um stupid question but wouldn't it hurt you to cheat? break something inside you? ruin everything even if the other person didn't know? sometimes it seems like nobody values the right things anymore.
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At What Point is it Cheating?
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Exactly...rockgazer69 said:
I found out the hard way that I can't cheat on my girlfriend. I know that I didn't have the heart to do anything with a girl that I have been studying with. Despite the fact that the girl knows that I have a gf and my gf would never find out, I just can't bring myself to do it. I really don't think that I am cut out for a committed relationship just yet. I really need to experience the rest of college to the fullest.
My last post was pretty much to myself I think.
Yes RG, but it's OK to cheat w/me (only me)rockgazer69 said:
it's not okay to cheat. not only do you dishonor your partner but yourself as well... plus not enough people take into consideration that we are teaching our children how to live with every decision we make.
i think it is sexy as hell to completely belong to one man and have him know that beyond all doubt
i think it is sexy as hell to completely belong to one man and have him know that beyond all doubt
rockgazer69 said:it's not okay to cheat. not only do you dishonor your partner but yourself as well... plus not enough people take into consideration that we are teaching our children how to live with every decision we make.
i think it is sexy as hell to completely belong to one man and have him know that beyond all doubt
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While we are on the topic, I can't believe what I passed up a few weeks ago.
Me and my buddy went to a sports bar for a few, then this GORGEOUS hottie comes roller blading in wearing a tight two piece spandex suit that showed off her tight body which complimented the beautiful face very nicelly. My first thought was "Damn, what I would do to her" and then, she sat next to me
She tried jumping in our conversation, and asking me what I was doing tonight and I couldn't believe that the first thing out of my mouth was "Going home to my fiancee"
If you told me I would be saying this to her a few years ago I'd say you were fucked in the head
Me and my buddy went to a sports bar for a few, then this GORGEOUS hottie comes roller blading in wearing a tight two piece spandex suit that showed off her tight body which complimented the beautiful face very nicelly. My first thought was "Damn, what I would do to her" and then, she sat next to me
She tried jumping in our conversation, and asking me what I was doing tonight and I couldn't believe that the first thing out of my mouth was "Going home to my fiancee"
If you told me I would be saying this to her a few years ago I'd say you were fucked in the head
lol.The Monkey Man said:
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im single.. but when i was in a relationship, i used to go out w/ other girls.. i dont believe its cheating til you kiss the other girls
i dont believe its cheating til you kiss the other girls
Does this kissing take place, Before...TriZZle305 said:
...Or After, the orgy?
Well, I suppose since I spawned this thread, I should share my own personal reasons for starting it. But I won't...for now anyways.
are any of the choices truly "not cheating" seriously?? i just turned single but, my girl on a date with with someone "physical or not" tells me im not doing something right and we need to iether part ways or take a little vacation and chat!
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I think jenny said it best, but honestly most people from my experience are only as faithful as their options..lol. I personally don't see the piont in cheating, I mean if you want to date more than one person than why not just tell your GF/BF that and if thats not what their down for then you two aren't right. being honest saves yourself of alot of useless drama for gods sake, and feelings don't get hurt as often
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^ Well it's not that I want to date other women, I just think it would be kinda cool if she took some of her friends home from her all female hockey team. 
agreedTriZZle305 said:im single.. but when i was in a relationship, i used to go out w/ other girls..
maybe that's why you are single now romeo.TriZZle305 said:im single.. but when i was in a relationship, i used to go out w/ other girls..
omg. where's Lucifer?YourallIwant said:agreed
Truth always becomes clear...eventually...Although some would argue-
If consequences dictate, our course of actions then it, doesn't matter what's right,
It's only wrong if you get caught...
In my case---I caught her!
If consequences dictate, our course of actions then it, doesn't matter what's right,
It's only wrong if you get caught...
In my case---I caught her!
I never believed in cheating.
I definately would never want to find any girl that I am with to have cheated on me. So I guess in light of that, I would not cheat on her. Why introduce pain like that into your relationship. If you have the urge to cheat then the person you're with doesn't mean much to you.
Now if seeing other people is a mutual thing and you both agree to that then that's a different story. I guess communication is the key in these cases.
But to answer the question.... what point is cheating? Well anytime you do anything to violate your partners trust. I would say that pretty much sums it up.
I definately would never want to find any girl that I am with to have cheated on me. So I guess in light of that, I would not cheat on her. Why introduce pain like that into your relationship. If you have the urge to cheat then the person you're with doesn't mean much to you.
Now if seeing other people is a mutual thing and you both agree to that then that's a different story. I guess communication is the key in these cases.
But to answer the question.... what point is cheating? Well anytime you do anything to violate your partners trust. I would say that pretty much sums it up.
i think its cheating as soon as u take playing with someone other then your girlfriend to far.....like if you are just playing around with another girl its ok but if u get flirty and start smackin other girls ass's n stuff/talking to them in a way ur bf/gf wouldnt like its cheating....if the relationship isnt serious n u know it wont last long then who cares go ahead n mess with other girls but when u really care ab your gf/bf then u should respect them.
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seriously though....what if you were single, but someone who was involved came on to YOU. And you kindly take her offer...is that cheating? Because you are not involved...and on the other hand would your opinion change if you didn't know she was involved?
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I have a girl friend of 1 year, but i had a past serious relationship as well. I still have feelings for her when i talk to her, but i do not reveal them. I would not consider this cheating because do not act on these thoughts/feeling.. nor can i help that these feelings still linger.
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Mudge said:
There is just no pleasing some people.....I can never win with you can I!? All I did was look and you have been all over me about that ever since....LET IT GO. Why cant you just forgive me?
...when you get caught. By the way, just cause you cheat doesn't mean you don't love the one your with, we are still just animals. People generally hate my point of view on this one but let er rip. Hopefully it gets into why it's ok for a guy to cheat, or be a slut, but not a girl. Then I can share even more of my opinion, and give everyone my long thought out answer.......NOW ....GO.
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Cheating...even if you dont get caught....is still cheating. Yes, I agree with you that we as humans are still animals but the only difference between humans and animals is a conscience. If you dont feel bad for cheating then I would not be proud of that. If you dont care about someone enough not to cheat on them then you should not be in a relationship with them to begin with.
So true.
