Light' to take it to the next level.

Complaining about misbehaviour of gay people, doesn't make me antigay. I noticed some posters are so quick to jumped into conclution.

 

[Chubby]

I walk into the gym today only to see the aforementioned person doing kickbacks or some stupid shit like that. I thought to myself here we go again, but put it aside and got on with my workout. Anyway after about 45mins I noticed that he wasnt there, and I thought it must have been my lucky day. So I finish the last 4-5 sets of my workout, get some water and head to the changing rooms.

Walk through the door and who is standing there butt-ass-fucking-naked. My blood starts to boil a bit because now I know 100% that he is doing it on purpose, he should have left the gym 20mins ago but yet he is still here.

Worst of all, my locker is about 2 down from his. So I shake it off and start walking toward my shit, then when I am just about to pass him he SLAPS BOTH FUCKING ASS CHEEKS! Im sorry but what the fuck? At this point my training partner is wetting himself laughing as he know exactly whats going on. So the guy then fucks off and goes into the showers, I grab my stuff from the locker and turn around to leave. As I turn toward the door I see him standing in the shower facing me, rubbing his dick while watching me leave.

Im a pretty tolerant guy, and havent been overly bothered before now, but this shit is becoming a joke. Any adive?

Good to know I am not the only one who is having same kind of experience. Have you looked at the sexual harassment policy of the gym? If it fits under the discription of sexual harassment, you can take it from there. It is useless to talk to that person.

I already filed a complaint to HR. I hope they will take care of it. If they decided to ignore me, I am willing to take it to the next level. I hope they will fix the problem before it turns into an expensive lawsuit. The sexual harassment is very serious case.

 

[Hench]

Good to know I am not the only one who is having same kind of experience. Have you looked at the sexual harassment policy of the gym? If it fits under the discription of sexual harassment, you can take it from there. It is useless to talk to that person.

I already filed a complaint to HR. I hope they will take care of it. If they decided to ignore me, I am willing to take it to the next level. I hope they will fix the problem before it turns into an expensive lawsuit. The sexual harassment is very serious case.

Dont put me in the same boat as you and your homophobe friends, its not the same thing. Somebody is looking at you, big fucking deal. This idiot is following me around, slapping his ass cheeks and doing his very best to show me his dick at every possible opportunity.

If you get in a situation like this, then report him. If someone is looking at you while you get changed, whats the harm in that? I would probably stay naked for longer, just to make sure my ego got a good stroke. Why dont you mention to him that while your flattered, your not gay, before you get him in a lot of shit over nothing.

 

[HialeahChico305]

If someone is looking at you while you get changed, whats the harm in that? I would probably stay naked for longer, just to make sure my ego got a good stroke.

wtf? stay naked for longer while guys are staring at you? that does not sound correct but hey whatever floats your boat.

 

[Chubby]

wtf? stay naked for longer while guys are staring at you? that does not sound correct but hey whatever floats your boat.

Maybe he is already a gay. He just doesn't know it.

 

[Chubby]

Oh puh-lease!

Just treat it as you would if some fat, toothless bald chick were hitting on you: Offer a ''no thanx'' smile and go on with your day!

You have no idea how they behave in the bathroom/lockroom.

YouTube Video

 

[Little Wing]

I know the difference between just looking and staring.



I hope you wouldn't give same kind of advice to your kids.

Every problem starts as a small problem. If we don't take care of it before it gets bigger or if we take it as a normal, it might give them a 'Green Light' to take it to the next level.

Complaining about misbehaviour of gay people, doesn't make me antigay. I noticed some posters are so quick to jumped into conclution.

in your original post you said they "seem" to be staring at you. seem would mean they may be or it may be you perceive them to be.

if one gay person is misbehaving it is an issue with that 1 person. report him but don't take it out on all gays. if one black person acts bad in a restroom do you suggest making all blacks use a separate bathroom?

and a lot of people do not reveal their sexuality, how would you ever enforce this?

maybe you should just ask the person "why are staring at me?"

 

[ROID]

i might be gay. i'm not sure.

 

[Built]

If you're not sure, doesn't that make you bi?

 

[Burner02]

i might be gay. i'm not sure.

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