Listen, you are cutting the way most bodybuilders and figure competitors cut. They don't read the current research and they do things the way they've always been done.
Men generally use anabolics while cutting this way. Women sometimes do, too - but with more problems.
I just came back from the Arnold in Ohio, where I saw first hand the myriad fuckups who threw more and more drugs at shitty training and diet paradigms that didn't deliver. Some of the thirty year olds I have met look like they could be my mother. Heh - or my father. Ugh.
Your workouts are not listed by rep range, to be sure. I do see you're doing bodypart training - and lots of machines, that was the tip off.
Your avatar pic shows you to be in the low twenties of bodyfat and you will need to diet down to around 10% to compete. If you're hungry every two hours NOW, you won't BELIEVE how hungry you will be every two hours ten pounds from now.
You want to believe your boyfriend has the key that nobody else has, I understand.
What you are doing will work (and by work, I mean you'll lose weight, and WAY too much of your muscle) if you can stick to it.
I know that I could not.
Put it this way: a method that works for a genetic freak won't translate well to others, right? But a method that works for the worst case will work for ANYBODY.
I was 40% bodyfat and on metformin (diabetes meds) at 38 years of age.
I was 14% bodyfat and had veins around my navel in my profile pic - at 42 years of age.
I did this by reading and using methods that work for the worst genetics.
If this worked for me, imagine what it would do for you.