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I go on vacation and leave my girl and kid home? I work my ass off. Isn't a vacation supposed to be enjoyable and stress free? A 5 year old and a girlfriend doesn't seem relaxing and stress free to me...
 
Lololol damn!!!!!
 
Yea... Shits hit the fan pretty bad for me lately with business and home. But your right guys. I just feel like I need some alone time to figure shit out. Not thinking straight lately. It's been that bad. They're great it's just me.
 
Can you offer HER a trip to visit a friend or relative she doesn't get to see... her and the child. With some finesse it could be a win win situation but you would need sine skill to pull it off.
 
I guess my thought process is that I have to have control over it bit is my own company, my house and if I don't fix it, I'm a failure kind of. I feel like I have to be everything for everyone. The backbone.
 
Agentyes said:
Can you offer HER a trip to visit a friend or relative she doesn't get to see... her and the child. With some finesse it could be a win win situation but you would need sine skill to pull it off.
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Just flew all us to Arizona to visit her fam and got a sick house for all of us to stay in. It was cool. But when we got back a couple weeks later everything fell apart bad. Like real bad. Financially
 
If you need time out by yourself do it.
 
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XXL said:
I guess my thought process is that I have to have control over it bit is my own company, my house and if I don't fix it, I'm a failure kind of. I feel like I have to be everything for everyone. The backbone.
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your the man...so you do have to be the back bone...not allowed to run away...not allowed to be weak...not allowed to falter in anyway....keep your calm and cool at all times....cause of course the woman wont and cant
 
KILLEROFSAINTS said:
your the man...so you do have to be the back bone...not allowed to run away...not allowed to be weak...not allowed to falter in anyway....keep your calm and cool at all times....cause of course the woman wont and cant
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Bro, that's probably the most encouraging words I've heard all week. Thank u. That helped put things back in perspective a little. I'm no pussy, I never run I stand up, I am and was raised old school where men are men and I guess I'm just beating myself down bad over this. But your right I need to handle my shit and keep my head up.
 
XXL said:
Pshhh yea that'll do it lol
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Mate I have my kids as much as legally possible - 6 yr old twins. That and work left no time for a social life, apart from lifting.

Sometime you just need to take a few days out to unwind and catch your breath. No shame in that bro
 
Everyday that we get to wake up, put our feet on the ground, and kiss our loved ones is a gift. Tomorrow isn't promised and there is always someone who has it worse... But man it isn't easy. We are all always being tested in life
 
theCaptn' said:
Mate I have my kids as much as legally possible - 6 yr old twins. That and work left no time for a social life, apart from lifting.

Sometime you just need to take a few days out to unwind and catch your breath. No shame in that bro
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I will. But I have to figure out how to do that and what's best for my family at the same time. You're a special exception to this as far as taking "you" time. IMO u earn it everyday. I salute u bud. That can't be easy.
 
KILLEROFSAINTS said:
shit...im sorry man....addiction is the most evil thing there is
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We were both recreational users, but I didn't know she had a mental health issue - they have a way of flipping it back on you.

Anywho, she's clean, we get on well enough now but it was a fucked up 5 years that made my hair drop out :lol: The kids are safe and happy.
 
Amen. They're all special in their own way. I always laugh and tell my girl "you're lucky you sell my brand of crazy" lmao
 
XXL said:
Bro, that's probably the most encouraging words I've heard all week. Thank u. That helped put things back in perspective a little. I'm no pussy, I never run I stand up, I am and was raised old school where men are men and I guess I'm just beating myself down bad over this. But your right I need to handle my shit and keep my head up.
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you can and will.
 
Agentyes said:
you can and will.
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I have to. It's not easy to smile knowing the weight of so many people's well being lyes on your next decision. Kinda a "heavy lyes the crown" type of deal. But I'm no pussy, I never whine, or cry or any of that shit. It's just hard and sometimes we all need a getaway or a chance to vent and I don't like alarming my lady. She's really good to me. I just like to see her smile. She's my world. Not to get all mushy and shit.
 
To boot, I got a awesome cycle I can't wait to run and instead I haven't been to the gym in 2 weeks and I'm feeling the built up tension from that. The gym is my therapy office and the weights are my therapist. I'm way over due for some sessions lol
 
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.....WELL I GOT THE MUSHY STUFF COVERED...I AM THE KING OF MUSHY
 
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