What's going on?

[Island Roots]

I've been dating my girlfriend for over a year and in the past 2 or 3 weeks we've started to have sex; pretty regularly. Both of us were virgins beforehand. However, the last few times we've done it either she or myself has had to stimulate myself a little bit to keep it up after we take off our clothes.

I don't know what the problem is; I always have a hardon when I'm around her; hell just hugging her or kissing her usually gives me a hardon. But when we take our clothes off, I go soft unless myself or she is stimulating me.

I've never had this problem in the year that we've been going out until a few weeks after we've started to have sex.

I thought it might have been because we were doing it so often, but she was away for the weekend (4 days or so) and when she came back, we did it and it started to happen again.

I've never had this problem before - what the hell is the deal?

 

[GFR]

You are just new to this, give you're body and mind time to kick into gear. Don't over think it, you will be ok .

 

[Vieope]

Do you get too nervous before sex?

 

[goandykid]

it's the chronic masturbation















jk, you're probably just not used to bareing it all in front of her, you'll get used to it eventually

 

[Island Roots]

No I don't get nervous; my girlfriend and I are very comfortable and relaxed around each other. It's usually the time between getting naked and puting the condom on where I go soft. Once we're in the act, I don't have any problem keeping a hardon.

I hope it just takes time to get use to because it's embarrassing for both me and her.

 

[Vieope]

Maybe she takes her clothes too slow? Are you attracted to her when she is naked? Can I see a picture of her? Does it take too long to put the condom? Can I see a picture of her?


I can´t understand too because when something like that happens to me, it is because I am nervous and unconfortable.

 

[Crono1000]

Both of us were virgins beforehand.

I was a virgin before hand also, if you know what I mean.

 

[Vieope]

I was a virgin before hand also, if you know what I mean.

Everybody knows what you mean chronic masturbator. We know, don´t worry about that.

 

[Crono1000]

anyway, maybe your girlfriend's ugly?

ahahahhaha I'm just kidding, you're alright.

 

[Vieope]

Did you just anyway me?

Anyway, maybe you should have sex with your clothes on.

 

[MillerMan]

Only time I had a problem like that was when I was drunk once and I was havin some major problems stayin hard, it was quite embarrasing, I never did get him up and runnin that night.

 

[Island Roots]

jk, you're probably just not used to bareing it all in front of her, you'll get used to it eventually

It isn't that because we've been completely naked together many times before we started having sex.

Vieope: We get our clothes off pretty fast; it's when we're naked and kissing right before the act that I go soft.

 

[PreMier]

How old are you? use any PS/PH/gear?

 

[CRASHMAN]

you are seeing her naked......turn the lights off .....

 

[Island Roots]

I'm 18 and not using anything.

 

[SPIKE1257]

Lucky for me I never had that problem with your girlfreind. Just kidding..

 

[John H.]

You are just new to this, give you're body and mind time to kick into gear. Don't over think it, you will be ok .

Hi Foreman,

EXACTLY.

And learn to relax - your body and your mind - learn to be comfortable.

Take Care, John H.

 

[TriZZle305]

I was a virgin before hand also, if you know what I mean.