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2009 USPDF Pole Dance Competition Highlights
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Where do you find this stuff? LOL
Worth a dollar I guess.
Worth a dollar I guess.
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do the judges throw dollars at them for points? She with the most $$ wins?
Yuk Spinning poles !! Give me a static pole anyday.
Most of the Girls where pretty good though, but i didn't see anything that wow'ed me mostly fairly standard moves only a couple i'd not seen before and even then very few that looked really hard. Don't get me wrong they where great moves but nothing that is really gonna rock it at an international level, never heard of the uspdf i assume it's a US only federation?
Still it's nice to see some skill being shown rather then people just assuming it's all ass wiggling and floor humping.
*Bravo Girls*
Most of the Girls where pretty good though, but i didn't see anything that wow'ed me mostly fairly standard moves only a couple i'd not seen before and even then very few that looked really hard. Don't get me wrong they where great moves but nothing that is really gonna rock it at an international level, never heard of the uspdf i assume it's a US only federation?
Still it's nice to see some skill being shown rather then people just assuming it's all ass wiggling and floor humping.
*Bravo Girls*
Impressive.
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You guess? Wow, talk about cheap. A dollar? I feel sorry for your girlfriend.
Dead man walking.
you can't compare the value of a girlfriend or wife to some random chick gyrating on a pole.
Poledancers and Stripper's are VERY different, i get paid to dance on a pole and never yet involved me getting naked or otherwise taking off my clothes.
It's a gross assumption beliving the poledancers strip franky there are very few clubs that would pay enough to get me to part wth my clothes, besides i get paid more than enough keeping them ON!
2 totally different proffessions. same industry perhaps still very different jobs.
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Sort of like the saying:
Americans and the English:
Two peoples divided by a common language?
haha you guy's crack me up.
I can always trust you to remind me why, dating guys you meet dancing is BAD!!! Guy's who you meet in clubs almost never see you as long term.
Nice guys you meet elsewhere run a mile the first time they hear about the dancing because they assume your some kind of whore.
I sware girl's in the industry stand no chance of meeting a nice guy and settling down.
Blah ... sorry im not bitter honest
Oh well Pole > Men
I can always trust you to remind me why, dating guys you meet dancing is BAD!!! Guy's who you meet in clubs almost never see you as long term.
Nice guys you meet elsewhere run a mile the first time they hear about the dancing because they assume your some kind of whore.
I sware girl's in the industry stand no chance of meeting a nice guy and settling down.
Blah ... sorry im not bitter honest
Oh well Pole > Men
thats because a pole dancer isn't looking to settle down. thats why the guys who are have no interest in them. if this is just a hobby and a girl does this to keep in shape, but wants to settle down and have kids and raise a family. good for her i would date her and not think twice about it. but if a girl is going to place pole dancing above her relationship with me. ie a pole > men comment. hell yea you are not going to get looked at twice. nor should you be. you can't have both.
SITUATIONS
"so what does your wife do for work?"..........."uh, she gyrates on a pole barely clothed while other men stare at her" = fail.
Teacher: "kids today we are going to talk about what our parents do for work"
child: "mommy gyrates on a pole barely clothed while other men stare at her"
= FAIL
friend: "dude, how does your wife stay in such great shape after 3 kids with your ugly ass?"
me: "she goes to pole dancing classes as a hobby while the kids at school"
friend: "damn, your wife is amazing, I can't believe a dumb ass like you got such a great woman"
me: "I know, I don't understand either, but I thank God every day"
= SUCCESS
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Well gotta see it from our point of view too in that im not about to give up my job for a guy i just met??
It's also something i really love would you expect a doctor to give up her career because the hour's sucked? or you just didn't like it?? what happened to seeing the person not the career? it's not that i would NEVER concider giving up the pole for a guy but the situation is simple this is what i do and a guy would have to stick around long enough for me to get to the point where i realised he was > pole and that ain't gonna happen a long time and by that point honestly he would have had to get over it already.
It's also worth noting that i have a good degree from one of the best uni's in the UK i do this because i LOVE it not because i have no other options, i do have a day job which is my career and what pay's my bills. i poledance because i love it, i started like you said to keep fit and get back into shape after having kids but i quickly learn't i was GOOD at it and that i loved it ... now i couldn't imagine life without the pole. would you give up lifting for a cute girl you met in a club because she liked you but didn't like blokes that lifted?
However i do have a friend who is currently single and her life is the pole she has no other options what would you expect her to say to a guy she just met "Hi i know poledancing isn't a suitable job i know i just met you but tell you what i'll give it up if you support me?" She's a poledancing teacher and Dancer it's all she knows she's not a bad person infact she's one of the most lovely girls you could ever hope to meet but poledancing is what pay's her morgage and really with her qualification set she isn't going to find a job that pay's as much as the pole if she was to give it up.
My kids nor the teachers at school have ever had a problem with this?! i have two bright happy little boys the pole honestly has never been an issue. Again maybe this is a US - UK thing but i don't belive it effect's thier lives.I occasionally get the odd question about the pole in the middle of the living room from other parents, workmen etc but it's never actually been an issue.
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No, hun Sorry. we don't have to see it from your point.
Forgive me, but you are seriously defending...a hobby. Something to do on weekends to earn a little extra cash. To be honest...not art. Girls gyrating on a pole to music does not equal art.
You are now trying to equate grinding on a pole to a doctor. Seriously? One takes intelligence and years of devotion to achieve, the other...good looks and a little coordination.
You keep mentioning you have a college degree. By the paragraphs that you spend defending your hobby, I can tell you are intelligent.
But nobody knows you as a: (scientist, engineer, IT, etc...) just some cute girl who grinds on poles...
I'll tell ya: I used to be a bouncer at a night club. I had fun. More or less, the women I met there...knew I wasnt there to meet women for a long term relationship.
In a sense: bouncer = man-whore. I enjoyed it. But, I left it behind.
Stripper, dancer, pole rider...whatever....guys aren't going to want to take you seriously and 'take you home to mom'...while you are doing that. its a taboo job.
I'm speaking generally, of course: but as long as you like your hobby, fine. Great. I wouldn't be looking for any great romance any time soon. If you meet a guy...and you hit it off...that 'talk' will happen. "Its time to hang up your show thong."
I met a nice girl at the club, actually...I lasted there maybe 3 more months and then quit, 'cause she was more important than the job.
Do not mean to come off as attacking...I'm not. but I keep seeing you defend paragrapgh after paragragh about a short term job and making more of it than what it is.
How about telling us more about your real job? A woman who is intelligent and looks as good as you seem to...and who is 'bendy'...
hmm....
That is something worth talking about...just saying.
If the question is would I prioritize my wife and children above a hobby? then the answer is absolutely yes!
How about telling us more about your real job? A woman who is intelligent and looks as good as you seem to...and who is 'bendy'...
hmm....
Im a Business Intellegance Consultant. (read : computer geek)
Long story short i got into company's as a consultant you examine thier databases and reporting system's, sometimes i go in to fix said systems, or perhaps they need and entire overhaul for example thier database might need some SQL tuning, perfomace tweeks etc.
My jobs pretty varied depending on what the client needs it's my job to provide the full package, from hardware, software, licencing, designing and building all the way upto the system training staff how to use them and even maintain the system on a long term basis.
It's a good job i enjoy because it's pretty flexable and each client brings a new set of challenges.
None of that really matter's though because people don't see past the pole in the living room
BIG differance between "wife/husband" and "someone you just met"
Girl/guy in a bar (someone you just met) says "hey i'd like to get to know you better BUT you have to give up *insert hobby*.
Is massively massively different from wife or husband asking you to give something up because for whatever reason it doens't fit in with your lives.
You've made a commitment to said husband or wife already, no-one in their right mind is going to give up a hobby for someone they may not even go on a second date with.
You have already stated that pole>men. and that any man who got close to you would have to accept that you aren't going to give up the pole. so why would a guy invest time in you to begin with if he can't compete with a strait piece of metal. its not even worth the effort.
= She is hoping to start at Club Femme Nu and find a sugar daddy so she can leave your ass and dump the kids on you while she goes on to exploit men for money with her pole skills....
If i needed to give it up for family reasons (children or husband) i would in a heartbeat if the reason was valid, such as it no-longer fitted into our familys lives perhaps he work's nights and we both couldn't be out. Sure they are good reasons and i'd quit.
Frankly though any guy who loved me wouldn't ask me to give it up. Love is about loving the person for who they are, i AM a poledancer. A man simply couldn't love me without loving that part of me. Love isn't about twisting and shaping a person till they fit into your ideal box it's about accepting and loving a person for who and what they are.
This is who i am, i couldn't imagine ever being with a guy who is ashamed of it. As much as it's bloody frustrating that guys tend to see me as a casual lay, or someone to steer well clear of,i really belive there are guy's who can see past it.
you need to be the woman the right man can love. good men don't share their wives/girlfriends. if you are dancing in a club you can't be his because you are everyman's who can afford the cover charge. thats why you are viewed as a quick lay, because he can't picture you of ever being his. doesn't matter if you like it or not you have made choices that make men view you as a stripper/prostitute. regardless of the truth, perception is king. that is how you will be perceived. this is how men think, and function.
