To date a stripper or not to date a stripper, that is the question

[Little Wing]

I'm not trying to be a dick, or maybe I was, but the situation has no humor in it for me. I have blamed much of my dissatisfaction with life on the fact that I haven't been laid in a while.


But here is a situation where this banging hot chick seemed to dig me. I went out, partied, bar hopped with her and her stripper friends, and then took her home and laid the pipe. But instead of feeling better, I feel worse. This means I have to go back to the drawing board. If hot dirty sex isn't the solution, what the fuck is?

These spells come and go. I'm not far from going back to being a drug addict again. I just want to not feel anything for a while.

you're not going to like my answer but like a true girl i think you need love

anddddd

hot, dirty, earth shaking sex with someone you love. i'll hold out for that rather than be out getting my rocks off with someone who is just a substitute for my toys. i cum WAY harder by myself than i would with some knob i could take out my horniness on. it takes a while for a guy to learn where all your bells n whistles are on your body and IN your mind. any guy can make me cum with a few simple directions but to make me quiver n shake afterwards he has to be touching a lot more than my skin. 1 night stands suck, it's like eating fast food it fills you up but all it amounts to is a loose turd.

if i were a horny guy that needed some cock satisfaction though i'd date doms... they make male orgasm an artform. fuck the tease give me release. i'd lay back n have some beautiful sexy bitch tease n stroke my cock 'till she milked me dry. got to be more fucking fun than humping a metal pole too. lol

 

[Little Wing]

See if this makes any sense...I'm kind of the same way...or was.
You liked the 'hunt' You got her home and did the deed. But, felt empty afterwards?
I was like that when I was a bouncer. Friggin' LOVED the chase and getting 'em home. Afterwards...ehh...
Now...if I was with a girl I was in a relationship with...much better.
Just personal perspective.

the build up is so much hotter than the sex way too often. every once in a while someone turns out to be an amazing lover from the first time but not often. usually they need training and it takes way more than looks to make them worth the effort training takes...

 

[Little Wing]

It was a joke, son.

My point is that exchanging my time and service to my employer for pay is no different from a stripper exchanging time and service to her employer for pay.

The strippers I've been friends with did not find the work humiliating. Nor were they coerced into it, any more than to say they weren't independently wealthy and that they did, in fact, have to work for a living.

This paid well for very short hours, so it worked for them.





What part of it bothers you the most, LW - the part where you think it's humiliating, or the idea that at least some of these women not only DON'T find it humiliating - but rather that they <gasp!> actually enjoy the work?

the part where just anyone could walk in the door. if i could choose my clients i still wouldn't dance, don't see the appeal personally, but i do think being a dom would be fun if i got to choose who i played with... literally.

 

[maniclion]

1 night stands suck, it's like eating fast food it fills you up but all it amounts to is a loose turd...


if i were a horny guy that needed some cock satisfaction though i'd date doms... they make male orgasm an artform. fuck the tease give me release. i'd lay back n have some beautiful sexy bitch tease n stroke my cock 'till she milked me dry. got to be more fucking fun than humping a metal pole too. lol

What kind of one nights stands are you talkin' bout?

PS:I got my secret decoder ring

 

[Little Wing]

a good dom can make a guy cum so hard it sounds like he cums wayyyy longer than normal. that's the kind of teasing that pays off.

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i mean they leave you with that emotionally i guess... unless you have a one night stand with

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[Little Wing]

i'd be a very conservative dom lmao.

 

[KelJu]

you're not going to like my answer but like a true girl i think you need love

anddddd

hot, dirty, earth shaking sex with someone you love. i'll hold out for that rather than be out getting my rocks off with someone who is just a substitute for my toys. i cum WAY harder by myself than i would with some knob i could take out my horniness on. it takes a while for a guy to learn where all your bells n whistles are on your body and IN your mind. any guy can make me cum with a few simple directions but to make me quiver n shake afterwards he has to be touching a lot more than my skin. 1 night stands suck, it's like eating fast food it fills you up but all it amounts to is a loose turd.

if i were a horny guy that needed some cock satisfaction though i'd date doms... they make male orgasm an artform. fuck the tease give me release. i'd lay back n have some beautiful sexy bitch tease n stroke my cock 'till she milked me dry. got to be more fucking fun than humping a metal pole too. lol

I drunk as piss!

So here comes some truth. I'm a pessimist. I'm a brutally fucking honest asshole. I'm selfish with my time. I don't like spending time with any of the bitches that find me attractive. They get on my fucking nerves!

All they are to me is a warm hole to stick my dick in, that never stops talking about stupid shit.

I'm going to invent a machine that will allow you to clone one of your best friends brains. Then it will turn the brain gay, convince it that it's name is Tiffany, and then implant it into some dumb stipper.

I'm gonna be a fucking billionaire.

 

[Little Wing]

I drunk as piss!

So here comes some truth. I'm a pessimist. I'm a brutally fucking honest asshole. I'm selfish with my time. I don't like spending time with any of the bitches that find me attractive. They get on my fucking nerves!

All they are to me is a warm hole to stick my dick in, that never stops talking about stupid shit.

I'm going to invent a machine that will allow you to clone one of your best friends brains. Then it will turn the brain gay, convince it that it's name is Tiffany, and then implant it into some dumb stipper.

I'm gonna be a fucking billionaire.

a dom would be perfect for you. a whore just is an unmotivated rag to bust a nut into... ho hum... BUT i saw a dom get off this guy once n he came so fucking hard i swear he levitated. it's no bullshit cok therapy an erotic artform for men who don't need the baggage that comes with a bitch and are too smart to throw 100 bucks at some chick that wiggles her ass n thinks that's some big thrill 50 billion other bitches can't do. just my humble opinion. i'm a lil crunk too. lol. someday a woman is going to make you realize what you think can't happen can but till then...

 

[KelJu]

a dom would be perfect for you. a whore just is an unmotivated rag to bust a nut into... ho hum... BUT i saw a dom get off this guy once n he came so fucking hard i swear he levitated. it's no bullshit cok therapy an erotic artform for men who don't need the baggage that comes with a bitch and are too smart to throw 100 bucks at some chick that wiggles her ass n thinks that's some big thrill 50 billion other bitches can't do. just my humble opinion. i'm a lil crunk too. lol. someday a woman is going to make you realize what you think can't happen can but till then...

Dominatrix?

 

[Little Wing]

yea but i like to watch the ones who are more into prolonging pleasure not being mean. dancing is what? a frustrating coktease. teasing so that it build to an epic release is more fun for everyone.

 

[maniclion]

I drunk as piss!

So here comes some truth. I'm a pessimist. I'm a brutally fucking honest asshole. I'm selfish with my time. I don't like spending time with any of the bitches that find me attractive. They get on my fucking nerves!

All they are to me is a warm hole to stick my dick in, that never stops talking about stupid shit.

I'm going to invent a machine that will allow you to clone one of your best friends brains. Then it will turn the brain gay, convince it that it's name is Tiffany, and then implant it into some dumb stipper.

I'm gonna be a fucking billionaire.

Wouldn't it be easier to insert a phone into a sex dolls head, when you want your friend around you call him, when you want no strings sex you fuck the doll? Same exact thing less expensive technologies.....

 

[Little Wing]

i think in the future robotic companions would be interesting. you could program them to cook, play chess etc too. they'd never say no to anal... they're working on making real dolls robotic. there are probably like minded women out there though maybe you just need a friends with benefits who knows it's strictly a sex thing, more sucking less yakking.


and ladies be careful about playing dominatrix with your partner... he goes "and THEN i get to tie YOU up"

 

[stripes]

run

Dude, Do you really want a chick that will take her top off and use there sex appeal to turn on men for a living? How degrading can one be? I have worked hard modeling part time and waiting tables while in school. My parents divorced when my father was dismissed from work. Even in this economy I have still been able to pay for my car, apartment, school and live a busy but comfortable life. If she is stripping she was either misdirected or hurt or maybe she is lazy or materialistic. All I can say is that sounds like a headache of a relationship. Your a guy if your looking for fun It may be worth your time but don't try to have a functional relationship with this girl.

 

[stripes]

I just wanted to clarify that I do not think striping makes you a wrongful person. I once befriended a very sweet girl who was a stripper, but I do think someone must have some type of psychological issues to convince oneself that this is acceptable social behavior.

 

[Built]

Dude, Do you really want a chick that will take her top off and use there sex appeal to turn on men for a living? How degrading can one be? I have worked hard modeling part time and waiting tables while in school. My parents divorced when my father was dismissed from work. Even in this economy I have still been able to pay for my car, apartment, school and live a busy but comfortable life. If she is stripping she was either misdirected or hurt or maybe she is lazy or materialistic. All I can say is that sounds like a headache of a relationship. Your a guy if your looking for fun It may be worth your time but don't try to have a functional relationship with this girl.

I just wanted to clarify that I do not think striping makes you a wrongful person. I once befriended a very sweet girl who was a stripper, but I do think someone must have some type of psychological issues to convince oneself that this is acceptable social behavior.

What did you study? Because your spelling and grammar could use some work. Maybe if you had been a stripper, you could have earned enough money working shorter hours to afford you the luxury of longer study.

Just a thought. I'm sure you didn't use your sex appeal while working as a model. That would have been degrading.

 

[MDR]

Strippers are not created equal. I'm not talking physically, either. I knew a young woman when I was in college who was a four point student, and worked in a high-end club. She had a background in dance, and told me she could make more money in one night than she could working a straight job for two weeks. She didn't do drugs, didn't even drink, and was a very nice person. She had her act together, and did it for the money. She was very, very good at her job. After graduation, she went to law school on a full scholarship. A guy would have to be crazy to not go out with her.

 

[Built]

Strippers are not created equal.

Bingo.

Thanks MDR, for posting.

 

[LAM]

I dated a stripper about a decade ago before I left Philly. I guess she was about as "good" as I could have expected she didn't dance at an all nude bar and she didn't do drugs. She actually made me feel guilty about being high on weed around her. After about 8 months she started telling me about some of the things men would ask her and other girls to do to them like step on their nuts, etc. basically non-sexual things but still perverted. It got to the point where I couldn't touch her anymore because I would get skeeved out and I had to cut her from the team.

 

[Little Wing]

what about belly dancing? if i dated a stripper i would make my bedroom like a harem tent and have her belly dance for me.

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[MDR]

what about belly dancing? if i dated a stripper i would make my bedroom like a harem tent and have her belly dance for me.

I think belly dancing can be very sexy.

 

[KelJu]

Bingo.

Thanks MDR, for posting.

People aren't created equally. But, people are created similarly. A person's situation and circumstances lead to a higher chance of being a certain type of person. If I don't know anything about a girl other than that she is a stripper, then I know right off that she is likely to do drugs, has a higher chance than average of having STDs, having emotional baggage, having a dysfunctional family life, and having undesirable personality traits.

So what does that mean to me? Absolutely nothing. My assumptions are for my amusement only. I'll still take a chance to get to know them. The more fucked up they are, the more attracted I am anyway.

 

[vortrit]

More cowbell please!

 

[Built]

More cowbell please!

Exactly.

 

[ZECH]

People aren't created equally. But, people are created similarly. A person's situation and circumstances lead to a higher chance of being a certain type of person. If I don't know anything about a girl other than that she is a stripper, then I know right off that she is likely to do drugs, has a higher chance than average of having STDs, having emotional baggage, having a dysfunctional family life, and having undesirable personality traits.

So what does that mean to me? Absolutely nothing. My assumptions are for my amusement only. I'll still take a chance to get to know them. The more fucked up they are, the more attracted I am anyway.

I've known a few over the years and I'll say every one has had every quality you list. Why are you attracted to this knowing it will go nowhere?

 

[MDR]

People aren't created equally. But, people are created similarly. A person's situation and circumstances lead to a higher chance of being a certain type of person. If I don't know anything about a girl other than that she is a stripper, then I know right off that she is likely to do drugs, has a higher chance than average of having STDs, having emotional baggage, having a dysfunctional family life, and having undesirable personality traits.

So what does that mean to me? Absolutely nothing. My assumptions are for my amusement only. I'll still take a chance to get to know them. The more fucked up they are, the more attracted I am anyway.

I think it is true that many women who go into this profession have some or all of the problems above. My post was just to point out that there are exceptions, and you can't judge without knowing the person. If messed up women are what you seek, strippers are probably more likely than most to have these problems, especially at the sleazy, low rent clubs.

 

[Dark Geared God]

 

[KelJu]

More cowbell please!

I don't get it. What does that mean other than an SNL skit?

Why are you attracted to this knowing it will go nowhere?

Because, I have my fair share of bad habits and personality traits. Dark and twisted people are interesting to me. I'm sure that on some subconscious level that I am seeking out women that are as fucked up as I am.

 

[ZECH]

I don't get it. What does that mean other than an SNL skit?




Because, I have my fair share of bad habits and personality traits. Dark and twisted people are interesting to me. I'm sure that on some subconscious level that I am seeking out women that are as fucked up as I am.

We all do. But maybe instead of seeking them out like you think, it could be possible that you secretly know to stay away because of their problems and that it could lead to problems for you. I'm sure they are some that are good, but I would not hold on to much hope.

 

[Little Wing]

I think belly dancing can be very sexy.

i like at the end where she says she's from colorado and sheboygan wisconsin.

 

[KelJu]

what about belly dancing? if i dated a stripper i would make my bedroom like a harem tent and have her belly dance for me.

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Belly Dancing is super duper sexy! One of the best parts is that the dancers don't look anorexic like most strippers. 10lb tits on a 90lb girl is disgusting to me. I little pot belly on that belly dance is natural and she is incredibly attractive. Belly dancing in general is seductive.