Guy Wants to Kill Me For Talking to His Wife

[Little Wing]

thank you. i think it's some of my best work.

 

[HialeahChico305]

I had plans to go see the new Batman movie with an ex-co worker of mine on Friday. She's 33 and in the midst of a divorce that will be finalized in October. Anyway, she calls me on Friday letting me know her husband had been digging thru her phone and writing down phone numbers of guys she had been talking to and getting all crazy about it. She called me and left me a total of four voice mails since sounding really scared and shakey, warning me he was going to call me.

I get the call a few hours ago while I was napping, and the voicemail I got was as follows (verbatim):

"You didnâ??????t leave no fucking message there, so I donâ??????t know who Iâ??????m talking to, but Iâ??????m thinking itâ??????s Kent, and you know (girl's name) and you obviously know who the FUCK I am. Iâ??????m her fianc??©. And if you fucking call her anymore, talk to her, and tell her about some fucking movie or whatever, Iâ??????m going to rip your fucking head off. So I hope this is the right guy, and, but this is no lie, LEAVE HER THE FUCK ALONE. Youâ??????ve got a big problem on your hands, buddy."

The guy sounds like white trash from the South to be honest, but he definitely sounded mad and crazy. I'm not sure what to do from here. I've already decided not to talk to this girl anymore since she pretty much revealed to me on Friday how crazy she is for being with this guy by the way she's handling it, let alone the fact that I do not want to deal with any of this shit at all. My main concern is that this guy may easily stumble across directions to my house.

It would be pretty cool if you can play that voice messege here, anyway Best thing you can do is back off. A jelaous unstable guy is like a time bomb waiting to explode.

 

[BulkMeUp]

Post the voicemail on youtube

 

[TCAP28]

Do you think I should report this to the police?

I am also concerned that he may show up to my work.

Yep. Better safe than sorry.

 

[KentDog]

Thanks guys, and LW, that photoshop is hilarious (I had to do a triple-take ).

He's also a moron as he's left a hard copy of a threat to you, which you can hand over to the police which means there is no his word vs yours. Thats even dumber then sending threats by email as he cant deny it's him. Hopefully you were smart enough to keep the recording. There's plenty you can do with it if you so choose, or just ignore it as a guy being an idiot, but don't lose the recording as you may need it in the future if he decides to continue with the threats, etc.

Thanks Will. I've kept the voicemail and also saved it as a voice memo (since voicemail disappears after 30 days with my provider). I'm still pretty shocked by the message, but I've prepared myself for the worst at this point.

It would be pretty cool if you can play that voice messege here, anyway Best thing you can do is back off. A jelaous unstable guy is like a time bomb waiting to explode.

I wouldn't be totally opposed to playing it or sending it to one of you guys (my voicemail gives me an option to send it to another Sprint PCS user). I don't know, we'll see. I want to wait until this whole thing blows over before doing anything.

I'm going to call her tomorrow at her work number to let her know about the voicemail her husband left and to find out what he knows about me as well as make sure she has gotten rid of my address. Hopefully nothing will happen and guy won't show up at my work or home. Also need to let her know we shouldn't talk for a while (if ever again). Kind of a shitty situation, but I don't need the drama.

 

[I Are Baboon]

Unstable, insecure men are funny.

 

[The Monkey Man]

Wait a minute ... hold the phone. He described himself as her fiance, and she described him as her soon to be ex-husband? WTF?!?!? That is not making any sense. Someone's screwing with you here some how ...

Yeah, this was my 1st thought...



I would go to HIM, face-to-face, and say you are dropping the whole thing, look him straight in the eye and let him know, you aren't interested in hearing from either HIM or HER, ever again.

Look him in the eye, shake his hand, and walk away.

Don't ask questions, don't make excuses, don't let him or her explain any thing... Just make that statement and leave it.

 

[KentDog]

Unstable, insecure men are funny.

Exactly. It kind of hints to what kind of girl this is as well in my opinion.

 

[Will Brink]

Unstable, insecure men are funny.

Real funny when they show up at your house with baseball bat.

Yah, very funny...not.

 

[Will Brink]

Thanks guys, and LW, that photoshop is hilarious (I had to do a triple-take ).


Thanks Will. I've kept the voicemail and also saved it as a voice memo (since voicemail disappears after 30 days with my provider). I'm still pretty shocked by the message, but I've prepared myself for the worst at this point.

Never ignore another man's threats. If you get any others, forward them to the police, and consider a restraining order and or charges (no, it's not legal to threaten another persons life), and watch your back.

99% of the time, threats are just threats. I have personally seen the results of the 1% that were not. Good luck.

 

[DaMayor]

99% of the time, threats are just threats. I have personally seen the results of the 1% that were not. Good luck.

I've seen that 1% as well. In fact, the description that Kent gave made me think about the guy who blew his girlfriend's brains out.....first time I ever saw the interior of a human skull. Not a pretty sight.

 

[Will Brink]

I've seen that 1% as well. In fact, the description that Kent gave made me think about the guy who blew his girlfriend's brains out.....first time I ever saw the interior of a human skull. Not a pretty sight.

You are this close (he holds his hands an inch apart from each other) to turning this into a gun thread!

 

[min0 lee]

 

[bio-chem]

You are this close (he holds his hands an inch apart from each other) to turning this into a gun thread!

down boy. relax.

 

[DaMayor]

That's some funny stuff!

Should've put Rob between Mudge and Manic....psycho sandwich.


I can' stop laughing at this.

 

[zombul]

Thanks guys, and LW, that photoshop is hilarious (I had to do a triple-take ).


Thanks Will. I've kept the voicemail and also saved it as a voice memo (since voicemail disappears after 30 days with my provider). I'm still pretty shocked by the message, but I've prepared myself for the worst at this point.


I wouldn't be totally opposed to playing it or sending it to one of you guys (my voicemail gives me an option to send it to another Sprint PCS user). I don't know, we'll see. I want to wait until this whole thing blows over before doing anything.

I'm going to call her tomorrow at her work number to let her know about the voicemail her husband left and to find out what he knows about me as well as make sure she has gotten rid of my address. Hopefully nothing will happen and guy won't show up at my work or home. Also need to let her know we shouldn't talk for a while (if ever again). Kind of a shitty situation, but I don't need the drama.

That sounds a little risky bro.You may not want to contact her because if it gets around to him that you did under any circumstance then he may try to follow up on that threat. I would deffinately call him and tell him that you have no interest and thought the two of them were finished but obviously aren't any you'll no longer contact her.

 

[SYN]

Dude, he is a choad for sure. Take her to the movies, and if that guy gives you any shit, just knock his punk ass the fuck out.

 

[KentDog]

Thanks guys.

That sounds a little risky bro.You may not want to contact her because if it gets around to him that you did under any circumstance then he may try to follow up on that threat. I would deffinately call him and tell him that you have no interest and thought the two of them were finished but obviously aren't any you'll no longer contact her.

I actually had called her a few hours ago already to see what he knew about me. She already got rid of my address and number, he doesn't know my last name or what I look like or where I live. That's good enough for me, though to be honest, I am still a little annoyed that this guy would be arrogant and stupid enough to leave such a voicemail to someone he knew absolutely nothing about. A part of me still wants to call him to make sure he understood where I stood on the situation, but his wife begged me to just leave it be (as to not risk getting him heated back up again). I figure this will be the last I hear from either of them.

Never ignore another man's threats. If you get any others, forward them to the police, and consider a restraining order and or charges (no, it's not legal to threaten another persons life), and watch your back.

99% of the time, threats are just threats. I have personally seen the results of the 1% that were not. Good luck.

You are this close (he holds his hands an inch apart from each other) to turning this into a gun thread!

Thank you, Will. I was a little surprised that the police were not willing to do anything for me until the guy left two more threatening messages or physically showed up to my work or home. This was unacceptable to me. I gave hint in a previous post (in this thread) that I had prepared for the worst. What I meant by that was that I have a firearm in my home at the moment solely due to this threat. This reminded me of a thread you had made which I had participated in. Even though I consider myself able to hold my own in most cases, it can be very difficult to prepare yourself for those unstable people out there.

 

[Will Brink]

Thank you, Will. I was a little surprised that the police were not willing to do anything for me until the guy left two more threatening messages or physically showed up to my work or home. This was unacceptable to me. I gave hint in a previous post (in this thread) that I had prepared for the worst. What I meant by that was that I have a firearm in my home at the moment solely due to this threat.

A perfectly reasonable precaution.

This reminded me of a thread you had made which I had participated in. Even though I consider myself able to hold my own in most cases, it can be very difficult to prepare yourself for those unstable people out there.

Just be sure that gun in your house is legal. Each state can be quite different and "buddy lent me a gun" for example may not be legal in your state, etc.

Good luck.

 

[NeilPearson]

Did she explain why he said she was his finance?

Why the hell is she still living with him if they are getting a divorce?

 

[KentDog]

Just be sure that gun in your house is legal. Each state can be quite different and "buddy lent me a gun" for example may not be legal in your state, etc.

Good luck.

Thanks for the tip. I will have to look into this, though I do not plan to keep this thing around for much longer than a few more days. I have been wanting to pick up one of my own for a while now. The only thing that had stopped me before was knowing that guns in general are pretty marked up when buying from sporting good stores (such as Scheel's). Do you know of a source where I can get a new one for a good price (looking for an H&K USP)?

Did she explain why he said she was his finance?

Why the hell is she still living with him if they are getting a divorce?

She did not really explain, but she did acknowledge that she knew her husband had threatened someone else in the past stating he was her fiance. Sounds like a real winner.

She had told me that she had found her own place and was ready to move, but then the floods hit (I live in Iowa) and it made her new living arrangements unliveable.

 

[Will Brink]

Thanks for the tip. I will have to look into this,

Start here:

Handgunlaw.us

though I do not plan to keep this thing around for much longer than a few more days. I have been wanting to pick up one of my own for a while now. The only thing that had stopped me before was knowing that guns in general are pretty marked up when buying from sporting good stores (such as Scheel's). Do you know of a source where I can get a new one for a good price (looking for an H&K USP)?
.

Again, depends on the state, but if your state does not prevent online, you have a million choices, like Guns America:

GunsAmerica - Connecting Gun Buyers to Gun Sellers Since 1997 - Guns For Sale & Gun Auctions B"H

Sack of crap state I live in, can't use any of them, so retail all the way and limited choices "approved" by said sack of crap state.

I need to move...

 

[Crono1000]

I'm still stuck on the fiance/divorce thing. Either this guy is unstable and crazy or the chick is trying to get you to "take care of things" for her. Reminds me of Garth dating that married woman in Wayne's World 2

 

[DaMayor]

You are this close (he holds his hands an inch apart from each other) to turning this into a gun thread!

Nah, this guy wasn't a licensed carrier.....He was a bad drunk with a double barrel at very close range....now doing a life somewhere.

 

[KentDog]

Start here:

Handgunlaw.us

Again, depends on the state, but if your state does not prevent online, you have a million choices, like Guns America:

GunsAmerica - Connecting Gun Buyers to Gun Sellers Since 1997 - Guns For Sale & Gun Auctions B"H

Thanks, I will have a look. I've actually heard about GunsAmerica.

I'm still stuck on the fiance/divorce thing. Either this guy is unstable and crazy or the chick is trying to get you to "take care of things" for her. Reminds me of Garth dating that married woman in Wayne's World 2

I think the guy is just a complete idiot. I doubt his wife is trying to "get rid of him." I kind of feel sorry for her, not having been in a very happy relationship for a while and what seems to be having this guy constantly flip out on her. Oh well, not really my problem now.

 

[ALBOB]

Thanks guys.

I actually had called her a few hours ago already to see what he knew about me. She already got rid of my address and number, he doesn't know my last name or what I look like or where I live. That's good enough for me, though to be honest, I am still a little annoyed that this guy would be arrogant and stupid enough to leave such a voicemail to someone he knew absolutely nothing about.

Not sure you're looking at the whole picture here. Sure, she got rid of all your personal info AFTER he called you. So, why should that make you think he didn't already get your info BEFORE she trashed it? Besides, he already called you once. I know my phone stores dialed calls so, he has your number. Wouldn't be that difficult to track you down with that little tid-bit.

 

[Crono1000]

Not sure you're looking at the whole picture here. Sure, she got rid of all your personal info AFTER he called you. So, why should that make you think he didn't already get your info BEFORE she trashed it? Besides, he already called you once. I know my phone stores dialed calls so, he has your number. Wouldn't be that difficult to track you down with that little tid-bit.

not to mention I could see an argument going down where she tries to make him feel jeolous or inadequate 'cuz she knows this guy named Kent and HE was man enough to please her, or whatever. Then what do you reckon he's gonna do?

 

[The Monkey Man]

Thanks guys.

I actually had called her a few hours ago already to see what he knew about me. She already got rid of my address and number, he doesn't know my last name or what I look like or where I live. That's good enough for me, though to be honest, I am still a little annoyed that this guy would be arrogant and stupid enough to leave such a voicemail to someone he knew absolutely nothing about. A part of me still wants to call him to make sure he understood where I stood on the situation, but his wife begged me to just leave it be (as to not risk getting him heated back up again). I figure this will be the last I hear from either of them.

In the process you should have asked her for HIS name, number and employer. (probably Taco Bell)

As soon as I got that voicemail, I would have been at his work or home that day. I wouldn't start any static, just let him know by the gesture of showing up, that you aren't scared, and that you dont want to be involved with their stupid drama.

This is like terrorism... Its intimidation... Now you are home with a gun wondering whats up...
I couldn't deal with that. I would take it to him, and if he was feeling crazy, I'd get to face that crazy on "MY" terms.

 

[KentDog]

You guys are making me paranoid.

In the process you should have asked her for HIS name, number and employer. (probably Taco Bell)

As soon as I got that voicemail, I would have been at his work or home that day. I wouldn't start any static, just let him know by the gesture of showing up, that you aren't scared, and that you dont want to be involved with their stupid drama.

This is like terrorism... Its intimidation... Now you are home with a gun wondering whats up...
I couldn't deal with that. I would take it to him, and if he was feeling crazy, I'd get to face that crazy on "MY" terms.

I did ask her for his name and what he does, but she wouldn't tell me. I didn't want to push the matter, so I let it be. I don't know if it is in my personality type do show up at the guy's work or (especially) home. I think that would add to the danger to be honest, especially when he was still angry enough to leave such a voicemail. Additionally, I don't know the guy at all. Seems too unpredictable to want to risk walking blindly into the guy's own turf.

 

[cadnkides]

only a loser dates a married woman