Would you do your buddies girl behind his back?

[Vieope]

It is just a very nice women that I am seeing almost everyday. Love? I guess so, it is always hard to tell. The problem is that I met two new very nice women recently.

How about you? I saw a pretty friend of yours in your gallery a few months ago. How about her?

 

[Randy]

Love Bug

 

[Randy]

Originally posted by Vieope
It is just a very nice women that I am seeing almost everyday. Love? I guess so, it is always hard to tell. The problem is that I met two new very nice women recently.

How about you? I saw a pretty friend of yours in your gallery a few months ago. How about her?

The dog doesn't count Vieope <Just kidding>

 

[Vieope]

 

[OceanDude]

Well, I'm the one that started this thread and my intention was not really to find out about peoples libido's etc. It was really to find out about relational honor and values. If I just look at the numbers and not some of the comments I must say I am impressed with you guys. Kind of fooled me really since I expected about half here would say "do the wench and tell your buddy to get a new one". Instead, my take here is that most of you think that another pretty face and sexual gratification are insufficient reward to betray a friend. That's OK in my book.

Now I wonder what would happen if we upped the ante. What if your buddy???s woman was filthy rich and would give you all the affection in the world and buy everything you wanted as long as you stopped working and kept her satisfied.

OD

 

[PreMier]

Originally posted by OceanDude
Now I wonder what would happen if we upped the ante. What if your buddy???s woman was filthy rich and would give you all the affection in the world and buy everything you wanted as long as you stopped working and kept her satisfied.

OD

This definately makes me think. But what will keep her from dumping me for someone else? Probably nothing. So NO!

 

[Randy]

Originally posted by OceanDude
Well, I'm the one that started this thread and my intention was not really to find out about peoples libido's etc. It was really to find out about relationional honor and values. If I jsut look at the numbers and not some of the comments I must say I am impressed with you guys. Kind of fooled me really since I expected about half here would say "do the wench and tell your buddy to get a new one". Instead, my take here is taht most of you think that another pretty face and sexual gratification are insufficient reward to betray a friend. That's OK in my book.

Now I wonder what would happen if we upped the ante. What if your buddie's woman was filthy rich and would give you all the affection in the world and buy everything you wanted as long as you stopped working and kept her satisfied.

OD

Is this really the case OD or are people just telling you want you want to hear I think that everyone knows right from wrong. We all know the correct answer. The real question is how someone would react if they where actually put into this type of situation. One person I believe stated just that. It is hard to be honest and say how you will react unless you are put in the situation. And each situation can be different. Nobody would try to steal there friends girlfriend intentionally. But I think if she was drop down georgeous and was continuously hitting on you, coupled by other circumstances, some may react differently. Add some alcohol to the equation and things could spin yet another direction. .

I like everyone else here have morals, and would like to say I would never even consider coming on to a friends girlfriend. There are just to many girls out there for that.

Now what really made you ask such a question OD? Is there something going on your not telling us?

 

[OceanDude]

Originally posted by Randy
...Now what really made you ask such a question OD? Is there something going on your not telling us?

Nah, in my junior year of college I turned down for principal a woman who brought the promise of a rich and bountiful dowry and many millions more to be inherited from a rich father. We can be foolish and idealistic in our youth. Instead, I waited for the ???right lady??? and now have a woman who has made me wealthy by working and struggling at my side for over 10 years. I wouldn???t put that relationship at risk for anything. We are best friends, eternal partners and lovers. It???s the best of all things and in my case the ideals of youth were right on target.

I was just doing the poll thing to get some insight on what makes some of you all ???tick???. My working theory was that a lot of you, contrary to the apparent ostentatious and usually exaggerated disregard for traditional morality, many of you from this poll result seem to have an overt code of behavior lurking in the inner works. Bottom line, I think that a lot of you all are really closet conservatives and just haven???t explored your true inner selves yet. Time to come out guys. You can run but you can???t hide.

-OD

 

[Randy]

Originally posted by OceanDude
I waited for the ???right lady??? and now have a woman who has made me wealthy by working and struggling at my side for over 10 years.
Congratulations OD, finding your soul mate can sometimes be a very difficult task

I think that a lot of you all are really closet conservatives and just haven???t explored your true inner selves yet. Time to come out guys. You can run but you can???t hide.

Has that been my problem? Will someone please open the door and let me out?

-OD

 

[naturaltan]

Originally posted by Randy
... One person I believe stated just that. It is hard to be honest and say how you will react unless you are put in the situation. And each situation can be different.

I believe that's the best answer. Everyone has an idea of how they may react, but until they've been put in the circumstance, it's a different ball game.

 

[Fit Freak]

NEVER.....and I mean it...NEVER. regardless of the circumstances...doing this behind a friend's back speaks of poor integrity, lack of good judgement...and most off...you make for a SAD-ASS friend.

 

[Randy]

Weren't you on Jerry Springer the other night Fit Freak
Something about hittin on a friends girl <just kiddin>

 

[PreMier]

Originally posted by Fit Freak
NEVER.....and I mean it...NEVER. regardless of the circumstances...doing this behind a friend's back speaks of poor integrity, lack of good judgement...and most off...you make for a SAD-ASS friend.

There are major character flaws in someone who does, same with cheating.

Its just a piece of ass for christ sake. Its not like you cant go out to a club or whatever and get one.

 

[Randy]

Agreed Premier

 

[irontime]

Originally posted by Vieope
What type of ejaculation do you have ?

It was white the last time i checked. Did you want a picture?

 

[Randy]

 

[busyLivin]

can you really call yourself a "buddy" if you bag the guy's g/f ???

 

[Randy]

Originally posted by busyLivin
can you really call yourself a "buddy" if you bag the guy's g/f ???

You could, but it wouldn't be true

 

[OceanDude]

Hey - I know guys that have done their buddies favors by showing them how sleezy their GF was.

Years ago I had a friend that had to go out of the country for a long time on business (4 months) and leave his GF home. He told me to keep an eye on her and to "take care" of her (in the fullest sense) till he got back. But that's a different story.

But jokingly, on the other hand I have seen some guys with some pretty homely GFs and it wouldn't surprise me that they felt positively reinforced when someone else took notice.

OD

 

[busyLivin]

Well, personally I'd rather my friend told me what a sleeze she was rather than giving me a demonstration.

If he did tell me this, I wouldn't buy that for a second. It would be his way of getting his kicks off on my girl, and convincing himself he was helping me out... trying to sleep better at night.

I see your point, though.

 

[OceanDude]

Well, some of this is "tounge in cheek too". I understand where you are coming from.

-OD

 

[Randy]

Originally posted by OceanDude
Hey - I know guys that have done their buddies favors by showing them how sleezy their GF was.

Years ago I had a friend that had to go out of the country for a long time on business (4 months) and leave his GF home. He told me to keep an eye on her and to "take care" of her (in the fullest sense) till he got back. But that's a different story.

But jokingly, on the other hand I have seen some guys with some pretty homely GFs and it wouldn't surprise me that they felt positively reinforced when someone else took notice.

OD

Yes OD, I suppose there is always an exception to the rule

 

[buff_tat2d_chic]

Originally posted by bulletproof1
pitboss, i believe your statement takes us back to the sharing/swapping poll lol.

...damn

I missed that one.

 

[buff_tat2d_chic]

There not a good response for me.

I have done a buddy's girl... both behind his back and with permission.

 

[OceanDude]

That's ok buffy, you qualify as one of the "guys" here.

OD

 

[Randy]

I was waiting for this response from OD

 

[Johnnny]

I could never do that to a good friend.


The only thing that I think could drive me to do such a thing is if a friend did it to me first.

But otherwise I would never do such a thing.

 

[I Are Baboon]

I would NEVER do a buddy's girl behind his back! That is just wrong.

I'd do his mom though.

 

[busyLivin]

I would NEVER do a buddy's girl behind his back! That is just wrong.

I'd do his mom though.

 

[Var]

I would NEVER do a buddy's girl behind his back! That is just wrong.

I'd do his mom though.

I knew someone who did this in high school. Nailed his friends mom.