To date a stripper or not to date a stripper, that is the question

[Built]

lmao at little wing being considered extremely conservative. by any standard little wing is as moderate as they come. right up there with mino. How far left do you have to be to consider little wing extremely conservative? man thats funny.

I know, right? I had to think hard for a bit before I came to that, but she is, as are you. The two of you share many opinions when it comes to women working in the adult entertainment industry; that was the tip-off.

Its always ironic to me when women argue for their right to be sexually objectified, and then are insulted when it happens.

Yanno, I get a LOT of sex in my marriage; perhaps the key here is to be sure you're not sexually frustrated when entering into these arguments.

^ Yes, that was a burn. Hehehehe...

Get your tits out!

Indeed. Gaz, you first.

 

[Elisa]

Its always ironic to me when women argue for their right to be sexually objectified, and then are insulted when it happens.

It's not about the right to be sexually objectified, i am not fighting to be objectifed because i am not an object.

What i am is a person, a person with feeling's who bleeds loves and cry's just as much as anyone else. The only real difference is that i don't mind people seeing me as a sexual person (but a person none the less) I don't doubt that when im dancing people don't see me as a person per say but i also doubt people often sit there wondering what the ballerina they are watching is like as a person either.. they enjoy the art thats all.

Men who treat me like an object generally get shot down in flames very quickly but to be honest i get more attention from what i do from straight women interested in the ART, than i do from men interested in the sex and i am even more flattered by that attention because I love having what i do recognised as an art.

 

[Gazhole]

Indeed. Gaz, you first.

Apparently i'm a large B cup


Bra fittings are uncomfortable in a crowded shop.

 

[Built]

Apparently i'm a large B cup


Bra fittings are uncomfortable in a crowded shop.

That's hot.

 

[Elisa]

I got my tit's out but no-one was looking shame

 

[Gazhole]

That's hot.

All natural, baby. No silicone in my pillows.

 

[Built]

All natural, baby. No silicone in my pillows.

...not that there's anything wrong with that...

<stuffs bra with socks, imagines life with a killer rack... >

 

[bio-chem]

I know, right? I had to think hard for a bit before I came to that, but she is, as are you. The two of you share many opinions when it comes to women working in the adult entertainment industry; that was the tip-off.


Yanno, I get a LOT of sex in my marriage; perhaps the key here is to be sure you're not sexually frustrated when entering into these arguments.

^ Yes, that was a burn. Hehehehe...


Indeed. Gaz, you first.

I'm hardly sexually frustrated. And maybe we LW and I agree on this topic because we are able to accept the reality of the situation. Not the need to hold onto the exception to the rule.

 

[bio-chem]

It's not about the right to be sexually objectified, i am not fighting to be objectifed because i am not an object.

What i am is a person, a person with feeling's who bleeds loves and cry's just as much as anyone else. The only real difference is that i don't mind people seeing me as a sexual person (but a person none the less) I don't doubt that when im dancing people don't see me as a person per say but i also doubt people often sit there wondering what the ballerina they are watching is like as a person either.. they enjoy the art thats all.

Men who treat me like an object generally get shot down in flames very quickly but to be honest i get more attention from what i do from straight women interested in the ART, than i do from men interested in the sex and i am even more flattered by that attention because I love having what i do recognised as an art.

A man watching a pole dancer is not thinking about the ART!

While you may enjoy pole dancing as a recreational hobby. the individuals watching you go there for sexual gratification. You can't have your cake and eat it to. Saying "respect me" after gyrating on a pole doesn't compute in a mans brain.

 

[Built]

I'm hardly sexually frustrated.

I wasn't aware that you had a partner - but I'm glad to hear you're getting your sexual needs met. Getting laid is an important part of life, and I feel for those whose lives are bitter for lack of sex.

And maybe we LW and I agree on this topic because we are able to accept the reality of the situation. Not the need to hold onto the exception to the rule.

You two both share an opinion based on your reality if the situation. It may not match my reality of the situation.

 

[Gazhole]

...not that there's anything wrong with that...

<stuffs bra with socks, imagines life with a killer rack... >

Theres nothing right with it either if you're a dude.

I got my tit's out but no-one was looking shame

Just making sure you know i was joking! You have a good attitude!

My girlfriend wants to start pole dancing for exercise, which is great because maybe i can find out how its possible to stay hanging off a pole face down 6ft in the air with just your legs - freaks me the hell out.

 

[Elisa]

Theres nothing right with it either if you're a dude.



Just making sure you know i was joking! You have a good attitude!

My girlfriend wants to start pole dancing for exercise, which is great because maybe i can find out how its possible to stay hanging off a pole face down 6ft in the air with just your legs - freaks me the hell out.

Hmm i don't have any photos of that move sorry knee lock will have to do.

Imageshack - img0946r

thats a 20ft pole btw

 

[Perdido]

Cool...this is like career day at IM.

That's for the insight Elisa.

So the truth is out you really aren't a stripper after all.

 

[Gazhole]

Hmm i don't have any photos of that move sorry knee lock will have to do.

Imageshack - img0946r

thats a 20ft pole btw

That scares the shit out of me. Gravity is displeased!

Good work!

 

[min0 lee]

So the truth is out you really aren't a stripper after all.

No.

 

[KelJu]

It's not about the right to be sexually objectified, i am not fighting to be objectifed because i am not an object.

What i am is a person, a person with feeling's who bleeds loves and cry's just as much as anyone else. The only real difference is that i don't mind people seeing me as a sexual person (but a person none the less) I don't doubt that when im dancing people don't see me as a person per say but i also doubt people often sit there wondering what the ballerina they are watching is like as a person either.. they enjoy the art thats all.

Men who treat me like an object generally get shot down in flames very quickly but to be honest i get more attention from what i do from straight women interested in the ART, than i do from men interested in the sex and i am even more flattered by that attention because I love having what i do recognised as an art.

No disrespect, but I think you are throwing the term "art" around a littlwe loosly. If strippign is an art, than so is blowjobs.


As far as the main topic goes: I got laid, and I am pretty disappointed. I thought that if I could make this happen that I would feel like the man, but it didn't happen that way. I got a nut off of the situation, but the next day I felt like it was pointless. I have no interest in this girl whatsoever. We have no common interest, and talking to her drove me crazy. I don't think I will be calling her again.

I built it up in my head how awesome this was gonna be, but I have had better jerking off sessions, in all honesty.

 

[Built]

Funny how fantasy and reality don't often match.

Re stripping vs pole dancing, it seems pole dancing has quite a following. It has its origins in adult entertainment, but it seems to be a developing art form for many. I think it's going to be accompanied by a nudge and a wink for a long time, though. Bit of a tough sell, but nothing worth having comes without some sort of fight, hey?

Not my thing, but then, I'm not very coordinated.
I think I'll stick to blowjobs.

 

[bio-chem]

No disrespect, but I think you are throwing the term "art" around a little loosly. If strippign is an art, than so is blowjobs.
.

Now to what everyone wants to know. did you stick it in her butt? or her little sisters?

 

[Elisa]

No disrespect, but I think you are throwing the term "art" around a littlwe loosly. If strippign is an art, than so is blowjobs.

Hey i won't argue there is an art to a blowjob after all not everyone is good at it.

As for poledancing 5 years ago it was very much a taboo, i got fired from a job as a business intellegence consultant because the company where scared about what client's would think if they found out or heaven forbid saw me dancing in a club.

Theses day's poledancing is on my CV and it's being taught in gym's all across the country and there is already a group that is petitioning to get it into the olypmic's. Personally i think it's only a matter of time before poledancing (which granted is different to stripping) is acknowledged as a form of art and a sport.

Granted i think we are further still from recognising stripping as a form of art but having watched literally 1000's of girls perform i can't deny thier is a certain art to it.

Art or not art it doens't really matter my point was mearly that strippers are people and each one is as different in personality as the next you are just as likely to find a nut job in nursing or education as you are stripping.

My best friend is a stripper and she's not a nut job, she's the kindest sweetest girl you could ever hope to meet and i don't think we are the exception... strangly i know ALOT of strippers and yes a couple of them may fall into the nutjob bracket but most are fairly normal level headed girls.

 

[Burner02]

is already a group that is petitioning to get it into the olypmic's.

I can see this in the Olympics:
Please welcome, Bambi!
Yes, Bambi starts off her routine with some basic gymnastics....there goes her top! Seamless!
Ok, here comes the mid-way point...she slowly and seductively slides down the pole...tantalizingly us with her finger in her mouth...WOW! in one gutsy, fast as lighting move....her bottoms are off with a How're ya doin'! spread eagle! ladies and gentleman! She's leaving nothing behind! She's really letting it all hang out!
Ok! Now for the big finish....there it is! A top pole mount, inverted- slow slide down in a perfect 720 degree triple Spin with her ankles locking beautifully behind her head! AND! the long anticipated ass slap with a wink! YES!
I think the judges are definately feeling this performance! The new scoring system: dollars throw onto stage...points not being useful here, we are seeing plenty one $1's flowing towards the stage! now...$5's...I see a $20! yes!


...sorry....couldn't pass that up....

 

[Elisa]

I can see this in the Olympics:
Please welcome, Bambi!
Yes, Bambi starts off her routine with some basic gymnastics....there goes her top! Seamless!
Ok, here comes the mid-way point...she slowly and seductively slides down the pole...tantalizingly us with her finger in her mouth...WOW! in one gutsy, fast as lighting move....her bottoms are off with a How're ya doin'! spread eagle! ladies and gentleman! She's leaving nothing behind! She's really letting it all hang out!
Ok! Now for the big finish....there it is! A top pole mount, inverted- slow slide down in a perfect 720 degree triple Spin with her ankles locking beautifully behind her head! AND! the long anticipated ass slap with a wink! YES!
I think the judges are definately feeling this performance! The new scoring system: dollars throw onto stage...points not being useful here, we are seeing plenty one $1's flowing towards the stage! now...$5's...I see a $20! yes!


...sorry....couldn't pass that up....

haha yes well i admit there is also talk about how poledancing has to change in order to be acceptable for the olympic's i think it's already accepted that certain very provocative moves would have to go, as well as the stripper heel's.

Saying that i do PoleDiva competition every year and there is already very strict rules about dress and dance moves for that as it is concidered a "family competition". I have to dance for that alot more covered up than i do in a night club.

 

[Gazhole]

No disrespect, but I think you are throwing the term "art" around a littlwe loosly. If strippign is an art, than so is blowjobs.

Does a blowjob in the Tate Modern count?

 

[bio-chem]

Art or not art it doens't really matter my point was mearly that strippers are people and each one is as different in personality as the next

you are just as likely to find a nut job in nursing or education as you are stripping.

 

[Perdido]

I built it up in my head how awesome this was gonna be, but I have had better jerking off sessions, in all honesty.

Let me see if I understand this correctly: You are very disappointed you didn't get the first class high price call girl multi-orgasmic let's role play your every sexual fantasy treatment from a date set up through text massages with a single mom / part time stripper and the total date monetary expenditure involving a DVD rental and a pizza delivered to her house...

 

[bio-chem]

Let me see if I understand this correctly: You are very disappointed you didn't get the first class high price call girl multi-orgasmic let's role play your every sexual fantasy treatment form a date set up through text massages with a single mom / part time stripper and the total date monetary expenditure involving a DVD rental and a pizza delivered to her house...

dude, you are fast rising in the ranks with posts like these.

 

[maniclion]

 

[fufu]

hah!

 

[min0 lee]

 

[Built]

I can see this in the Olympics:
Please welcome, Bambi!
Yes, Bambi starts off her routine with some basic gymnastics....there goes her top! Seamless!
Ok, here comes the mid-way point...she slowly and seductively slides down the pole...tantalizingly us with her finger in her mouth...WOW! in one gutsy, fast as lighting move....her bottoms are off with a How're ya doin'! spread eagle! ladies and gentleman! She's leaving nothing behind! She's really letting it all hang out!
Ok! Now for the big finish....there it is! A top pole mount, inverted- slow slide down in a perfect 720 degree triple Spin with her ankles locking beautifully behind her head! AND! the long anticipated ass slap with a wink! YES!
I think the judges are definately feeling this performance! The new scoring system: dollars throw onto stage...points not being useful here, we are seeing plenty one $1's flowing towards the stage! now...$5's...I see a $20! yes!


...sorry....couldn't pass that up....

Spongeworthy.

 

[Burner02]

Spongeworthy.

...that's good...right?