Stacey's Trail

[Fitgirl70]

yeah, I had one like that before Brad.....oh my gosh am I glad he's gone!!! THe only ties left with that fu*^^%er is my two wonderful children.

 

[butterfly]

John may not always get his honey-do list done but he always takes good care of me when I don't feel well. He's a genuine sweety :

 

[Jenny]

Hey Stace
I'm sorry you're hurting and sorry Matt is being a jerk

I hope you're feeling better soon honey!!

 

[JLB001]

Stac....it's raining here.

 

[BabsieGirl]

Originally posted by Stacey
awwwwww Brad is the same??!!! Awwwwwwwwwww

Man I got screwed!!!

I have the LEAST CARING/ Romantic Guy ever..
Although he will argue with that till the day he dies. whatever.

I feel the same way......

I'm sure he's just frustrated with it all just as you are. Sometimes you get sick of hearing the same thing over and over. Sometimes I get like that with my hubby. I feel bad afterwards.......but then again I also explain my feelings to him.....It's not so much that he's in pain....it's the constant complaining and whimpering around that drives me nuts. Almost like he's looking for attn or something....AS IF HE DOESN'T GET IT There are times when he'd complain, I'd change the subject....And again, it's not like I don't care,,,,,just hearing the same crud and knowing you can't do anything about it, gets really irritating..............

Was he having a bad day hon?

 

[Stacey]

Jodie & FG!! I'm glad that you tooo have great guys now!!!

 

[Stacey]

Originally posted by butterfly
John may not always get his honey-do list done but he always takes good care of me when I don't feel well. He's a genuine sweety :

Thats WONDERFUL Butterfly

 

[Stacey]

Originally posted by Jenny
Hey Stace
I'm sorry you're hurting and sorry Matt is being a jerk

I hope you're feeling better soon honey!!

HEY JENNY!!! Thanks honey!!!

How are you doing???

 

[Stacey]

YEP JODIE-- ITS RAINING HERE TOOOOOO!!!

 

[Jenny]

Originally posted by Stacey
HEY JENNY!!! Thanks honey!!!

How are you doing???

I'm doing really good thanks A lot of stuff going on in my mind, but only good stuff, I'm so happy

How's the job hunt going?

 

[Stacey]

Originally posted by BabsieGirl
I feel the same way......

I'm sure he's just frustrated with it all just as you are. Sometimes you get sick of hearing the same thing over and over. Sometimes I get like that with my hubby. I feel bad afterwards.......but then again I also explain my feelings to him.....It's not so much that he's in pain....it's the constant complaining and whimpering around that drives me nuts. Almost like he's looking for attn or something....AS IF HE DOESN'T GET IT There are times when he'd complain, I'd change the subject....And again, it's not like I don't care,,,,,just hearing the same crud and knowing you can't do anything about it, gets really irritating..............

Was he having a bad day hon?

Hey sweetie!! Thanks for all that. You are right about it all. I know he hears me complain all the time about the same thing..a lot of the times I hold it in..and if he does ask.. I say "what is always bothering me"
And I have told him sooo many times that I hate complaining I have cramps.. I always joke with him and say my famous line I say daily is "I HAVE CRAMPS" go figure

nope he was having a good day.
But your right..He hears it daily.

 

[butterfly]

Originally posted by Stacey
YEP JODIE-- ITS RAINING HERE TOOOOOO!!!

I really hope it doesn't come down my way

 

[Stacey]

Jenny~ Hey girlie.. I'm glad that things are going good with you.

The job hunt is going.... I'm faxing out my resume right & left..thats why I get here before everyone else in the mornings... so nobody see's me doing it...and so I can grab my confirmations!

I did see on a website today that My all time favorite company to work for is Hiring in Home sales & Admin. Assistant. SO My friend is fixing my resume a tad...and when she emails it to me..I'm faxing it to them.
It's David Weekley!! I love love love them!! It's been a dream forever to work there! SOOO Hopefully that goes well...

 

[Stacey]

I don't know where the rain is headed??? HmmM?

 

[Fitgirl70]

Don't send the rain up here!!

 

[atherjen]

Id take rain over SNOW!!!!

did you get your hot bath last nite Stace? Hope your feeling better today!

 

[Stacey]

Heya girl!
Yep I sure did!! I took your advice, and its the first thing I did when I got home from work...(after putting my chicken in the oven) TOOK A Longggggggg hot soak..felt great!!! Thank you honey!

 

[atherjen]

thats great to hear! It always makes me feel so much better! kinda unplug and relax!

 

[Stacey]

It definatley Relaxed me!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Fitgirl70]

I think that's what I'm doing tonight is taking a long hot bath in my jacuzzi w/ some candles, maybe a glass of wine and no lights, maybe some good hard rock and roll too!!!

 

[JLB001]

I can see it now....Fit in the jacuzzi listening to Ozzy!

 

[Fitgirl70]

EXACTLY!!!!!

 

[Stacey]

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Stacey]

ugggggggg Matt just called me. First time today.. ugggggggg i'm having a MAJOR "I hate my husband Day"

He goes, don't forget to go to Brians after work today..and I said..well I'm going home first... and I really don't feel well.. can't I just go home & stay there..and he got all pissy with me..
I just said FINE I will go and stand there in pain.
Damn Fu**er

 

[DrChiro]

damn Stacey....using the potty mouth....but it is understandable....i'm glad there are no tape recordings of the arguments Jodie and I have...they would scare small children and large animals!

(YES we argue sometimes and NO it isnt good when it happens)

relationships have their good days and bad days, thats just how it works...as long as you can talk about the problems at some point (preferably after the anger wears off a bit) and try to work on them so that they arent as much of an issue in the future, it's all good....relationships are all about communication....if you want them to last.

hmmm...i think i watch too much Dr.Phil....nahhh, no such thing as too much DrPhil!!!

jodie expressed to me just the other day how important it was to walk the dogs in a timely fashion....and i understood her, although she could have approached it differently (love ya baby!)

 

[JLB001]

Umm...the large dogs we have did get scared....they were in the closet hidding.

 

[DrChiro]

hmmm...this is true now that i think about it.

 

[Fitgirl70]

You guys are too adorable!!! Jodie, that's why you have got to love that man.

You bitch at him and he "understands".....

 

[JLB001]

Not always. We don't always see eye to eye on alot of things. We just try and work things out, sometimes that takes days! And the doggies stay hidding in the closet.

 

[Stacey]

Originally posted by DrChiro
damn Stacey....using the potty mouth....but it is understandable....i'm glad there are no tape recordings of the arguments Jodie and I have...they would scare small children and large animals!

(YES we argue sometimes and NO it isnt good when it happens)

relationships have their good days and bad days, thats just how it works...as long as you can talk about the problems at some point (preferably after the anger wears off a bit) and try to work on them so that they arent as much of an issue in the future, it's all good....relationships are all about communication....if you want them to last.

hmmm...i think i watch too much Dr.Phil....nahhh, no such thing as too much DrPhil!!!

jodie expressed to me just the other day how important it was to walk the dogs in a timely fashion....and i understood her, although she could have approached it differently (love ya baby!)

Thanks Craig! I know, I try not to cuss too much!
You are very right about Relationships & communicating. Usually when we argue..it gets cleared up in a day or two. He likes to talk right away..and I have to cool off and ignore him for a few hours. He finally understands that about me.

Nahhh never Too Much Dr. Phil!

We were not fighting...just a little arguement....he had no idea how upset I Really am --but I'm getting over it now. Thanks to some things Babsiegirl Said

He is a great guy, and I know he loves me..he just needs to be more sensitive to me like he was when we were dating..now his romantic side is gone..and his caring side..ummm out the door... It's all about Matt.

BUT oh well.. I will work on it!