If u have to max out yourself and can???t get it up, use your body weight and kind of drop the weights to your side, yeah is going to make a lot of noise but is better than letting it drop on your chest. Or if u still have some strength left u cud work it slowly to your leg, don???t just drop if to your body use your hand and try to maintain as much weight off your body as possible, when u get it to ur leg just sit down from there on is almost like a dead lift and lay the weight on ur bench. I tell you this saved me a lot of times when I used to work at home by myself, but I have never done this with more than 205 lbs so be careful man. Be save