The biggest question that comes to my mind in this thread is why you care if she has or hasn't had sex. You must have some underlying bad feelings about females your age that are not virgins. Why? Sex is fun, natural, and healthy at your age. You ARE on the youngish side of the sexual exploration age curve and so is she ... but you are still both within the normal ages for sexual activity in American culture.
I ask you again WHY you feel there is something _______ (insert your unhappy feeling there) about her not being a virgin? What ever your negative feelings are about her sexual experiences they are your feelings caused by something within your own set of experiences in life. Don't judge her based on your ideas of how you think she should conduct her self sexually before you became involved with her. She is a female willing to give you a part of herself ... accept that gift, give the same to her that she gives you, and go with it.
She absolutely will not be your last sexual experience, so when the next female comes along will that next female have the right to judge you based on your status as a virgin? Would you want her to even think that way? Would you respect a woman who judged you based on whether you were a virgin?
I ask you again WHY you feel there is something _______ (insert your unhappy feeling there) about her not being a virgin? What ever your negative feelings are about her sexual experiences they are your feelings caused by something within your own set of experiences in life. Don't judge her based on your ideas of how you think she should conduct her self sexually before you became involved with her. She is a female willing to give you a part of herself ... accept that gift, give the same to her that she gives you, and go with it.
She absolutely will not be your last sexual experience, so when the next female comes along will that next female have the right to judge you based on your status as a virgin? Would you want her to even think that way? Would you respect a woman who judged you based on whether you were a virgin?