Fu*k buddies

[AnnaDTX]

Do people really have them?

 

[Island Roots]

Why not? Some people have them, but it usually ends up a mess as one of them gets attached to the other and they get hurt.

 

[Witmaster]

Do people really have them?

Are you considering an offer?

 

[GFR]

I agree with Island, it usually turns out that one person gets attached and hurt when the emotions are not mutual. The only F-buddy I had that wasn't a problem was a lesbian friend of mine back in Chicago....but she made me work like a slave in bed.

 

[VipeR]

I agree with Island, it usually turns out that one person gets attached and hurt when the emotions are not mutual. The only F-buddy I had that wasn't a problem was a lesbian friend of mine back in Chicago....but she made me work like a slave in bed.

Then she would be bi..

 

[cappo5150]

Yes, if you make it clear early on, that you want no relationship out of it. Things will be great.

 

[The Monkey Man]

When my girlfriend and I broke up last year ago...

I told her that if I or she wasn't seeing anyone at the time, I would
Entertain Booty Calls from her...

So After a string of dates, and a short relationship (2 months)
I am very single again...

Pretty soon... "RING"

So that weekend I took her out to dinner and then home...

a month or two later we were back together

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The only time it worked for me was when I was in my early 20's
And not looking for a relationship

I know several married people that it works for also

(You often can't get attached in an affair)

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There was also a situation which was a
long distance relationship (2.5 hr drive)
This was nice...

You get together every two weeks...

Once a month she drives to you
Once a month you drive to her

The off weeks, you cruise

 

[GFR]

Then she would be bi..

I am not an expert on Human sexuality and its definitions, all I know is she slept with women the entire 5 years I lived in Chicago, with one exception. I do know that its not uncommon for people who consider themselves "homosexual" to experiment with the opposite sex from time to time.....John H could give you a better explanation, and Im sure he will.

 

[AnnaDTX]

i am not considering one. I COULD call my ex bf of 10 years, but I have to be physically attracted to him and I AM NOT anymore. Just another question for my semi-virgin self.

 

[VipeR]

I am not an expert on Human sexuality and its definitions, all I know is she slept with women the entire 5 years I lived in Chicago, with one exception. I do know that its not uncommon for people who consider themselves "homosexual" to experiment with the opposite sex from time to time.....John H could give you a better explanation, and Im sure he will.

I can already see it...

Dear VipeR,
Though it is "uncommon" for "homosexuals" to engage in sexual intercourse with the opposite sex,
Take care, John H. (or w/e)

 

[The Monkey Man]

I can already see it...

Dear VipeR,
Though it is "uncommon" for "homosexuals" to engage in sexual intercourse with the opposite sex,
Take care, John H. (or w/e)

 

[The Monkey Man]

i am not considering one. I COULD call my ex bf of 10 years, but I have to be physically attracted to him and I AM NOT anymore. Just another question for my semi-virgin self.

When I move out west, I'll give you my number

 

[The Monkey Man]

All these questions are going to abruply stop
when she gets it "layed well" one night...

And then we can all relax

 

[Stu]

I agree with Island, it usually turns out that one person gets attached and hurt when the emotions are not mutual. The only F-buddy I had that wasn't a problem was a lesbian friend of mine back in Chicago....but she made me work like a slave in bed.

that would make you a woman then??

 

[Witmaster]

that would make you a woman then??

you know, he does make a point!

 

[LAM]

never had a fuk buddy per say, personally I don't like to share. but i'm always having sex with ex-friends some i've been having sex with off and on for the past 10-15 years.

 

[Witmaster]

All these questions are going to abruply stop
when she gets it "layed well" one night...

And then we can all relax

I agree, as happy as we all are to accomodate her questions it would seem that these inquiries stem from a deep seeded need for an unbridled no-holds-barred weekend of "off-the-chain" monkey sex.

I know got a couple buddies down in the Houston area... maybe i could make a call...

 

[AnnaDTX]

witmaster you are correct. I never had "off-the-chain" anything. I havent discovered my sexual self yet, i am curious. GAWD, i can't believe i just admitted that on a forum

 

[Witmaster]

witmaster you are correct. I never had "off-the-chain" anything. I havent discovered my sexual self yet, i am curious. GAWD, i can't believe i just admitted that on a forum

Hey, that's why we're here (uh..... well, I'm no "Dr. Ruth but what the hell...)

Anyhow, Anna, you are a beautiful woman. Your Hot. People compliment you. It's only natural that you would be curious about your "sexual self". Let me caution you this....

Men will use "love" to get SEX. Women will often confuse SEX for "love". Others have stated in previous posts the dangers of casual sex and the risk of an "unwanted attachement". My question to you is, are you looking for a relationship? Or are you looking for Sex?

 

[The Monkey Man]

witmaster you are correct. I never had "off-the-chain" anything. I havent discovered my sexual self yet

It's cool...

If I am between relationships, and hook up w/someone new
Even after all my experiences, it still has a chance of being awkward, or mechanical

Everyones body is different
Everyones experiences are different

You can never assume or expect a person will move a certain way,
or suggest a certain thing, or perform a certain way...

This usually comes after repitition with that same person...
I liken it to practicing with a long time dance partner

But once in a while, the first time is spontaneous and mind blowing

 

[GFR]

that would make you a woman then??

G.E.D.

 

[WATTS]

after i broke up with my last girlfriend she still wanted to have sex and all that and well i didnt turn it down....but then she started getting attacted again...it was weird though because my whole thing is that i would not kiss her or anything like that so i would fuck then leave but she started thinking i liked her or something so i had to turn her down...
so basically everything that island said i have experienced. lol. fun while it lasts though.

 

[reimon]

Then she would be bi..

Nope... She's a lesbian.

Met a couple like her.. Every woman needs a dick from time to time.. Dildo's just don't cut it... Lesbians hate men and love women... Doesn't mean a Lesbian can't have sex with a man and be considered a bisexual... What if she's raped by a man, but she doesn't feel attracted to him?

Bisexuals love anything.. even trees and animals... they fuck frankly anything lol..


Basically, it's what you're ATTRACTED to, and what gender makes you horny that decides your SEXUALITY, not just that you're fucking someone..

ONTOPIC: Yes, people really DO have fuck buddies... Yes, sometiems one gets caught up in the rapture, while the other just wants to smack the meat, and shit goes bad... Most of the time, both just fuck regularly, sorta care about each other, but don't hafta have like a curfew or any bullshit girlfriends make you do... You can fuck whoever you want ...

Sometimes the FB gets REALLY jealous though and she'll give u blue balls cuz she found out you slept with her cousin... But that's another story..

 

[ZECH]

My question to you is, are you looking for a relationship? Or are you looking for Sex?

I would guess a relationship. It's hard to imagine someone with little experience wanting a sex buddy. I could be wrong though. Now me on the other hand, would prefer sex with no strings attached! After you loose half of what you have, you don't want anyone else

 

[Witmaster]

I would guess a relationship. It's hard to imagine someone with little experience wanting a sex buddy. I could be wrong though. Now me on the other hand, would prefer sex with no strings attached! After you loose half of what you have, you don't want anyone else

Yea, I know you've been down that road brother... It only takes one good powder-burn to know which end of the gun you want to be on next time.

I guess my message to Anna is this... One the one hand, you post about how you met the great guy but then broke it off with him because the "jerk" had the nerve to try and give you a "kiss" after the second date. Then, you make posts like this that suggest you are looking for a "wild ride" in the sack.

Rest assured there is no shortage of guys out there to accomodate your needs. You just need to do some soul-searching and determine what those needs are.

 

[The Monkey Man]

Rest assured there is no shortage of guys out there to accomodate your needs. You just need to do some soul-searching and determine what those needs are

...And I'd again like to volunteer

 

[ABLQ2]

ive got one. it doesnt work, and i dont think its possible for fuck buddies to ever work out. too many emotions get tied into all of it. if i could give you any advice on the situation-

Dont try it!

 

[AnnaDTX]

Witmaster: i pushed that jerk away because I just didn't feel comfortable with him. i guess when I find the right person i will give him that first kiss and then have "off-the-chain" monkey sex later!

I admit i havent had that much experience in the sexx department but I can still ask questions, i am just curious.