I Hate Sex...well, kind of

[Flex]

Ok, i lied. But please help me out.


There's alot of things, more like feelings, i don't like after sex (or beatin' it).

Most of all i hate the lethargic feeling i get. I hate the mood it puts me in. I hate how i'm so tired.

I know its probably psychological, but i feel down on myself, and not energized 'n shit like i do beforehand.

Why is this? is it something that happens to all guys or is it just me?

 

[thatguy]

Orgasms release endorphins, which give a relaxing effect. Anything besides that I'm not sure about...

 

[BoneCrusher]

It's normal. Don't sweat it. Long as the lady you just enjoyed enjoyed you just as much then it's all good. Mood swings cum and go after. Someties it's nap time and sometimes it's ... batter up! Play ball ....


I mean, well i hope to believe it was a lady Flex. Just kidding man don't kill me ...

 

[crazy_enough]

cum and go after

Nice choice of words!

 

[maniclion]

I like the feeling after sex, it feels like a mild shot of moriphine. I don't feel lazy, just chilled out. Also my mind functions better because it's not constantly thinking about breeding.

 

[BoneCrusher]

Nice choice of words!

 

[Vieope]

http://www.ironmagazineforums.com/showthread.php?t=38851

 

[J'Bo]

Flexy.

Long time no chat.
You hate the feeling you have after sex
I love it.
The tingles and sensitive skin while lying next to someone panting.
How could anyone not like that?
Then you nestle into eachother and fall asleep.
Enjoy touching after sex, your much more sensitive

 

[trvlr70]

Ok, i lied. But please help me out.


There's alot of things, more like feelings, i don't like after sex (or beatin' it).

Most of all i hate the lethargic feeling i get. I hate the mood it puts me in. I hate how i'm so tired.

I know its probably psychological, but i feel down on myself, and not energized 'n shit like i do beforehand.

Why is this? is it something that happens to all guys or is it just me?

Dude, I read once before there is an actual psychological reason for why guys feel tired after ejaculation. It works the same way in most animals. The endorphin release also triggers a hormone which causes fatique so that you won't attempt sexual intercourse with another mate. In this way, the potency of the ejaculate(sperm count) remains high because you are only having one release. In females, the opposite exists to a certain degree. For a female, the achievement of orgasm does not diminish her sexual drive. However, I'm not sure why you are having feelings of depression after sex.

 

[Flex]

Flexy.

Long time no chat.
You hate the feeling you have after sex
I love it.
The tingles and sensitive skin while lying next to someone panting.
How could anyone not like that?
Then you nestle into eachother and fall asleep.
Enjoy touching after sex, your much more sensitive

Heeeeeeeeeey, stranger Long time no see, How you doin, babe?

Ya, for some reason i hate the feeling i get after sex. I don't know why , which is why i tried to get some feedback. I feel all lethargic and not motivated to do anything. I can't even like think straight haha.

 

[CRASHMAN]

ok so this is what happens when you orgasm, you have 2 systems in your body parasympathetic(Feed or bread) and the sympathetic(fight or flight). the only time they ever fire simultaneously is in orgasm. then one quickly drops off. in the case of most men, the sympathetic system drops off which makes you what you are feeling(the feed or bread state) and with some women the parasympathetic system drops off and thats why women are energetic after sex(fight or flight). Not to mention the chemicals your body releases for relaxation and you normally feel this way till your refractory period is over.

I used to feel that way but then i started masturbating and having sex alot more and i the feeling never came back....he he guess meaningless sex is a good thing

 

[gr81]

Ya, for some reason i hate the feeling i get after sex. I don't know why , which is why i tried to get some feedback. I feel all lethargic and not motivated to do anything. I can't even like think straight haha.

hey that just means your doin it right homey! I feel ya and thats just how it is, you should learn to enjoy it. Its your bodies way of telling you time for sportscenter and a nap..lol

 

[gr81]

You hate the feeling you have after sex
I love it.
The tingles and sensitive skin while lying next to someone panting.
How could anyone not like that?
Then you nestle into eachother and fall asleep.
Enjoy touching after sex, your much more sensitive

daauuumm, leave it to J to put make anything sound beautiful...well put girl

 

[John H.]

Ok, i lied. But please help me out.


There's alot of things, more like feelings, i don't like after sex (or beatin' it).

Most of all i hate the lethargic feeling i get. I hate the mood it puts me in. I hate how i'm so tired.

I know its probably psychological, but i feel down on myself, and not energized 'n shit like i do beforehand.

Why is this? is it something that happens to all guys or is it just me?

Hi Flex,

No matter what you end up doing, "beatin' it", having it "beatin", - whatever - you are going to end up being tired and want to rest. It takes a lot to "perform" - as with working out hard or working hard - you are demanding from your body to DO and you DO "hard as hell!" until you have "done it! - a person will get tired and need rest and nutrition to bring them back to full steam. Everyone experiences this - it is completely natural. Some people can last much longer and seem to never run out of steam. Ever wonder why? BECAUSE THEY ARE TOTALLY HEALTHY overall. The healthier a person is the more they can do and the more they will last. But everyone will eventually need rest and nutrition to recharge their "batteries". Everything and everyone has its limits. Those "limits" CAN BE extended BY BEING AND STAYING AS HEALTHY AS YOU POSSIBLY CAN BE.

Remember a car - it needs gas (the right kind), a tune-up, care. It can run for awhile without all of these - UNTIL IT IS "empty". Then it stops.

Take Care, John H.

 

[John H.]

Sex is a lot of things too. It can be a "tune-up" in and of itself. Understand it completely and enjoy it - sanely and/or insanely (whatever works for you!)

Take Care, John H.

 

[Little Wing]

have you ever tried to set it up so you have sex when you're ready to pass out anyway or have something very low energy planned like watching a movie? n if out the door is a concern, i've seen a few of your other posts, have her come to your place with the understanding she's hitting the door after. i really think tho that a lot of men like this time. quiet, content, dreamy... a good time to play guitar, be massaged, read or just give in to your body n fall asleep. and very few men don't act like sex is a natural morphine injection... i just think you are worried that one of these days flex is gonna be too tired to hit the door n some little lady is gonna cast her spell ov loooooooooovvvvvvveeeeeeee all ova you.