When I do squats I put a small towel around my neck and support the bar at the base of my neck in a little indentation that I make with the towel. I was recently told by a guy at the gym that I should hold the bar lower just behind/below my shoulder line. I tried it for a couple reps but I have this fear that I'm going to lose control of the bar and drop it behind me. I'm a 37 y.o. female and my upper body isn't as strong. So far I've had no trouble with my back or anything doing it the way I do it as long as I keep my head up & back straight. I'm squatting 135# for 4 sets of 10reps. I want to eventually get up to 185#. Will I have problems holding the bar behind my neck as I increase my weights? also, how far apart should my hands be on the bar? He also suggested that I'm holding them too close together.
