testosterone use and kids

[QuestionGuy]

Hi,

I have been having a real issue lately that worries the hell out of me. I have been bodybuilding for years, and if not to this lifestyle I would have never realised that I have low test levels (by now I would probably be on anti-depresants and god knows that drugs to "fix my problem")..instead, I went to the doctor and found out that I have super low t levels...he gradualy put me on 200mg of test a week and my levels are thru the roof, my test level is at 1058 ONE DAY BEFORE MY NEXT SHOT, which meand that im at a super high normal level and I dont need to mention that I feel like fucking superman now for almost 2 years, and I dont need to mention that I sex up my wife like I have never done before, just thinking about it now gets me hard (sorry for the visual but I just need to express how much this stuff is helping me live a good live)...I also get an extensive blood test done two times a year and everything is very good, no problems in any areas from vitamin levels to cholesterol.............

But lately I have been thinking about having kids, i dont really want kids now but Im in a good financial and mature position where If I had a kid, i would be happy about it......I have done a lot of research and had it both ways........What do some of the more experienced users in here think about the posibilities of having kids while on test, and even after?? am I just really paranoid or am i screwed because I am taking something that improves my life and stops me from being down all the time?

 

[SUPERFLY1234]

my bro. could not have kids when he was on t. he had his sperm counted and 90% was dead. he had to stay off t for 6 months before his count came close to normal. he has a cute boy now. he was 42 at the time.

 

[pyes]

No worries about the visual...i already envisioned your wife naked when you said ''Hi'' LOL J/k brother. Testosterone lowers sperm count, that is a fact. The fact of the whole matter is, there is not enough testing done to determine whether testosterone directly affects offspring. I would assume it does not, but i can not be sure. I would assume it would only be dangerous if your wife was on test or some other steroid while pregnant. hope this helps a bit.

 

[ddeal1]

wtf

if you dont want kids why does it matter dude. your over here talkin bout gettin hard thinkin about stuff. look man it seems to me like your a very confused man, dont have kids

 

[LAM]

But lately I have been thinking about having kids, i dont really want kids now but Im in a good financial and mature position where If I had a kid, i would be happy about it......

don't have children if you aren't 100% up for the job, it's a lot more responsibility and work than a lot of people realize. it takes a whole lot more than just love to raise a successful child that will have the skills to make it in our society today. from a fiscal perspective remember that the costs of raising children increase yearly as they consume more. you may be able to afford a baby now but will you be able to afford a child 5-10 years from now? for the most part your yearly pay increase HAS to at least double the rate of inflation EVERY year to keep yourself in the same financial position that you were in before the pregnancy.

 

[QuestionGuy]

don't have children if you aren't 100% up for the job, it's a lot more responsibility and work than a lot of people realize. it takes a whole lot more than just love to raise a successful child that will have the skills to make it in our society today. from a fiscal perspective remember that the costs of raising children increase yearly as they consume more. you may be able to afford a baby now but will you be able to afford a child 5-10 years from now? for the most part your yearly pay increase HAS to at least double the rate of inflation EVERY year to keep yourself in the same financial position that you were in before the pregnancy.

LOL.....You made me LOL bad....wtf?? I guess that's cool, it makes sense, kind of....But yeah my psition still stands, I will try to reproduce because I feel like its a very important part of life, plus i think life would not be complete without having children...

 

[heavyiron]

HCG will improve your fertility. Just get a sperm test to see where you are at.

 

[QuestionGuy]

if you dont want kids why does it matter dude. your over here talkin bout gettin hard thinkin about stuff. look man it seems to me like your a very confused man, dont have kids

Well, I disagree...See, I do want kids, but I am not actively trying to have kids, see if it happens and my wife comes to me and says that im gona be a dad, then I will be very happy, but im not out here boning and hoping she gets pregnant....have you ever done research on how many kids are accidents and how many kids are not??/ well I have not, but I would assume that a LOT and a LOT of kids are accidents...and I dont mean hoodrat mom's a whore and got fucked by the whole hood accidents...I meant loving couple with a good life accidents....So please, have a little respect, because although I am alittle confused about the whole thing now...I cant possible beleive that you must have it ALL FIGURED OUT in your life...

 

[QuestionGuy]

HCG will improve your fertility. Just get a sperm test to see where you are at.

thank you

 

[LAM]

LOL.....You made me LOL bad....wtf?? I guess that's cool, it makes sense, kind of....But yeah my psition still stands, I will try to reproduce because I feel like its a very important part of life, plus i think life would not be complete without having children...

a lot of my friends that didn't really want to have kids but did, and every single one of them is fuking miserable. just remember you can't unscramble an egg, once it's done it's done...don't buy into the BS that you have to kids just because society says so, that's all I'm saying.

 

[QuestionGuy]

a lot of my friends that didn't really want to have kids but did, and every single one of them is fuking miserable. just remember you can't unscramble an egg, once it's done it's done...don't buy into the BS that you have to kids just because society says so, that's all I'm saying.

I respect that and there is a lot of truth to that...and yes at times I feel like its just the way it is and that people who dont have kids are "weird"....but at the same time I think that having kids is something that would complete me.....you know...having a kid or two, buying a nice house in a nice area with friends and family, and having a nice comfortable life....isn't that the american dream...?

 

[heavyiron]

Kids are awesome. I just had my first at age 42 last year. I never knew it could be so wonderful. You need to be in a place where you are no longer selfish or you will be miserable. If you are mature enough to be a giving unselfish person there is nothing more rewarding than children.

 

[fray5]

Well said, man. Couldn't have said it any better myself.

 

[tucker01]

I respect that and there is a lot of truth to that...and yes at times I feel like its just the way it is and that people who dont have kids are "weird"....but at the same time I think that having kids is something that would complete me.....you know...having a kid or two, buying a nice house in a nice area with friends and family, and having a nice comfortable life....isn't that the american dream...?

Sorry but to me.... that is the complete wrong decision to base having kids on.

Be prepared for a complete life change, where your own wants are no longer on the radar. Everything you do will be for your children. No one can ever explain the change in your lifestyle to you. It is overwhelming.

That said I have 3....and wouldn't change a thing, because I WANTED to have children, not because of some societal norm.

 

[pyes]

You guys are being hard on him and looking into his words too deeply. it is perfectly normal to want kids no matter what the reason. Fact of the matter is, the meaning of life is to spread our genes to make sure our species does not die out. Is the world 90% over populated? Yes.