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I Need Asking My Girlfriend If She's A Virgin
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Jodi said:Tom Lykas is an ass!
Ugghhh!!!!
First of all, it's none of your damn business if she has had sex already or not.....
I must say, this too is bullshit. The only girls I know who would make this proposition are girls that have slept around and have good reason to be embarrassed about their number. If you don't want to know, that is one thing. But saying it is none of your partners business is complete bullshit.
For some men and women this may be the case but for many it's a just personal thing........nobody wants to talk about their previous sex life with their SO and if they do, then they are sick.clemson357 said:
You need to think like a women here for moment..............asking a girl this question is going to imply that you think that she did sleep around. So a harmless question, turns into accusation in her mind. Think from a womens perspective and maybe you can see where I'm coming from.
I would TOTALLY agree with you on that Foreman! I'm just trying to offer a different opinion here.ForemanRules said:
I would never ask and it would be up to them to initiate the conversation, but that's just me.
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Everyone sleeps around, the question is to what extent did you sleep around. If you are so ashamed that a question turns into an accusation, perhaps you shouldn't get angry at the person asking the question but instead ask yourself why you do things you are ashamed of. The fact of the matter is it is relevant to judging someone's character, their self-respect, whether they're likely to be promiscous in the future, and whether you even want to be with them. I wouldn't want to sleep with someone who fucks everything that comes along.
Bottom line, if I am going to be in a comitted relationship, I want to know a ball park figure. I also want to know if she has ever cheated before. I also want to know what contacts she has with her ex's. People talk about "setting yourself up for failure" by asking that question, I think you are setting yourself up for failure if you don't. You are going to find yourself broken hearted because your girl screwed around on you, when you wouldn't have gotten attached in the first place if you had known she had slept with 15 people at the age of 20, she cheated on every boyfriend she ever had, and she still has a thing for her ex.
Bottom line, if I am going to be in a comitted relationship, I want to know a ball park figure. I also want to know if she has ever cheated before. I also want to know what contacts she has with her ex's. People talk about "setting yourself up for failure" by asking that question, I think you are setting yourself up for failure if you don't. You are going to find yourself broken hearted because your girl screwed around on you, when you wouldn't have gotten attached in the first place if you had known she had slept with 15 people at the age of 20, she cheated on every boyfriend she ever had, and she still has a thing for her ex.
woh woh woh, I don't think you want to accuse me here but it sounds like you are and I don't like it.clemson357 said:
I don't sleep around! When I was single, hell I WISH I DID sleep around a bit. Might have helped with the sexual frustration 
Most people have had a few flings here and there but being with the same guy (marriage) for over 1/3 of my life put me out of the "norm". It also made me sexually shy after my divorce for a few years. Anyway, I don't owe an explanation for why I said what I said, but yeah, if a guy came out and asked me how many people I've been with without prior discussion of both our past experiences then yes, I would be offended. I would think he would too if I asked him. There is a way to approach it but asking out of the blue for curiousity sake is not the way to do it.I can't help but laugh and maybe you are just young but hell, I'd have dumped you on the spot if you asked me all that.
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Jodi said:woh woh woh, I don't think you want to accuse me here but it sounds like you are and I don't like it.
I can't help but laugh and maybe you are just young but hell, I'd have dumped you on the spot if you asked me all that.
Maybe that's why you've spent 1/3'rd of your life with the same man. You're a prune.
Listen you little puke, you have no fucking clue and I'm divorced for 4 years now.JordanMang said:
Next time you want to comment on my personal life, PM me so that I can tear you a new asshole! In the meantime, STFU and don't EVER comment on anything in my personal life again!
Wow, not many people have truly pissed me off and other than 1 other person on this forum, you are now the second. You better watch yourself because if I see one rule broken by you, you are fucking gone for good.
GROW UP!
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Jodi said:
Little puke? You're so old fashioned you must be reading yesterdays newspaper. Stop with the threats. You're flaming me isn't appreciated. You profiled me before I ever said anything about you.
I really wanted to call you a few other choice words but felt it was inappropriate and THEN that would be considered flaming. What I said above was far from a flame and if you think that's a threat then so be it but then it's a threat for every person on this board. Abide by the rules and don't give me a reason to ban you. I can't say that I won't have a big grin slapped across my face though when I see that you have broken a rule because that banning stick will come out faster than you can say goodbye.
Old fashioned? Me? and who has profiled who! 
Me old fashioned. If you only knew how funny that was as I am one of the most open minded person there is. I have morals and standards that I choose to live my life by but none of them are old fashioned.
Old fashioned? Me?
and who has profiled who! Me old fashioned. If you only knew how funny that was as I am one of the most open minded person there is. I have morals and standards that I choose to live my life by but none of them are old fashioned.
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Believe me, I could careless if you were to ban me. God forbid I be banned from a BB forum. The world would end.
lol what is yalls problem. Jordan why did you ever comment to a lady on here (admin) i belive and relate this thread to that. You should stick to this thread topic and not get off topic and just laugh or give advice to this kid.
On the other hand i thinks tis fucking funny that some freshmen comes to a BB forum to ask if he should ask his gf if she is a virgin.
holy shit man, that is either a joke or this is for real. But i already gave my o2 cents, as
he should just fuck her without a condom. No worries for stds, and just pull out before he shoots his load (lets hope he knows the feeling before the load comes instead of being too late) if that happens he should be beatin with a pussy stick.
On the other hand i thinks tis fucking funny that some freshmen comes to a BB forum to ask if he should ask his gf if she is a virgin.
holy shit man, that is either a joke or this is for real. But i already gave my o2 cents, ashe should just fuck her without a condom. No worries for stds, and just pull out before he shoots his load (lets hope he knows the feeling before the load comes instead of being too late) if that happens he should be beatin with a pussy stick.
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Jodi said:I can't help but laugh and maybe you are just young but hell, I'd have dumped you on the spot if you asked me all that.
I am 23, is that young? I have been more successful with relationships than almost anyone else I know.
I guess the difference is that I want to actually know the person I am involved with, you just want to settle with someone and never have to talk about your past. Everyone has regrets, and maybe you don't regret anything about you past sex life, but either way I have no patience for dirty secrets in a relationship.
Jodi said:
You can now consider this your first and ONLY warning!
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NeilPearson said:
he said "give it", not "take it" !!!!!
MyK said:he said "give it", not "take it" !!!!!
I'm not sure it matters
NeilPearson said:
Sorry, no cigar.
JordanMang said:
Oddly, I think thisk kid, who is younger than my brother and less than twice my kids age is one smart cookie..ABOUT THIS SEX TOPIC He also took this reaaaal personal! lolI too beleive that previous sexual activity is open for discussion ESPECIALLY at that age, since many engage in risky sexual behaviours, by their own will, will some persuasion, first boozenights or whatever, whether it be having several partners, unprotected sex, drug use, etc.
Hold up tho, Im not saying all teens are careless whores junkies and not all older peeps are acting intelligently, but I can attest that my generation, versus my wife's, who's 11 yrs older, has increased its knowledge and care for these issues and education, being open minded and communication has lots to do it with...
I wouldnt ask for juicy details, just knowing whether or not she's had sex and it was protected and safe is sufficient.
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A girl can still get pregnant on her period.Northernlights8 said:well then ive been luky when i was younger, but if you too scared to do that maybe he should hit it when shes on her period.
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Andrew Dice Clay to guy in Audience: "hey man, your girl is pretty hot. Is she...good in bed?ForemanRules said:The older I get the less I want to know about a womans past.
Guy: Yeah...
ADC: How do you think she got that way???
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crazy_enough said:
I too beleive that previous sexual activity is open for discussion ESPECIALLY at that age, since many engage in risky sexual behaviours, by their own will, will some persuasion, first boozenights or whatever, whether it be having several partners, unprotected sex, drug use, etc.
Hold up tho, Im not saying all teens are careless whores junkies and not all older peeps are acting intelligently, but I can attest that my generation, versus my wife's, who's 11 yrs older, has increased its knowledge and care for these issues and education, being open minded and communication has lots to do it with...
I wouldnt ask for juicy details, just knowing whether or not she's had sex and it was protected and safe is sufficient.
Thank you.
