I like to change it around and make it a 3 day rotation where you hit each exercise every 5 days, and I also like to change the overhead presses to chinups to make it more balanced. So I end up with something like this:
Incline bench 5/3/1
Incline bench accessory
Standing db presses accessory
Chins 5/3/1
Chins accessory
Rows accessory
Squats 5/3/1
Squats accessory
Romanian deads accessory
Now I know you're gonna ask about regular deads, but I can't to deads heavy and squats heavy in the same week, my back just can't take it anymore, so I pick one or the other for 5/3/1 and make the other an accessory. I might use deads I don't know, it depends on howy groin holds up with squats.
Now for accessories, yes I do them a bit heavier than wendler recommends. I only do 3 sets and rotate from 3x10 at 70%, then 3x8 at 75%, then 3x6 at 80%. If I find it to be too much, I can drop down to 65, 70, and 75% for the same rep scheme. I base these % off my true 1rm, not my working 1rm on the 5/3/1 exercises.
So that's my take on it. Maybe I change it a bit too much, but I tailor it to my own needs. I need to remember to do the deloads though, cause I always find myself skipping it when I feel like I don't need it.