So Im GETTING DIVORCED

[KILLEROFSAINTS]

 

[Swfl]

wtf?

 

[DOMS]

Sorry to hear that, man. But it happens. Guys become over-possessive or inattentive. Chicks became fat and shrill. Sometimes they just grow apart.

"Why are divorces so expensive? Because they're worth it."

 

[SheriV]

holy shit, really?

 

[XYZ]

WOW, how did that happen? Sorry to hear.

 

[cube789]

: (

 

[Swfl]

that is why I NEVER let my wife go on vacation without me. JK

 

[ctr10]

KOS im so sorry to hear that

 

[KILLEROFSAINTS]

Me and tonya had fought for years...never could get it right...i would demand things...she would say she wont change...im saying shes not good enuff....a year ago we started getting in the groove...i was deleriously happy the first time i my life...i felt safe...sure of how stuff was going...well turns out she was stealing pills at her nurse job....lost her liscense...she did this for years....i has suspicions...but i was a coward....anyways...she got busted....before she got busted she told her mom about it...not me...i was devasted...the pills didnt bother me....the fact we will lose our house hurt but didnt kill me....she leaned on her mom at the moment she needed help the most.....she runs to her moms house every time we have a disagreement not even an arguement....so tried to be stable and absorb it all. She was cold and distant...blamed me for everything....said i ruined her life....told me how awful i was again and again....i lost all hope wed ever be connected the way i needed.....yay abandonment issues...so i did what i do when i dont get attention....huge mistake....i had kept straight for years...i promised her...i lied

 

[KILLEROFSAINTS]

And yes i dont have any friends and if i did the second they heard they would be hounding her so why the fuck would i tell them

 

[DOMS]

Me and tonya had fought for years...never could get it right...i would demand things...she would say she wont change...im saying shes not good enuff....a year ago we started getting in the groove...i was deleriously happy the first time i my life...i felt safe...sure of how stuff was going...well turns out she was stealing pills at her nurse job....lost her liscense...she did this for years....i has suspicions...but i was a coward....anyways...she got busted....before she got busted she told her mom about it...not me...i was devasted...the pills didnt bother me....the fact we will lose our house hurt but didnt kill me....she leaned on her mom at the moment she needed help the most.....she runs to her moms house every time we have a disagreement not even an arguement....so tried to be stable and absorb it all. She was cold and distant...blamed me for everything....said i ruined her life....told me how awful i was again and again....i lost all hope wed ever be connected the way i needed.....yay abandonment issues...so i did what i do when i dont get attention....huge mistake....i had kept straight for years...i promised her...i lied

If you don't mind me asking, how old is she?

 

[XYZ]

There are always two sides to every story.....the worst part in all of this is how much your son is going to suffer.

 

[The Prototype]

Sorry bro. You're a good guy. Everything happens for a reason. I think the important thing now is your kid and see that this doesn't effect him.

 

[Swfl]

That is hard to deal with for sure. you guys both made mistakes so do whats right for the kid don't talk bad about each other in front of him and if anyone else does shut them down... you need to make this as painless as possible on the lil one. I speak from 2 generations of experience on this matter my folks and ME. So if you wanna talk, shoot me a PM I'll give you a few tips that may help if you want them.

 

[independent]

Maybe its best for both of you. Just be civil and keep the kid out of it.

 

[KILLEROFSAINTS]

there are always two sides to every story.....the worst part in all of this is how much your son is going to suffer.

i know....we are all three so close...i dont even now how to spend a day without them...im a dad ,a husband.she is my best friend

 

[jagbender]

KOS. I got divorced after 30 years together! A little over a year ago. Divorce sucks,. and so does living with someone who you cannot trust and confide in.
I filed and did my paperwork ETC. I gave her the house and took my stuff and started over. It was fugged up year.

If you ever want to talk about it PM me

Best wishes,. Remember she will blame you and you need to tell yourself is what she says true or not. If not true then forget about it.

 

[KILLEROFSAINTS]

if you don't mind me asking, how old is she?

she turns 27 soon

 

[NoCode8511]

NOW is the time to get that diet in check, hit the gym, and get fucking cut!!!

These types of situations suck so find something to keep you occupied. No matter what the problem is/was let this make you a better person for the future.

This old black guy I work with once said... Strange pussy is the best pussy haha

 

[XYZ]

NOW is the time to get that diet in check, hit the gym, and get fucking cut!!!

These types of situations suck so find something to keep you occupied. No matter what the problem is/was let this make you a better person for the future.

This old black guy I work with once said... Strange pussy is the best pussy haha

I don't know.

I think this is going to take A LOT out of anyone. Trying to stick to any type of diet or train is going to be difficult at best. The mental aspect of everything has to be totally different for people on the outside than for the person in the middle of it.

 

[KILLEROFSAINTS]

Strange pussy on top of our tradgedy caused this

 

[KILLEROFSAINTS]

Doesnt look so appealing right now...though it would make me tempoarily feel better....live in the now!

 

[NoCode8511]

I don't know.

I think this is going to take A LOT out of anyone. Trying to stick to any type of diet or train is going to be difficult at best. The mental aspect of everything has to be totally different for people on the outside than for the person in the middle of it.

Oh no doubt. I went through a bad break up a few years back and let it get the best of me. I let depression get to me and dropped down to 104lbs.

Just trying to let someone know that even if it's a bad time, life goes on around you.

 

[ROID]

Life is difficult sometimes.

 

[Iz_vivit]

So is it final? Bro not gonna say I know how u feel but I been there with my wife and it got really close. But man hate to say it and sorry if I offend you, but prayer helped me man. Helped me through alot of grime and grit. Hope all works out for the best. Only thing id advise is to keep it low while the kiddo is around. It'll hurt him the most.

 

[DOMS]

Remember she will blame you and you need to tell yourself is what she says true or not. If not true then forget about it.

This shit, right here. It's rare that a women will split nicely. More likely, she will do everything she can to totally fuck you up, both fiscally and mentally. A woman scored is one of the most vile things on this planet.

Assume that most of what she says is a lie. Don't trust her on anything. If it's a legal matter, get it on paper. Don't make a verbal agreement over anything.

 

[KILLEROFSAINTS]

i don't know.

I think this is going to take a lot out of anyone. Trying to stick to any type of diet or train is going to be difficult at best. The mental aspect of everything has to be totally different for people on the outside than for the person in the middle of it.

the last time we had this kind of scare it took me like 3 years to lose all the weight i gained...i am 237 today...from 320

 

[Iz_vivit]

Concentrate on an easy split with the kid cuz custody battles get really ugly and general rule of thumb is dad is the bastard and mommy can do no wrong. Especially in the US. So try n get that settled prior to the divorce cuz bro. If she get sole custody it'll get very expensive.

 

[KILLEROFSAINTS]

so is it final? Bro not gonna say i know how u feel but i been there with my wife and it got really close. But man hate to say it and sorry if i offend you, but prayer helped me man. Helped me through alot of grime and grit. Hope all works out for the best. Only thing id advise is to keep it low while the kiddo is around. It'll hurt him the most.

beleive it or not i grew up in church...knowledge and logic makes things hard to beleive...but...i beleive in miracles

 

[heavyiron]

Fight for her and the kid. You made a vow. Keep it and quit being a pussy.