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My girl wants to wear a leather collar with a leash...?

todd55418

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OK-so recently my girl and I are talking and I ask her to tell me what would be a "turn-on" for her. Well she says a "leather collar" would be hot. When I asked her what she meant, she said it would be hot for her to wear a leather collar with a leather leash attached. OK-don't laugh at me...So what the hell do I do with the leash and collar on her. (I don't mean have sex). What I mean is...how can I use this in a sex play scenario? I don't think she wants to be lead around like a dog. Anyone have any experience with this?
 
lead her around like she wants the pull on the leash while doing it doggy style. or use the lease to whip her ass. hope that helps. I'm not speaking from experience:thumb:
 
Do whatever it takes... Think of this as an opportunity, you give her what she wants which gives you the leverage to ask for what you want!
 
Go for it have a blast-just don't marry the girl-huge red flag.
 
^Both DieselJimmy and ctr10 are on point with both these comments. Enjoy it while it lasts, but don't expect it to last.
 
let out your inner DOM and own this girl. jeez dude, grow a pair and man up
 
Your part of the AMA army get yourself some tren then do your job
 
Experience with this? Um, well.... just a little *wink*

Firstly... no red flag here, trust me.

The idea of a collar and leash come from the BDSM world where D/s, M/s relationships are the rule rather than the exception. She's exploring her submissive side. She's telling you she wants you to be more Dominant at least in a role play situation. She may or may not want to take it further but that's something you'd have to clear up with her over time. You should approach this play time with intention. That means don't just tug at her leash and "play" like she's a bad dog. You do need to clear up what her idea about it is, what she finds sexy, what are her 'hard lines' etc. This is an important step because once you know you can treat her with the care and safety I know you want and we both know she'll need. In offering herself up to you in this position she's giving you an amazing amount of trust. 1 in telling you and 2 handing you the leash. You should treat it with great respect and appreciation. It's a gift she's giving you. Honor that. Now she may just like the idea of playing like this and have it so serious however this is what you will find out when you discuss it further.

If she really likes it and finds herself content in being your submissive, then trust me when I tell you this can be the most wonderful of experiences. It will bring you guys closer than you could ever have thought before. Another important part is whether or not YOU feel comfortable in the Dom role. Open honest discussions about this is vital for it not to turn into something resentful or nasty.
 
Wow...I truly appreciate all of the responses that I have and will receive...thanks to everyone. Still, this one was really appreciated. Thank you very much. Your advise is something I am going to take very seriously. My goal is to bring us closer together and I really want her to be happy and experience the pleasure she is seeking. I guess the situation was really new to me and it felt weird. This advice is an example of why this entire forum rocks.
 
Really, if she is asking you just try it once and see how you both like it...
 
todd55418 said:
Wow...I truly appreciate all of the responses that I have and will receive...thanks to everyone. Still, this one was really appreciated. Thank you very much. Your advise is something I am going to take very seriously. My goal is to bring us closer together and I really want her to be happy and experience the pleasure she is seeking. I guess the situation was really new to me and it felt weird. This advice is an example of why this entire forum rocks.
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I could be off base here but I get a vibe of touchy-feely-don't-wanna-disrespect-the-woman from you. And not that that's bad in its own way in some other places/times, but most women as well as yours apparently are not turned on by this. Usually it's an active turn-off, in fact. Sounds like your chick wants you to take charge, don't worry about respect and her pleasure, just make her do the stuff you want no matter how kinky or rough (within limits) and take control. This will be a big turn-on for you and her both. Don't worry about respect or being PC. Your chick probably also wants you to be fearless, so take those concerns of yours about "the situation being new and feeling weird", wipe your ass with em and give em a flush. Have fun and good luck. :)
 
drag her outside in front of the neighbours and up to a tree and say "not on the sofa, BAD DOG!!!!"

jk

whatever it takes to have fun is worthwhile
 
chocolatemalt said:
I could be off base here but I get a vibe of touchy-feely-don't-wanna-disrespect-the-woman from you. And not that that's bad in its own way in some other places/times, but most women as well as yours apparently are not turned on by this. Usually it's an active turn-off, in fact. Sounds like your chick wants you to take charge, don't worry about respect and her pleasure, just make her do the stuff you want no matter how kinky or rough (within limits) and take control. This will be a big turn-on for you and her both. Don't worry about respect or being PC. Your chick probably also wants you to be fearless, so take those concerns of yours about "the situation being new and feeling weird", wipe your ass with em and give em a flush. Have fun and good luck. :)
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Thanks for the feedback...and I think you are right on the money!
 
Also, if you need some more predatory alpha maleness to help treat your lady like a dog you could just add some tren to your cycle. :) Not sure why I'm doing a smiley there actually since it's a serious point.
 
If she likes the leash, then she'll probably like hair pulling too. Bunch the leash up in your hand while fucking her doggy and choke her a little, let her know who's in charge. When you get her head up close to yours from pulling the leash, push her head back down into the pillows and hold her there while giving her the jack hammer. Make her see stars.
 
I like a leash cause it gives me something to leverage against so i can lean back a little for the angle thrusting. My girl likes being choked.
 
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