what do men really mean?

[nsimmons]

Just because a guy is interested in sex, it doesn't mean he's not interested in you as a person too. He can like you, want to get to know you better and try to bang you all at the same time.

 

[Skate67]

When a girl/woman has only "guys" for friends....that is = to 0 friends.

Ive noticed they're usually sluts too.

 

[Jodi]

i am not going to argue my point on this, especially when im right. and im not going to act like a little boy and say " i am not gay, youre gay". that was my point about todays society. if you dont agree with someone or like what they have to say all of a sudden theyre gay. how immature. i am a certain type of person, who believes a certain way. you feel differently and thats great, but dont go saying things on other peoples behalf.

Now that's respectful!

Some of us nice women still seek nice guys too Wish I knew where to find them

I date plenty - well I was anyway - and I rarely found a guy I would go on a 2nd date with. Most of them are assholes, bad attitudes, pushy, demanding, shows offs etc............ I'm picky though.

 

[MyK]

Do men really say nice things like, "there is plenty of time to get to know each other" or "we dont have to have sex everytime we see each other, theres plenty of time for that?" to actually get a woman in bed faster? how do we know if a man is REALLY just being nice??

just fuck him, and then go make him a sandwich!

 

[gr81]

Do men really say nice things like, "there is plenty of time to get to know each other" or "we dont have to have sex everytime we see each other, theres plenty of time for that?" to actually get a woman in bed faster? how do we know if a man is REALLY just being nice??

well Anna, here is your answer baby doll...asking what all men do or think is waaayyyy too vague, and despite what is believed, we are all different. Yes we all love having sex with beautiful women, but thats about where it ends. There ARE guys out there that would say those things and mean them, and there are other guys that say those things b/c thats what they think you want to hear (not necessarily maliciously, but sometimes thats how you have to play things), then there are guys who would say things like that to a girl he wants a future with and not to others. Bottom line is that sleeping with a guy is not going to get him to like you anymore, and if you like this guy then make him wait a little bit. On the other hand, making him wait too long is a recipe for him looking elsewhere. If I were you however I would seriously worry and question if a guy did say that he didn't want to sleep with you each and every time he sees you and that theres plent of time for that b/c either A) that means he's not very sexual and things will be bleak in the future, or B) he's bullshiting you b/c he thinks thats what you want to hear which is actually the better of the two. it seems like we just can't win with you gals thou, b/c if we say these things then you question our motives, and if we don't then we're not sensitive enough or whatever. You all need to stop acting like wanting to sleep with a women is a sinister intention and realize its a good thing if he wants to sleep with you, that means he's attracted to you.

 

[GFR]

just fuck him, and then go make him a sandwich!

and bring him a cold beer......then go do the laundry.

 

[AnnaDTX]

thanks gr81. btw I am giving up asking questions about the subject. I am curious and I love reading people's answers, even if they are WHACK sometimes but I dont want to bother anyone either.

 

[gr81]

my pleasure, but you shouldn't give up with the questions, and I bet every guy here will assure you that you are no bother.. We love it when beautiful women are vocal about these things. Its just hard to answer when we know nothing about the guy. ok seriously, 1 last piece of advice and I'll shut up, and I know its gonna sound corny, but just be upfront and honest with your fellas, it much less confusing for all sides and thats also usually will open some avenues of dialogue from his end. ya never know...

 

[nsimmons]

Serious problem here anna is your only responding to the 'nice' answeres that enforce what you want to hear...

The other ones may be rude but theres is a lot of wisdom all around. We have no interest in bull shitting you, we'll never meet.

 

[AnnaDTX]

I read all the answers and they are great! Myk answer was insane! I know the wisdom is around, thats why i like posting in this section, i get honest answers.

 

[nsimmons]

Fair enough.

 

[Steele20]

Do men really say nice things like, "there is plenty of time to get to know each other" or "we dont have to have sex everytime we see each other, theres plenty of time for that?" to actually get a woman in bed faster? how do we know if a man is REALLY just being nice??

Yes, a lot of men do say things like that. Just don't sleep with him until you are 100 percent sure he's a nice guy if that's what you desire. A nice guy wont care if he doesn't have sex 2 weeks into the relationship.

 

[Steele20]

just my 2 cents worth.. some guys are dicks, some aren't. If you think a guy is just tying to be nice, give him a chance, he probably is. There are still a few of us nice guys left out there. And I'll agree, in the long run, we probably don't get laid as much as the "bad boys" but I bet we have much better relationships with women, either as friends or lovers.

Some of us nice guys do, I haven't had much luck in the past but my current girlfriend seems different from the others so who knows. I'm in my third year of college and seems to me most educated people are nice, or put on a good front.

 

[Skate67]