If one of us went into a Home Depot or whatever for example, and asked a few questions on say how to build a deck properly, and the clerk looked at us with a look and simply said "no" and that's it. Or said "you don't know what the hell you are doing" in a rude, short manner, or said " you have got to be one of the least capable men I have ever seen, can't even build a proper deck, pffff!" all of us would come f'ing unglued and want to tear their head off. If they approached us in a helpful manner, with constructive advice, we would have no issues. How is this site different, training isn't their field, so they ask, as say something like building isn't one of ours, but we wouldn't stand for being disrespected or having a lack of patience or tolerance in our quest for advice.