OceanDude said:All I know is I am looking forward to the day that John H. can show some "VARIETY - VARIATION" in his posts. If Nature had wanted man to preach variation I am certain that Nature would have come down and told us that itself.
OD
Hi OD,
Did you see the post I made with regard to honest working out - Men honestly working out - I did post - a number of them - on that "other board" - I was very truthful in what I said and I got some "hate" replies. ANY MAN that WILL HONESTLY - WORK DAMN HARD - AND WITH PURPOSE - WILL ACHIEVE the VERY BEST HE CAN BE - GUARANTEED - (and there is not too much in life that IS TRULY GUARANTEED!) it IS ALL ABOUT EACH INDIVIDUAL DOING - DOING - THEIR VERY BEST accurately, honestly, completely, and thoroughly - AND YOU WILL BE THE VERY BEST YOU CAN BE. The BEST things in life are truly WORTH WORKING FOR a little harder - the REWARDS are ABSOLUTE. It IS the one gift a MAN can GIVE himself and those that honestly care about him that can never be "taken away" and IS the FOUNDATION of a REAL MAN. EVERY FIBER OF EVERY MUSCLE - and the rewards are TRULY TREMENDOUS!!!! An example I give is having Guys THINK about their cocks when they are extremely hard just before they are about to blow off (BE an ADULT here and THINK CAREFULLY about this example!) - your WHOLE BODY CAN BE THAT HEALTHY ALL OVER and sensitive and very strong IF you REALLY want to BE TOTALLY HEALTHY and that responsive totally. (All Guys have cocks and can appreciate what I am saying since they experience the same feeling there and by way of UNDERSTANDING when I use this example I feel they can UNDERSTAND then what I am saying with regard to the TOTALNESS of their health WITH THEIR ENTIRE BODY not "just their cock"). This might be considered initially by some to be an "extreme" example but it sure gets to the heart of the subject truthfully and in a manner that all Men can truly UNDERSTAND. The end result WILL BE that those Men who "hear" the "message" WILL WANT FOR THEMSELVES TO BE THEIR VERY BEST - HONESTLY AND COMPLETELY AND TOTALLY ALL OVER!
As for variation and variety - an observant person WILL SEE it ALL AROUND them - there are many ways to "speak" - even without "words". Nature does "tell" us everyday about variety and variation in all things INCLUDING Sexuality. You can call it - variety and variation - the true beauty of life and living.
Here is another book you should read: BIOLOGICAL EXUBERANCE, by Bruce Bagemihl (St. Martin's Press). TRULY learning requires everyone to have or develop an open mind and be objective and learn about all things all the time. Variety IS the spice of life.
Take Care, John H.