Girlfriend Cheated

[Deeznuts]

This might seem kind of late, but i'll just have you know i've been going through the same situation with my g/f. She's cheated on me a couple of times and i've taken her back. Now the uneasiness in the relationship is unreal. I can barely take it, and it's making me physically ill. Dump her now, while you can. I'm all for forgiving and giving someone a second chance, but if they do it once they're going to do it again. I know that sounds harsh, but that's probably the way it is. A life of paranoia and mistrust is no life at all. Find a girl who will treat you right.

 

[Johnnny]

Deeznuts get rid of her skanky a$$. She should only behaving like this with you & no one else.

If she wants to go out with other ppl, than she should act like a human being & end it so no one gets hurt.

This is what I would do.

 

[LAM]

Originally posted by Deeznuts
This might seem kind of late, but i'll just have you know i've been going through the same situation with my g/f. She's cheated on me a couple of times and i've taken her back. Now the uneasiness in the relationship is unreal. I can barely take it, and it's making me physically ill.

this is off topic..but why in the hell would you do that to yourself. you are what only 18 ? get some self respect and dump that tramp...

 

[Mudge]

Originally posted by DrChiro
Trust is VERY important in a relationship....IMO cheating is the ultimate abuse of that trust and is unforgivable.

I agree, it would be difficult for me to get past that. If she screwed the guy though, that is not just a little mistake, that is complete disregard for how the other person feels, bye bye.

I dont give a shyt if its 3 months or 3 days, obviously you aren't interested in me if you are doing that.

This kind of reaction from some of you is in stark contrast to how life was less than 100 years ago. Now if you cheat "hey, its ok we all do it, 3 months doesn't mean anything."

Honesty and integrity are just a joke to some of you.

 

[PreMier]

Originally posted by Mudge
I agree, it would be difficult for me to get past that. If she screwed the guy though, that is not just a little mistake, that is complete disregard for how the other person feels, bye bye.

I dont give a shyt if its 3 months or 3 days, obviously you aren't interested in me if you are doing that.

This kind of reaction from some of you is in stark contrast to how life was less than 100 years ago. Now if you cheat "hey, its ok we all do it, 3 months doesn't mean anything."

Honesty and integrity are just a joke to some of you.

I cannot agree more!

 

[ZorroAzul]

Always keep this in mind: In a relationship, there is ONLY ONE PARACHUTE. Whoever jumps out first, saves himself...

Dump her now and feel good, and not get dumped by the girl that cheated on you and you took back. You'll be depressed for months, if not longer. And this is going nowhere by all the reasons listed above, so act now or suffer later.

 

[Johnnny]

ZorroAzul

Dump her now and feel good, and not get dumped by the girl that cheated on you and you took back. You'll be depressed for months, if not longer. And this is going nowhere by all the reasons listed above, so act now or suffer later.

Damn right dude. I'm not saying she will, but there's a high probability that she will cheat again maybe with the same guy & dump you for him.

I've seen it happen. It almost happened to me, but I showed her the door before she could f#ck me over.

 

[austinite]

Originally posted by Johnnny
The reason I thought she was cheating on me is because she was always getting phone calls from this guy & sometimes blowing me off to hang out with him & several times I saw her & this guy go into her house. So I dumped her. She claimed she wasn't cheating & I wouldn't listen. As I found out the guy she would spend time with was her brother & she wasn't cheating at all on me. I found this out right before she was leaving for university & I apologized to her & that she should give me a call when she was in town. She was at first a bit upset but then was totally cool & she did admit that she should've told me that she had a brother & that they were close not in the way you think.

Call me suspicious, but I think I would have asked for a birth certificate or family photo.

 

[Johnnny]

austinite naw, I'm not that hardcore. Now if I see something that's not right, I confront the woman & not jump to conclusions as I could be throwing away a meaningful relatioinship.

 

[austinite]

Originally posted by Johnnny
austinite naw, I'm not that hardcore. Now if I see something that's not right, I confront the woman & not jump to conclusions as I could be throwing away a meaningful relatioinship.

Had she ever mentioned a brother before? Did she ever introduce you to him?

 

[Johnnny]

austinite I'm not sure if you read everything, but she never mentioned a brother or introduce me. But when I confronted her, I also saw some family photos & felt like an idiot.

We all make mistakes, but she did admit she should've mentioned him & it was all cool after.