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To date a stripper or not to date a stripper, that is the question

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An adult gorilla's erect penis is about 4 cm (1.5 in) in length :nerd:
 
An adult gorilla's erect penis is about 4 cm (1.5 in) in length :nerd:

hmm... so what you are trying to say is that size does matter.

You are so shallow:)
 
she might be a nice girl. don't keep your mind or your heart too closed but be careful. at least she's not sitting on her ass doing nothing.
 
it matters a little. :dont:

Thank god you told me about the penis pump and cock ring combo.


Just for your information I read in Men's Health one time that it's all about the angel of your dangle. exact quote, nov. 2002 i believe
 
did i tell you that :thinking:

i would imagine a slight upward curve would be the best angle. :thinking:
 
I think I brought up the subject of penis pumps and you explained the process.
 
yea i didn't know the cockring thing till someone told me but it makes perfect sense.
 
all my sex life is in theory. thank god for that imagination.
 
It really does make perfect sense.

According to my understanding of my God powers, if we keep thinking about sex then we will eventually have sex in reality.
 
I got a text a few mornings ago of nothing but symbols and gibberish. I got another text that afternoon from her saying her little girl was playing with her phone.

I figure that was her way of putting it out there in a tactful way. I think I figured the situation out. The day we met she was with my best friend who is the DJ and bouncer at the club she works at. She heard me say to my friend that I am going out of town on business.

I figure that just sounds like I make a lot of money, but I don't. I am going to pursue this thing, but I will not kiss her ass, and I will not throw any money around. I don't have enough to waste like that. If she just wants to throw some pussy at me, I will jump on the chance, but I will be double wrapping it.
Strippers usually get good drugs, at least keep that connection open, you never know when you want to score a few hits of E and can't find someone at least she might know....

And don't double wrap, the friction breaks down both, and if they don't you won't feel anything through 2 layers.....
 
I'd date a stripper. Two months tops though. After that the novelty wears off and you are just some dude dating a woman who takes her clothes off for other dudes.
 
what's so a big deal in it, stripper is not a prostitute and if youlike a person you shouldn't bother such things
 
It's a date not a marriage proposal. Go for it.

I dated a one back in the day. Didn't work out for me and ended up in a more permanent situation with someone normal but hey you can at least say yea, I dated her...

hmm.. dating strippers is something to brag about? the nasty ones down here do a lot more then just lapdances if they're paid enough. you could probably get a number of std's if you mess with that.. disgusting.
 
Yup, I agree. She may be fine as hell, but she is still a stripper. 10 to 1 odds says she has pulled this trick before!

might depend on why she's stripping
 
Test her, tell her if we were in love would you quit your stripping job for me.
 
I'm a poledancer and i would like to think men don't chose/avoid me because of the pole.

Sadly it's not the case, i get lot's of offer's from guy's looking for a "good time" but very very very few offer's from guy's looking for a long term relationship.

I guess im just not the type of girl they want to take home to thier mum.

Frankly it's a shame i like to think im intellegent, funny and datable??! ugh ok maybe not.

Only thing i'd say is that because she strip's for a living doens't mean she is any way less of a human being, alot of stippers / poledancers i know are really nice people and good friends.

I don't poledance for a living, i have a day job / career and im university educated, i own my own house, car and i can more than support myself on my day job wages ad i HATE the misconception that girls dance because they are desperate!

I poledance because it is my one true passion in life i love it. Any guy i get with has to realise that i ain't EVER giving it up... the day they take my pole away is the day it's replaced with a zimmer frame.

Oh and p.s i have NEVER turned trick's! or dated a client for that matter and i know alot of dancers who are the same. Perhaps dancers are different in the UK to the US but most of us know it just isn't worth it.

Personally i find men who meet me on the pole get totally the wrong idea aout the sort of girl i am. So i choose not to date guy's i meet there.
 
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Test her, tell her if we were in love would you quit your stripping job for me.


I had a guy ask that once... i still have the pole the guy is no-where to be seen :P
 
guys i know that did date strippers say they are almost always fucked in the head and its not a huge step from stripping to whoring. i would not date a male stripper i'd look at his job, think he was a cheeseball, and stay away.

I think your generalization's about the "fucked up" women strippers are hugely insulting ok im not a stripper but im close. I???m sure there are fucked up women who strip, but i even met plenty of fucked up women who are not stripper???s as well.

I grew up in a middle class family with parent???s that loved me, i have every opportunity i want to college and one of the best University???s in England obtaining a good degree in a highly academic subject. I???ve gone on to have a good and well paid career.

However I wanted to pursue a hobby now granted Pole dancing isn???t every woman???s cup of tea, but i wanted something abit different and at the time learning to shimmy around a pole seemed like a giggle. As it happened I???m a damn good at what I do and having been to a class for a few months I had my first performance an UNPAID performance in a mixed club to help promote my class.

After that there really was no stopping me i love what i do! LOVE IT! Im not fucked up.. at least i don???t think so, im sure others would beg to differ haha, my family know what i do im not ashamed i don???t hide it, when I enter competition???s you better believe my mum is in the first row cheering me on.

Now do alot of paid and unpaid work. Sometimes it???s in strip clubs I often go to teach pole to the strippers as often they have had no formal training, or I teach hen parties (lots of fun) sometimes i perform in strip clubs or for Stag parties but more often than not most of my work centre???s around performing in mixed clubs and providing backing dancing for Gig???s and Bands or teaching pole to other girls so they can enjoy it as much as I do.

I???ve never felt used, yeah ok sometimes the quality of men getting off on my dancing can be un-nerving, but really I just sit there and think it???s kinda sad that to get some kind of sexual release they have to pay a woman.

Don???t get me wrong there ARE bad clubs, but I carefully vet anywhere i plan to dance. Auditions are a two way street if they don???t offer their dancer sufficient protection or seem to disrespect their girls i simply will not take a job there.

I dance because I choose to. I don???t need the money which is why I often work for FREE I just love being on the stage. Mostly I???m happy to be promoting the art of pole and I see it in no less light than i see any other form of dance.

Personally I???m of the opinion that all woman should learn some sort of stripping/pole dancing because the sexual empowerment it can give you. I???ve seen more women grow and develop mentally especially in areas of confidence and self esteem from learning to dance than I???ve seen women ruined by it that???s for sure.

I guess I just fine the insinuation that we do it because we have no choice or because we are fucked up very insulting im not sure what your history is i don???t know if you???ve ever really met any dancers? Or perhaps you got unlucky and met the ???wrong few??? but your sweeping generalisations about dancers is just that a generalisation.

A few ???bad articles??? doesn???t prove much other than some girls have a bad experience in the industry, no offence but the girls with a good experience don???t tend to write about it, simply because it doesn???t make for a very interesting read.

In my history I???ve met ALOT of people in the sexual entertainment industry and I???ve met very few who I???ve thought ???wow they are seriously messed up??? Maybe I just frequent the wrong sort???s of club? Or maybe your friends do? Or perhaps your male friends used the excuse that these girls where fucked up, to hide the fact that at the end of the day they couldn't handle the fact that other guys saw thier girlfriends naked.

It's nothing to be ashamed off some guys just arn't confident enough in themselves to accept that other men find thier girlfriends hot.

Ok wow i wrote an essay haha ... As you can see it's an matter i feel strongly about.
 
Cool...this is like career day at IM.

That's for the insight Elisa.
 
Interesting perspective on this, Elisa.

From what I have read, Little Wing is extremely conservative, and sometimes becomes irrational and even insulting when she allows her emotions to formulate her arguments. For instance, she accused me of being a "wanna be" stripper when my position on this topic differed from her own. This is a weak form of argument; I prefer to engage in more challenging banter but it's the internet and we get what we get.

I appreciate your perspective on this topic as it corresponds with my own observations, based on people I know personally who work in this and related industries.

As you allude, train-wrecks abound. You don't have to look to adult entertainment to find plenty of examples.

Thanks for your post.
 
Interesting perspective on this, Elisa.

From what I have read, Little Wing is extremely conservative, and sometimes becomes irrational and even insulting when she allows her emotions to formulate her arguments. For instance, she accused me of being a "wanna be" stripper when my position on this topic differed from her own. This is a weak form of argument; I prefer to engage in more challenging banter but it's the internet and we get what we get.

I appreciate your perspective on this topic as it corresponds with my own observations, based on people I know personally who work in this and related industries.

As you allude, train-wrecks abound. You don't have to look to adult entertainment to find plenty of examples.

Thanks for your post.

lmao at little wing being considered extremely conservative. by any standard little wing is as moderate as they come. right up there with mino. How far left do you have to be to consider little wing extremely conservative? man thats funny.
 
Arh np ... it's something close to my heart.

there are mentally unstable people in every profession, i just find it insulting that people think you need to be mentally unstable to choose that profession.

Other opinion's that Erk me is that stripppers are incapable of being faithful, are whores, are on drugs or otherwise live lives that are other wise less than respectable.

As a mother of two very well adjusted little boy's, who pay's her bills has never been in trouble with the police or for that matter cheated on a partner i find sweeping generalisations like this deeply insulting.

Sadly it is the world we live in, people fear and judge what they don't understand and i face opinion's like this every day.

Opinion's like this force many strippers to lie about what work they do and i really think it's all very sad because personally i couldn't be prouder.
 
Its always ironic to me when women argue for their right to be sexually objectified, and then are insulted when it happens.
 
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