Reward Her Bravery
When she initiates the action, make an extra effort to please her sexually and to let her know how much you approve. "Tell her you really loved it that she initiated," says Fitz-Gerald. "Women aren't sure if you're going to perceive initiation as negative or if it might make you uncomfortable."
When she initiates the action, make an extra effort to please her sexually and to let her know how much you approve. "Tell her you really loved it that she initiated," says Fitz-Gerald. "Women aren't sure if you're going to perceive initiation as negative or if it might make you uncomfortable."