What would cause you to cheat on your partner

[min0 lee]

Last time I checked you were the one confused...

I promise you I am not hotbody. Her vagina is much better looking than mine... I DON'T HAVE ONE. Despite what your parents told you min0 lee. Everyone is NOT born with a foo-foo and a wee-wee...

I'm not the only one who feels this way, well anyway ..I like you.

 

[SuperFlex]

I'm not the only one who feels this way, well anyway ..I like you.

You're super as well.

 

[shutupntra1n]

If I had me a sweetie pie such as min0 lee I would never cheat

 

[min0 lee]

If I had me a sweetie pie such as min0 lee I would never cheat

Awwww.............

 

[RexStunnahH]

I think my man is losing interest. In your opinion, or experience...what would cause you to cheat on someone? Also....what signs do you look for if you suspect it?

I wouldn't.I know that a change in behavior is a big one to look for.If all of a sudden your mate is listening to music they never listened to before,or likeing certain things...just out of the blue.or talking about another person alot.theres alot

 

[gr81]

My man Flex hit the nail on the head, Men cheat b/c of sexual need, bottom line if they aren't getting it at home they will get it somewhere else. Plus some guys just are assholes and need it here and there, in which case it their issue and they don't love you, its just that their comfortable with the rest of the relationship. Someone said it thou in here, and its right on, if you feel like something is on 90% of the time you are probably correct so just trust your instincts.

 

[King Silverback]

Thanks flex...it does help.....and hotbody you have a good point about the kids. If it turns out to be true though...I will do everything in my power to get passed it, and keep ME..and my daughters happy. I guess the part that freaks me out the most is him having sex with others and me, and catching something from him....YUK!! He accuses me of cheating, and I would never cheat.

Hate to tell you this, but I have been on the "cheated on" side, and she used to accuse me almost constantly, or ask me if I would ever cheat on her, always questions about would I, what would I do if she cheated, stuff like that. Keep your head up, your heart guarded.

 

[Flex]

Someone who blames you for cheating when you KNOW you are not is doing the deed himself ... absolutly without a doubt.

absolutely.

 

[perfectbody]

cheating 's not as bad as murder

 

[gr81]

touche

 

[BoneCrusher]

cheating 's not as bad as murder

Why bring up murder here ... we are not talking about killing anyone.

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whadi miss?

 

[gr81]

I have no clue, its certainly a humerous response. Doesn't seem to have any relevance but I guess he's right..lol.....whassup BoneC, how you doin?

 

[BritChick]

Why bring up murder here ... we are not talking about killing anyone.

Ah... but one may lead to another!

 

[BoneCrusher]

Ah... but one may lead to another!

It has too Brit. Many people have died for the single reason that he or she picked the wrong spouse. However ... I know that you would not ever kill anyone you chose to be involved with. Unless he died of heart failure during a moment of rapture ...

 

[BritChick]

It has too Brit. Many people have died for the single reason that he or she picked the wrong spouse. However ... I know that you would not ever kill anyone you chose to be involved with. Unless he died of heart failure during a moment of rapture ...

Wow, you know me so well, I could never kill a partner... I prefer to make their torture linger by making them live with me!

 

[gr81]

oh let me add another thing to my list of causes, b/c I think that its pretty fair to say that most men would be inclined to consider straying if Brit Chicks fine ass happened to stroll on by.... mmhhmmm!

 

[BoneCrusher]

I'd enjoy you in my mind Brit. I'd have you in as manny ways as a man could be with a woman. But in real life I'd have to keep it in my pants ... if I was involved in a relationship. Again the emotional debris is not worth the physical actions ... however mind blowing the sex would be.

 

[Flex]

Unless he died of heart failure during a moment of rapture ...

I could see her going to jail for murder.......actually manslaughter.

 

[MaxMirkin]

If she ever burns my dinner.

 

[TrojanMan60563]

Men cheat because they are not getting sexual satisfaction at home...either the sex is old and no longer interesting, or they realize a new hot pussy at the bar is way more fun then the one they have been tapping on for years.

Women cheat because they are not getting the mental stimulation. Women want to feel loved and desired by their partner. They want someone that gives them attention when they need it, and someone to be a good listener when they have a problem. When their partner no longer does this for them and some guy at work is constantly there for them that friendship easily grows into more. Basically anyone that fills the emotional void in their life is going to be tapping that ass.

Most men and women cheat with people they meet at work. Reason being they tend to spend more time with their co-workers then they do their partners.

Second of all sex and love are not related. Women think with emotions so they tend to love the one they are sharing their bodies with. Men have sex for pure physical satisfaction. That is not to say that men don't love who they sleep with, but what I am saying is men can love you and sleep with someone else they have zero feelings for. Women have a harder time separating the two. Don't get me wrong some women can sleep with other men and not think twice or have feelings for them, but that is usually not the case.

Just my 2 cents

 

[BoneCrusher]

PEOPLE cheat ... this is not agender issue and they do it for a million reasons. Sometimes it is for this lame reason or that lame reason ... a person without a strong sense of morallity can always find a lame ass reason to cheat. Of course that reason is the other person's fault. "I'm not getting any at home and a man needs to be a man" or "He never pays any attention to me and a woman has needs" . I've seen one person on this board own his fuq-up and accept blame for his actions. He got lucky and his girl seemed to keep him around ... real lucky.

 

[Flex]

Men cheat because they are not getting sexual satisfaction at home...either the sex is old and no longer interesting, or they realize a new hot pussy at the bar is way more fun then the one they have been tapping on for years.

Women cheat because they are not getting the mental stimulation. Women want to feel loved and desired by their partner. They want someone that gives them attention when they need it, and someone to be a good listener when they have a problem. When their partner no longer does this for them and some guy at work is constantly there for them that friendship easily grows into more. Basically anyone that fills the emotional void in their life is going to be tapping that ass.

Most men and women cheat with people they meet at work. Reason being they tend to spend more time with their co-workers then they do their partners.

Second of all sex and love are not related. Women think with emotions so they tend to love the one they are sharing their bodies with. Men have sex for pure physical satisfaction. That is not to say that men don't love who they sleep with, but what I am saying is men can love you and sleep with someone else they have zero feelings for. Women have a harder time separating the two. Don't get me wrong some women can sleep with other men and not think twice or have feelings for them, but that is usually not the case.

Just my 2 cents

A VERY well 2 cents

 

[Flex]

I've seen one person on this board own his fuq-up and accept blame for his actions. He got lucky and his girl seemed to keep him around ... real lucky.

Hey, ^that's me^!

With regards to my relationship, I wouldn't even call it luck.

Here's exactly what happened....

We'd been dating for about 2 months in college, then came the summer. I barely talked to her/saw her, even though she lived only 20 min away, and this was NOT my fault. i made all the effort in the world, but her deal was a combo of playing hard to get (even though we were ALREADY dating)/as well as wanting to be with her best friends alot who she rarely ever saw anymore (which was understandable). Since I hardly ever saw her, nevermind even talked to her, we had NO sex life. It's extremely hard to have NO sex life when you do have strong feelings for the girl, and are extremely attracted to her (she was my first REAL gf).

Anyhow, In my mind, since she rarely called, barely ever saw her, and we had no sex life, i concluded she was cheating on me.

Then during the summer after some parties, i had the opportunity to fool around with other chicks. did i like them? absolutely not. in fact, immediately after i fooled around with one chick in her apt (she lived across from my buddy's apt who had a party), i said i was going back to his place to get something and i'd be right back, and i locked my buddy's door behind me and never saw her again.

Did i feel guilty? absolutely. that's why i told her a few months later. call it having a guilty consciious or whatever, but i couldn't take in anymore. I broke down one night and told her everything. I explained how i felt about the summer, why i did what i did (purely sexual) etc. I guess she musta really liked me alot, cuz we went out for another 2+ years after that.

Hope this helps...

FLEX

 

[BoneCrusher]

Actually bro this particular dude had been with his woman for like 8 years and cheated through out most of it ...

 

[Flex]

Actually bro this particular dude had been with his woman for like 8 years and cheated through out most of it ...

i see.

but i pleaded guilty, too, your honor

 

[Flex]

And i don't really agree with teh poll posted at the top.

IMO girls are the only ones who think about cheating ahead of time, for reasons such Trojan suggested (a need feeling wanted etc.).

Guys just do it on complete sexual impulse. If the opportunity presents itself, a guy either succumbs to the pressure, or turns it down. A guy is not thinking to himself before he goes out "okay, if a hot chick is hitting on me tonite and i have the opportunity..."

 

[min0 lee]

i see.

 

[BoneCrusher]

i see.

but i pleaded guilty, too, your honor

I think we'd all would have to cop that same plea at one time or another bro ...

 

[Crono1000]

i saw the avatar and thought this was tit, scared the hell outta me. We're around each other 24/7, I was like "When the hell does she think I'm cheating on her?

 

[TrojanMan60563]

IMO girls are the only ones who think about cheating ahead of time, for reasons such Trojan suggested (a need feeling wanted etc.).

Guys just do it on complete sexual impulse. If the opportunity presents itself, a guy either succumbs to the pressure, or turns it down. A guy is not thinking to himself before he goes out "okay, if a hot chick is hitting on me tonite and i have the opportunity..."

You've got that right Flex...

A women in a relationship will plot and plan her actions. Most women who are in a relationship do not just run out and screw just anyone. Its usually a pre-meditated and well planned thing. The affair is something that builds up from usually a friendship into sex.

Men they are out having a good time with friends and drink a few beers....a hot girl shows interest in hooking up. The dick gets some extra blood flow and next thing you know your hitting skins. Its not something planned out. And for heavens sake it has NOTHING to do with love.

See the difference everyone.......